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i really need help !!!

Charisma - posted on 06/22/2012 ( 8 moms have responded )

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I have now been with my on again/ off again son father for 6 yrs . He was lock up for 2 yrs and I help him out for the most part . But ever since he came home he completely change . He doesnt wrk or go to school . We fight all the time & I caught him cheating on me . He hits me in front of our 3 yr old son and I always end up with bruises . he always in the street and hangin with his friends and hardly spends time with his son . He brought my son a couple of sneakers and 2 outfits since he been home . I try to explain things to his mom but she thinks hes a wonderful dad & loves what he does . I have now stop my son from going to her house . My son had a gold bracelet that was givin to him on the day he was born and now it went missing . I have reasons to believe he pawn it . Recently his current chick call me and said how he brought her REALLY expensive shoes and only got my son 2 cheap outfits . That blew my mind !!! I'm ready to take him to court for full custody and I don't even want my son around him at all , but his family seem to think I'm takin things over board . Am I wrong in any way ???

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Tina - posted on 06/30/2012

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Who cares what his family thinks he's your son. They not arond 100% to see what's really going on so don't worry about them. Do what you feel is right for your son. His father clearly isn't the type of role model you want for him. Ask around for help and for emergency housing because you might need a safe place if he does become nasty very likely given his record. Do what ever you have to do to keep yourself and your son safe.

Ana - posted on 06/29/2012

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You are your childs mother... if you think there is anyone in your childs life that should not be for YOUR reasons, then you have a right to check it out and have or try to have them removed....

Your baby cannot speak up for himself...if you don't say anything to help him when he needs it (especially to OTHER ADULTS) then who's really looking out for him?

It's gotta be you...

Always know what you are doing.. get help.. go to a community center or your Dr's office, they often have flyers for people/counselors that you can talk to in order to help you file for custody or just get away from him (beating you and such)...

All of what you are dealing with requires help.....real help.. not people or friends telling you "don't worry about it."

Jessica - posted on 06/28/2012

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no you are not wrong in any way. i would take my baby daddy to court if he did those things to me. of course his mother would think that she's the mother. i hope you are no longer with him or putting up with his shit you nor your son deserves to be treated like that. taking the father to court i no will be hard and something you wouldnt wanna do but it would be best.

Dynisha - posted on 06/27/2012

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no i don't not think your wrong at all girl you have to do what you got to do for your baby take him to court get full custody and put him on child support and if he have a problem with that he's just gone have to do better.

Misha - posted on 06/24/2012

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I dont think your in the wrong you just want whats best for your son your babys father has to learn the hard way and if his mother is not supporting your decision then just stop calling her there the ones that are going to miss out not you

Alura - posted on 06/24/2012

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F#$k him. Get full custody. no mom should have to put with that crap. Getting your babies away from him is the best thing you can do for them.

Cate - posted on 06/24/2012

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you are not wrong in any way. you are only trying to protect yourself and your son. if i was in your situation, i would most definitally be doing what you plan on doing. make yourself happy and dont bother trying to make his family happy. you shouldnt be with someone who hits you in front of your child. fight for the full custody. its hard leaving your baby daddy but it might be worth it.

Charisma - posted on 06/22/2012

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help someone ????

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