I need mommy friends

Angela - posted on 09/24/2009

hello im 19 a single mommy to a beautiful 15 month old girl. i no exactly how u feel too my friends all want me to do everything w them but i cant but when i have the oppurinity too they dont want to do anything w me its got to b on their time im hear if u want to chat

Megan - posted on 09/24/2009

I am a 20 yr old mom to a 3 month old son and I know how you feel none of my "friends" have anything to do with me because I do not go out anymore so I just spend time with my fiance and my son, but sometimes you just need a friend to talk to and hang out with And as far as school goes it is hard I go to school full time and work full time and it is hard it feels like I never get a break because there is always something that has to be done or taken care of. I love being a mom my son has really opened my eyes and i wanted to take a semester off of school but i thought about how I cant afford to miss school I need an education not just for myself but my son too. It is hard and a lot of people do not understand and it is very frustrating but people who do not have children do not understand there is no way they can, But one of my fav sayings that I live by each day is "When life gets to hard to stand KNEEL" and when life gets to hard I get on my knees and talk to GOD there is nothing he cant handle and nothing he cant do

Heaven - posted on 09/23/2009

Hey there! Im 19 years old and have a 3 year old daughter.. so i know all about that! i had to stop being a teenager when i was 16 and had her! I've overcame alot with her. it's been two years since her dads seen her, so i been doing it by myself! anytime you wanna talk, im here!

Shannon - posted on 09/23/2009

Hi! Im Shannon, also 22. I have a 12 month old daughter.

Deborah - posted on 09/23/2009

oh i can relate to u..... i have a 2 yr old lil girl.....i had her at 16 nd im 18 now...nd ive been lonely friend wise i dnt like hangin out w people that dnt understand that i have a kid nd i cnt do certain things that they want me to do...its frustrating...bt i luv bn a mommy even tho its really hard at times bt im blessed w my lil girl...nd ur lil gurl is adorable.... bt if u ever wanna talk hit me up or sumthn.....

Katie - posted on 09/22/2009

hi im katie im also 22 and have a 15 month old son called cory, i always like meeting new people.

Melissa - posted on 08/21/2009

im 20 with a 6 month old i kno how u feel i wanna go to college but its not working out. my sons daddy is either worling, looking for a job, or sleeping. but at least he takes the night shifts. most of my friends have kids. only 2 of my other friends have kids. the funny thing is we had our kids within 3 weeks. analissa was born feb 2nd zoey was born feb 12th, and my son was born febuary 23th. aslo zoeys mom is due with #2 10 days before zoey's 1st birthday. but were all busy im the only 1 with the car but i hardly have gas. so we hardly ever get to see eachother. and i will be glad to be ur friend.

Kristen - posted on 08/20/2009

I know what you mean. I'm 18 with a 3 month old and crazy lonely. I still get time wirh friends and I am so thankful for the awesome people who will occasionally watch my daughter but I still hate leaving her. Currently, I'm dealing with a 19 year old dead beat daddy who was supposedly "so in love" "wanted to get married" and then I got pregnant and now he's off with his 16 year old gf...... ill gladly be a confident! : D

Eloise - posted on 08/20/2009

Hey I'm 19 and im a mummy to a gorgeous 5 weeks old baby girl, and i know exactly what your going through! All my friends are now inviting me out to parties and asking me to go out with them just like we used to, and although i differ from you as i am still living at home and have help from my partner it's still hard to do all these things at once.



but you have come to the right place!! I have found people using this sight so helpful and supportive, anything you have worries about or anything you just want to post you can and people will message back with the most supportive and helpful messages you will ever get.



I am hoping that in september i can go back to college and do a hairdressing course, and have found a perfect course which is only part time which i shall hopefully start in september and if a cannot handle being away from my baby for that long i will deffer the course till i am ready to leave her.



Just hand in there, you have all the support and friends you need on here if you ever need to chat!



xxxx

Maria - posted on 08/20/2009

I know how you feel hun.. I'm 20 and i just had a baby girl in July she is 1 month old and i feel like I lost alot of friends because they don't understand how it is to be a mother and I cant do the things I used to with them. I'd love to talk with other young moms who feel the same.

JACQUIE - posted on 08/20/2009

I was 15 when I had my oldest daughter. It was a very lonely time, but looking back on it I wouldn't change a single thing. I didn't do any of the normal teen age things, but I was determined to break the cycle so I worked hard and went to school and I was determined to do the best job I could raising a little girl who knew what it was like to work hard, to be loved always, and to always keep your manners. Today she is 23 and living on her own. she'll forever be my baby. I'm here if you need to talk, vent, cry, rage, or have any questions. Life may not always be fair, but make what you can of it. You only get one go around on the merry go round.

Tia - posted on 08/20/2009

Hi i'm 19 turning 20 in a couple of weeks and I have a 14 month old and a 3 month old... none of my friends or family understands what it's like to sit at home with two babies all day...not even my husband. As for school check out career pathways. They will pay for most, if not all, of your school and day care. That's the path I'm taking so I can start school.

