im 13 and i had sex with a 16 what do i tell my parents cause i think im pregnant but in my heart its also saying im not?

Laura - posted on 09/01/2012

Totally agree with Samantha, a child shouldn't have a child let alone be having unsafe sex. Young people think having a baby is easy it's not I had my first at 19 and it was hard work, sleepless nights and the responsibility f looking after a little life. I'm not judging in the slightest. U need to think of ur health a 13 year olds body isn't meant for delivering a baby what happens if u r preg and u have life threatening complications? Good luck.

Angela - posted on 08/20/2012

Trust me you have your entire life to worry about relationships sexual or otherwise. I would make sure because it is way too early to tell for sure. I would tell a family member or your parents because it would help to become more educated about sex.

Samantha - posted on 08/20/2012

I'm sorry but I'm going to say what nobody else seems to want to say to you. YOU ARE A CHILD! Why on earth are you having sex? None the less, at your age you should be responsible enough to start a family planning program if you ever even thought about sex. You should also have had the self respect to wait! Get a test ASAP and find out if you are pregnant. IF you are, be honest. You felt adult enough to have sex. You may now have to act like one and tell your parents. With every action there is a reaction. There are consequences to all that you do in life. Learn that now while you are young. Your consequence may be giving up you childhood to be a mom!!! No matter what, don't forget about your mom. She loves you and you should have trusted her enough to go to her with this from the beginning, instead of getting advice from a whole bunch of women you have never met. Be strong and good luck!

Melissa - posted on 08/13/2012

You should buy a pregnancy test they will tell you if you are & if your pregnant try talking with the father of the baby & then with your mom i had my first baby at 15 & i didn't wanted to tell my parents cause they would start a fight with me & i was also scared but it's best to tell your parents they'll help you no matter what! Good Luck

Carlisle - posted on 08/12/2012

DO NOT TELL UR PARENTS UNTIL YOUR SURE!!! I am 14 and trust me hun, its better to be sure. Wait until 2 months after uv concieved because ur still so young, your baby can die inside of you because ur body isnt ready to support him, my baby died 5 weeks after he was created

Grace - posted on 08/12/2012

If your period is usually regular & it's late this time , you should probably wait until you're about 4 days late & check w/ a pregnancy test .

Alura - posted on 08/02/2012

There is nothing wrong with Planned Parenthood.. she wasnt a girl she was a 24 year old woman in her second trimester. They give you options they dont talk you into anything they are there for support in whatever decision you make. You need to take a pregnancy test ASAP so you know your options. You are So young.. please take precautions before having sex. If you dont plan on stopping you Need to go on the pill. If your not pregnant now, its only a matter of time before you will become pregnant and i promise you you Will become pregnant. Good luck.

Ana - posted on 07/28/2012

I don't suggest going to a Planned Parenthood type place without talking with your parents first because thoes places can be dangerous. And you never know what they may try to talk you into..

If you look at the recent news, a girl just died from getting an abortion in one of thoes places..

And as a young girl, you may not be aware of your full health condition, so it's best to take a home test, then if positive tell your parents so that you can go to a real Dr's office and be cared for.

If your parents do not have insurance, there are still ways for you to get help to be seen, but you will have to talk to a school counselor or someone else in your family who may be able to help you.

Ana - posted on 07/28/2012

Yes, you need to take a pregnancy test. If it is positive, then you need to tell your parents so that they can get you a dr's appointment to be seen so that you can be cared for.

Mommalove - posted on 07/20/2012

I really think you should tell your parents if you think you are pregnant because if you are they are going to have to find out anyway. Just find the right way to tell them because when i first found out i was pregnant was with my dad at the doctor and i did not even see it coming, i had no idea i was pregnant until the doctor told me and my dad. While he was mad i was in shock but after he calmed down (4 days later) he talked to me but point is he was not as mad as i thought he was because after a while of noticeing he had to talk to me we talked about it and your parents might do the same and figture out whats best for you and if your not pregnant they can get you on birth control. Also whether you liked it or not he still can get in trouble because it is statutory rape which means your not old enough to consent to have sex i am not judging an any way thats just how the law is and he can get in a lot a trouble.

Crystal - posted on 07/20/2012

Have we got a result?? My gosh darling you are so young, it is illegal and 13 just isn an age to be having sex (just my opinion not judging, just worried) At just children yourself u dont want to be having babies, you dont have full education, job, license house, etc having a baby is a huge responsibility they cost alot they get sick they poop they demand they need you 24/7...would you be ready for that??

Please please please take the right precautions when having sex

Tina - posted on 07/19/2012

If you're scared. Number one take a test to be sure before you panic. As you've learn boys will say anything to get in your pants. Learn from this experience and either don't do it or practice safe sex and also look into birth control as a back up do not use it alone always use a condom as these do not protect you from std's and are not full proof. Find another female friend or family member you can trust to talk to or school councellor. This boy can get into trouble even if you did want it. It is illegal and not only that he clearly manipulated you. Do not wait too long to find out.

Louise - posted on 07/15/2012

If you had unprotected sex you could of gone to the family planning clinic up to a week later and took the morning after pill. Go to a female family member for support and advice. If this is a false alarm you really need to protect yourself from disease and pregnancy. You are so very young please think before doing this again.There is nothing wrong with saying no! This boy could be in a lot of trouble, what he has done is statutory rape and he could go to jail should your parents prosecute him.

Go and talk to your family member and then wait for your period. If it does not come then take a test and find out for sure before deciding what you should do next.

Ammie - posted on 07/14/2012

Take a test before you become to freaked out. Its only been a week so its still early.