Lonely Stay at home mom, wanting moms to really talk to close to my age.

Autumn - posted on 08/20/2010 ( 64 moms have responded )

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Hey, my name is Autumn and I am 18. I have been married 2 years and moved out of home state with my husband. All of my family is close by, but I want people to talk to people that wont try to tell me what I should do. I am a good mother and want other young mothers to chat with. I have added a few people to my facebook, but they never talk to me and it seems pointless. I want to get to know someone that I can really talk to. Take it slow, test the waters and work on a new friend ship.

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Andrea - posted on 03/28/2014

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hi im 18 with a 2 year old and also married almost 2 years. i would love to chat with you.

Tammy - posted on 03/28/2014

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hey there, I'd love to chat with you moms as well, my name is Tammy and I have a Vlog channel on youtube, come see and see you there xox https://www.youtube.com/user/MsPrettymum

Misty - posted on 10/07/2013

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I feel the exact same way it's so hard to get your social life back after giving it up for kids everyone is so superficial and fake.

Vanessa - posted on 12/29/2012

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hello I'm Vanessa I feel embarrassed to say it but I despratly need a friend I'm a depressed mother of 3 and I'm 22 I feel alone isolated. My boyfriend and I feel like room mates that barely see each other.

Mac Mornie Vanessa - posted on 08/16/2012

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hello im just 21 and my son is 2 years old... im a single mother
wanna make friends

Brandy - posted on 08/14/2012

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Hi autumn my name is brandy i am in the exact same shoes as you are. I need to build a realy close bond and friend ship with somone as well. Its alwsys nice to gave someone to talk to. Im 20 and i have a three month old daughter. But i would realy enjoy talking to you through email or text. But my email is brandymathis32@yahoo.com i hope to hear from you soon .. And tgis is also for anyone else who would like to meet new friends

Heidi - posted on 09/19/2010

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Hey girl:) I'm Heidi. I'm 21. If you'd like you can my myspace if you have one www.myspace.com/toosexieforyou

Mercedes - posted on 09/16/2010

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hey im mercedes. im also a stay at home mom.i 18 years old and have a wonderful baby boy who is 5 months old.lets be friends

Nelly - posted on 09/13/2010

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I kno what you mean.. My name is nelly and I'm 17 and have a son named Jordan he's 3mnths old..you should add me on here so we can talk :)

Esmeralda - posted on 09/13/2010

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OMG I know how you feel. I feel so disconnected from all of my friend because I rarely go out anymore and all I talk about is my little girl so not all of my friends can relate to that cuz well I'm only 19

Ashlee - posted on 09/13/2010

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My name is Ashlee and I'm 18 also. I have an 8 month old son. I stay home all day with my lil man while my mom and boyfriend work. I take online classes through St. Leo university and my two best friends moved to actually attend St. Leo university, I know what your going through!!!!!!! feel free to add me on facebook.

Carol - posted on 09/05/2010

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hi, my name is carol. Im 20 yrs old right now I have two kids a 17 mo old boy and a 4 mo old girl and i am married. My closest family is all the way across the country on the east coast and literally the only person i talk to on face book is my mother in law....that sounds so sad but shes cool.

Maddi - posted on 09/03/2010

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hello thats exactly how i feel too! im 17 and live with my parents right now cuz my husband lost his job and i live in the middle of nowere with my baby girl whos 5 months. i would love to talk to you and get to know you better :D if you want add me to my facebook my email is chaostheory_09@yahoo.com and ill actually talk to u too lol

Nora - posted on 09/03/2010

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Hey I'm nora I'm 21 and mother of a 16 month old girl and 5 months pregnant with a. Boy. Trust me I know how u feel I just got my license 2 days ago but up till then I was stuck home all day every day my husband worked 14 hour days and I didn't drive and was just home nearly 2 years alone all day it got so bad I had to start taking antidepressants to help me out. My friends seem too busey for me and my family live 45 min away and never want. To visit. My daughter is my only real friend at the moment. Sad but true without her I would be lost. But look for me on facebook. Nora jackson

Toni - posted on 09/02/2010

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Hello Autumn :)
I am 19 (nearly 20) years old and I have been with my partner for nearly 3 years now. I moved in with him early and we have been acting like we are married since then.
My son is nearly 2 and just started playgroup, and he loves it.
I know how you feel. It does get very lonely being a young mum, all of my friends are off at some night club almost every night, and all the other mums in my town are alot older than me.
I would love to get to know you more.

Teresa - posted on 09/02/2010

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Autumn,
May I suggest you avoid the teen scene, the average teen mom ends up wanting to party and is not in love being a mom. I was a teen mom at 16 and stuck by myself until I made friends in a church. I learned from older mothers and my children made friends too:) Feel free to look me up on FB!

