how long were you involved with your baby's father before you got pregnant

Samantha - posted on 12/01/2009 ( 423 moms have responded )

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me n my daughter's father was going for like 3 years before it happen n then we broke up lik 2 years afterwards.

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Caroline - posted on 07/17/2012

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we had a one night stand, i got pregnant, that turned into a relationship

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Andrea - posted on 03/12/2013

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me and my daughters father were together 6 years before i got pregnant with my first child and then i got pregnant last year and now my daughter is 4 months old !!!

Christina - posted on 03/08/2013

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HAHA! A week! lol it all worked out, though. We've been together a year a half next month and we're engaged :)

Alyssa - posted on 03/07/2013

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I was with mine for 2 weeks then found out that I was expecting my daughter then found out I was expecting again when she was 6 months old

Zoe - posted on 02/28/2013

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I think about 2 months although 5 years later we are now married with 2 girls and couldn't be happier. :D

*Party* - posted on 02/22/2013

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Well, August 23rd is when I met my baby's daddy .
It was like a week or two later , around August 28th or something , when we first had sex . A week after that we had sex again and started dating , but broke up the day after . And then we had sex on September 5th . I'm not sure which time got me pregnant , but seeing as how the baby is due May 23rd ... It's a safe bet that the first time is probably when I got pregnant xD

Eve Marie - posted on 02/22/2013

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5 years, we were engaged but we broke up when my daughter was 2.. he was abusive.

Melanie - posted on 02/19/2013

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We were together for about a year when I got pregnant and we were married during my first trimester.

Kassidy - posted on 12/31/2012

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Haha this is sad but me and the baby daddy were just a fling. I didn't even want to believe my son was his until after he was born. Kinda sucks :/ because I truthfully do not like him at all.

Patricia - posted on 12/18/2012

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Me and my daughter father were only together for two months and i found out i was prego, sorry bad news to this story but we tried to make something work for 3 years and split in Aug of this year. But we are still fighting like cats and dogs!

Shavanda - posted on 12/14/2012

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Me n my NT were together for 2 years b4 I got prego, by time I had my daughter we we just had our 3 year anniversary. We r still together after 5 years. N we starting dating when I as 15

Julie - posted on 11/16/2012

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I could say this with ALMOST embarrassment......we were together for about 2-3 months when I got pregnant. It's been over 9 years later and we're still together. Due with child # 3 Feb 2013.

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Relationship has it's ups and downs but for the most part it's good.

Carissa - posted on 11/14/2012

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Me and my soon to be husband went out a few times in high school then after school we were together for 3-4 months and I got pregnant and now were are getting married on the day of our 5 year anniversary :)

Stephanie - posted on 10/22/2012

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We were together just under a year when I got pregnant, we were engaged and the wedding was all planned. we've been togeteher now almost 5.5 years married 4 years 3 months

Bri - posted on 10/20/2012

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My baby's daddy and I have been together for about 6 months now. I'm 2 1/2 months pregnant so not too long after we got together, but we have been living together on our own since before we found out I was pregnant so we're pretty stable.

Bri - posted on 10/20/2012

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Taylor Marie, that's good to hear that your family (growing family) is doing well. :)

Taylor - posted on 10/20/2012

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My Fiance' and I were together not even 2 months before we found out about the pregnancy. The twins will be born in December. He has been extremely supportive and hopefully we will have a lot more time together (:

Marita - posted on 10/17/2012

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Me and my sons father was together 2 years before & 3 months after we found out we decided to "take a break"..

Crystal - posted on 07/30/2012

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we were together about a month we broke up and I found out i was pregnant 2 weeks later

Michelle - posted on 07/30/2012

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Lol we were together 3 months, broke up, found out I was pregnant, but remained friends.

Victoria - posted on 07/28/2012

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me and my partner were together for a year and we are still together and have been for 3 years and 6 months.

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We had only been together for about 4 months at the most. We are still together and have been together for almost 2 and a half years. We have been engaged for over 1 year and our daughter is 14 months old.

