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I have a relationship problem...

Tabatha - posted on 10/15/2009 ( 4 moms have responded )

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I have a 5month old daughter,and a wonderful boyfriend.We've been together for almost 2yrs now.but in august I hungout with my ex boyfriend and we had sex.Biggest mistake.but i went over the next day and made things clear that it was a mistake i did it out of lust not love and he needs toforget that ever happened.so we havent talked in ages.But the other day he messaged me and told me he missed me and wanted to be friends again.so i listen he came over and saw me and my daughter and my boyfriend.Well I went outside and threw out some trash and i asked him who she looked like expecting him to say me or my bf.he said yea she looks like me.And now that he mentions it,she does look alot like him.Im scared I just told my bf that i cheated on him today.and hes just mad i didnt tell him how lacey may not be his.But my ex wants to be raising lacey but i know lacey is attached to david and what not.can anyone please help me...

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Chelle - posted on 10/27/2009

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id just keep the other guy well out the way of your family. as you said you have been with your man for like 2 years and he is the one that brought up your kid. and you said his a wonderful boyfriend. yur ex is exactly that for a reason. he must have not been right for you if he isnt with you now. messing up your family structure isnt fare on your child at all.

Brieyana - posted on 10/26/2009

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my advice would be to get a dna test because if your ex is the father he should get a chance to help raise your daughter and if your boyfriend loves that little girl then blood shouldn't matter. my son looks at my boyfriend as his dad and calls him dad cause he's been there from day one

Janelle - posted on 10/15/2009

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My advice would be to get a DNA test done (only if you have insurance). It doesnt really matter who the father is becuase David has been there the whole time. But if it really bugs you I would do the DNA test.

Tamzin~Rose - posted on 10/15/2009

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i say david is the father, doesnt matter if they are related or not, he has been there for you and been there from day one, weather he will be now after what happened is between you guys but for your baby's sake i hope it works out. you did do the wrong thing by your partner though and you probably wont have the same trust you guys used to. i think that guy is trying to stir shit up and if he really gave a shit he would leave you alone and stop trying to hurt you because obviously that is what he is doing, you guys broke up and that is that, if you are in a good spot now and you are truthfully sorry then i think you need to fix what you have done and hope that he forgives you, its all you can do really..

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