Ter - posted on 08/19/2009

hey hunni i think we r in da same boat ..... well where u from wb terri

Stephanie - posted on 08/16/2009

hey girl. i was 16 when i got pregnant and am now 25 with a 7 yr. old daughter. my daughters dad left me when she was 3 months old. i have been single since. i finished high school and started a full time job only to pay daycare. i have been doing college online since. it does take longer then inschool. but you still get a degree and its cheaper in alot of schools online. i have been through it all. and i mean ALL. so if you want you can look me up on facebook or just write me. stephanievaughn21@hotmail. any other girls want to just chat, let me know. i am still single, but i am loving it. but also very lonley.

Michelle - posted on 08/15/2009

I am 29 now, but got pregnant with my first when I was 17 and had her when I was 18. I know exactly what you're going through. I lost the majority of my friends and my bf, now husband, did too. We have a few close friends that stuck by us and my family has been very supportive. We've been married 10yrs and have 4 kids now, but we don't have a lot of friends. Most people our ages are just getting married and don't understand why we can't hire a sitter for 4 kids and go out to the bars. Feel free to add me to your circle and if you ever want to talk, I'm on a lot. I'm a stay at home mom now and I'm working on going back to school online. Heck, if you lived close by I'd babysit for you so you could go back to a campus college. I do it for some of the mom's around here for free. My kids will all be in school full time starting this year and I'm going to be sooo bored! The economy stinks and I can't even find a part time job to get out of my house. This = a lot of free time. :)

Chelsea - posted on 08/15/2009

hey ya im chels im 18 n have a 9 week old baby girl i no wat u mean iv lost loads ovme m8s coz i dnt go out wid them any more its hard .. add me 2 ur circle of mom n we can talk if u want x

Amanda - posted on 08/13/2009

i know what you mean. I'm 18 and i have 2 beautiful daughters. An almost 2 year old and a 6 month old. Its hard especially trying to get back in school as well. If you need anyone to talk to just message :)

Kayla - posted on 08/13/2009

hi myself is also 22 add me to your circle and we could talk the only difference is i have three children and 2 step children!!

Lauren - posted on 08/13/2009

heyy :) i'm lauren, mummy to a gorgeous 8 month old little man. i know the feeling, we can't just chuck money around like we used to..we have someone else to think about. i'd like to chat with you sometime :)

Gianna - posted on 08/13/2009

HI chik, my am 19 & also a single mother, of a 3 year old beautiful princess.

i know your feeling lonely but dont worry everything comes with its time,

your daughter is adorable if you need to chat my email is G-parody@hotmail.co.uk

u can also look me up in facebook .

Carey - posted on 08/13/2009

I am 17, almost 18 years old and I have a 15 month old son. And I get what your saying about friends wanting you to go out all the time. A lot of my friends don't understand that I can't go out all the time. I can't afford an after hours baby sitter. And it really sucks because I don't have very many friends that have kids, and the ones I do have are male except for one. So any time you want to talk I'm here.



Carey

Cassandra - posted on 08/13/2009

hey yeah I get that, all my friends are doing there own thing and I am at home. I have some mom friends but I hardly see any of them because their kids are a few months younger than my son, ( he is 10months) I am sure once he gets a little bit older it will be different because it wont be such a gap, but for now I just sit at home bored.

Jess - posted on 08/12/2009

Hi girl!

I'm Jess, I'm 18 to a 6 month old baby boy :)

I know how you feel, a lot of my friends have dropped me because I don't have the time to do things like I used to and have had to create a new circle of Mummy friends! I can relate to you in that way! I'd like to chat & keep you company :)

Take care

Danielle - posted on 08/12/2009

I totally understand im 9 months pregnant 17 , married and my husband just deployed to Iraq, it seems like no one understands how it is to be pregnant and go through this stuff being young. seems all my friends care about is going out at partying, no fun when your pregnant && uncomfortable! if you wanna chat, add me!

Ter - posted on 08/11/2009

hey im 18 year old i no wht you mean i hav 2 babys 1 is 18months and 1 is 2 months and my boyfriend works out of town so he is always gone i always feel lonely as everbody is doing things and your stuck at home bored looking after your baby so im with ya on this 1 if u ever need to talkk i will talk im always on the computer Write bak

Kyra - posted on 08/10/2009

and kathleen, your not alone chickie :) and with the ex if he's done that he obviously isn't worth it and your Mr right is out there somewhere, keep your chin up

Kyra - posted on 08/10/2009

heya andi. if you can't afford school you always have online classes :-D that way you get your education up but don't need to spend alot of money for day care OR school :-D
well atleast in Australia they have that :-S


i'd love to talk to you :-D

Missy - posted on 08/10/2009

you're preaching to the choir girl, i totally know what you mean. I'm 18 and I have a 1 month old son and my friends dont get it either.

Kathleen - posted on 08/10/2009

hello im 19 im a single mother to my 18 month old son.. i know exactly how you feel all my friends want me to go out and party with them but i cant!! it makes me feel realy lonely aswell especially since my ex boyfriend just broke up with me now i feel like i have no one. i would love to chat with you :)