Mikesha - posted on 07/21/2012

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We were together for about 8 months when I found out I was pregnant with our first. We just celebrated 17 years together (12 married). We have 4 kids.

Leqrisha - posted on 07/16/2012

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I was with him for about 2 years before we got pregnant and now were married a year and a half later

Ammie - posted on 07/09/2012

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My sons father and I were together about a month before I got pregnant and broke up a couple months after we found out. We aren't together anymore and he doesn't come and see him as much as I would have liked him to maybe once a month if I'm lucky but seeing as we are young and aren't together I am surprised he does come.

Braquel - posted on 07/09/2012

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we dated for 3 months then he proposed we were married 3 months after that and found we were pregnant a few days later. So six months all together.

Sally - posted on 07/04/2012

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2 months and a week... moved veryyyyy quickly and automatically when I told him he only wanted an abortion. But I've decided to keep my baby whether he's around or not. and he says he wants to be now but I'm not expecting him too.. I'd LOVE him too though because beside this we've had a great relationship and i really hope it can stay that way...

Ghada - posted on 07/03/2012

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me and my husband we dated 6 months b4 marriage i got pregnant right after that , we have almost 3 month son and we still 2gether :)

Kiersten - posted on 07/02/2012

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me and my sons father were together 2 years we had him the day after our 3 year aniversary

Alexis - posted on 06/30/2012

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9 years. It wasn't until our relationship became rocky and we were off and on did we get pregnant! Go figure right? Then we have been off and on for about another 3 and half years and I am now due any day with baby number 2. As of right now we are not together anymore. It has nothing to do with the kids it just seems that if you want to get pregnant it has to be during the worse time, if your prepared for it, like we were for the first 9 years, it doesn't seem to happen. LOL. Is daddy still in your little ones life?

ELizabeth - posted on 06/29/2012

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My husband and I were together for two months when we found out I was pregnant with our first child. At the time we weren't married and had just gotten engaged. Now this year will be three years since we been married and five years together and living together. We have a little girl who's ever so sweet. I love being a mom. I feel it was what I was put on the earth to do!:)

Courtney - posted on 06/27/2012

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We were on and off for a few years. Nothing too serious until I got pregnant. Still working on our relationship but it has gotten better.

Jessica - posted on 06/25/2012

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i was with my baby daddy for about 2 days before i got pregnant (we were friends for about 7 months before that) we were together 3 years went through a rough patch and now were are good again.

Michelle - posted on 06/23/2012

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I know this is an old post but ill answer anyway, We were together for 2 years before I fell pregnant and we have been together since with lots and lots of ups and downs, our daughter is now 2.

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My hubby and I met in May 07 got pregnant with baby #1 the end of Oct 07 got engaged Feb 08 then married April 08......now we have 2 girls and an 8 month old baby boy. There is a 6 year age difference. I got married at 19 & he was 25.

Brenna - posted on 06/16/2012

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Me and my ex were together 4 years and I got pregnant the last year. He left me after my son was born and now my husband and I have been married for 1 1/2 years and we have a 2 year old son and a 9 month old baby girl. In a bit of a rough spot because of financial and medical issues in our lives but we are going through it together and will become stronger because of it!

Laura - posted on 06/15/2012

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We'd been together one year before I fell pregnant with our first, we'd moved out and been living together 4 months by then aswell. We will have been together 5 years this year, and living together for 4 1/2. We have two children together and stronger than ever.

Andrea - posted on 06/14/2012

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We dated for two years before we got married. Our marriage lasted 9 months (I got pregnant on the 7th month of our marriage), so bottom line is I had known my son's father for almost 3 years

Faye - posted on 06/08/2012

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We dated each other for 3 years BEFORE we married and a year later, near our wedding anniversary, we got pregnant. He left 5 weeks AFTER our 15th weding anniversary and a second child. The kids were 13 and almost 10.

Tia - posted on 06/08/2012

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we were together for a year & still together now. planning on getting married :)

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