Farra - posted on 02/08/2011 ( 15 moms have responded )
hi my names farra, my boyfriend is jamie, and our son is called Alfie.
im a stay at home mom, and daddy goes to work. he out at work from 6am-4pm, and our son goes to bed at 7pm.
daddy doesnt see baby before he goes to work, or we are just getting up as hes leaving.
when he gets home he goes on his computer and says he likes to chill out once he gets home from work.
but he doesnt seem to get it, my son will crawl upto him whilst hes on the computer n he will ignore him, or bring him to me n tell me to stop alfie going to him.
but he doesnt come home as a happy daddy, wanting to play and cuddle, he doesnt do any feeds, doesnt clean any bottles, only has a bath with him if i tell him to.
i must admit when they are together they are amazing, but they dont have much time together.
if i put my foot down and make him spend time with our baby he will, but then we argue about this probably til the next day.
so im just curious, how involved should daddy's be?
am i expecting too much from him?
or is he slacking?