Breana - posted on 09/01/2010

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I would love to talk anytime you need to, I am always on facebook since I am a stay at home mom. Look me up. Breana McCoy and my pic is of my daughter.

Dyno - posted on 09/01/2010

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Hey Autumn, I'm Dyno. I'm 19 bout to turn 20 with a 7 month old son. I am always looking for people to chatter with. I am not on here often but I am on facebook a lot and I am always looking for new people to talk with. My facebook is Dyno Witt add me if you'd like, I love chatting with new people.

Ashlie - posted on 09/01/2010

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Hi I am Ashlie I am also 18 and moved out of my parents house with my fiance for almost four months now I also stay at home with our son who is now 8 months old if you want you can add me on here or on facebook

Kimberly - posted on 08/30/2010

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Hey girl! My name is Kimbely Mushinski. I am a SAHM/Full time student! My husband and I have been married for 5 months now and SURPRISE! we are now 4 months pregnant! I don't get much time with friends, as most of them are at college now. I really only have one other friend who has a child and still lives in Houston, and we don't get together much, unfortunately! I would love to chat! I couldn't find you on fb, but if you can find me should add me! my fb name is Kimberly Mushinski Rossi. I tried to add you, but couldn't find you! I hope we can talk some time soon!

Kristy - posted on 08/30/2010

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Hey Im Kristy, I live in Australia, im 23 and I have a 3 year old son, 4 in nov, and a 2 month old daugter, Gracie. If you wanna chat on facebook just add me, Kristy Aparicio :) would be happy for a chat any time. Take care. xx

Lisa - posted on 08/29/2010

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Hey my name is Lisa and I m 21 and have two little boys 5 1/2 and 2 1/2. I don't have that many friends how are moms so I think it would be cool to talk with you.

Heather - posted on 08/29/2010

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Awwl i understand what u mean. u can add me. ill talk to ya and stuff..i am 18. i just got married this year =]

Gail - posted on 08/28/2010

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i understand everyone needs someone trust worthy to speak with n its always better from sum1 on the outside well i 17 with a 9 month old and i am always available n on facebook so add me if u want to -gail bailey

Samantha - posted on 08/28/2010

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Hay babe im sam and i just turned 20 on the 26th of august, i have 7month old baby boy and im married and live in aussie and left all my friends and family in nz to come here to my partners family and im finding it really hard as i have no friends and family and would just love to talk so give me a add if you want babe xxx

Angela - posted on 08/27/2010

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hi, i am 20 years old with a almost 2 yr. old and a 2 week old. i got married at 18 and have the same issues. everyone my age do not have kids or are not married, its hard to relate with them anymore.

Sarah - posted on 08/27/2010

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Hi Autumn,

My name is Sarah and I am 23. I had my son when I was 17, and I spent my 18th birthday breastfeeding. But that is okay, my son is the light of my life. He is 6 and in 1st grade. Time sure does whiz by, the next time I blink he will be getting married. :( I am a stay-at-home mom as well. For awhile, it didn't matter how far away from my family was, I got it from all sides. Everyone has their childhood as a basis for how they raise their children, and it is those very people who taught us that try to tell us we NEED to do things different. How about I try it, and if it doesn't work I will try your way. We are all good mothers here, that is why we are on CoM. If you want, look for me on facebook- Sarah Lizama

Sasha - posted on 08/26/2010

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Hi Autumn. Im sasha im almost 19 and i have a 13month old and am 6 week's pregnant. You can add me on facebook if you like i'll talk to you anytime. Im under Sasha Kathleen.

Cheyne - posted on 08/24/2010

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Hey, I'm Cheyne. I'm 19 next week, engaged and have a 14 month old son. My fiance works really long hours and it's tough but I'm a good Mummy and do the best I can :). I lost a lot of friends when I got pregnant, so it's so awesome to be friends with other Mums- who know what you're going through!!! Add me on facebook :)

Courtney - posted on 08/24/2010

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hey my name is courtney...im 21 my husband and i hace been married for 2yrs...id love to get to know you more you can add me on facebook...hope to talk to you soon

Alexx - posted on 08/24/2010

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I'm 18 and a stay at home mom. I have a 2 year old daughter. I was 16 when I had her and it hasnt been easy

Darby - posted on 08/24/2010

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Hi, I'm Darby. I'm a little older than you (just turned 30) now, but I was 18 when my first was born. I am a mommy of 4 and have been married for 10 years to my husband and we've been together for almost 13 years. If you ever wanna chat, I'm here :-)

Tiana - posted on 08/24/2010

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Hi Autumn my name is Tiana i am 18 and i have a 14 month old boy and i am expecting my second son for september 20th. i currently am with the father of my boys and were engaged and hes looking for a job and has been for awhile but where we live its very hard. i understand how you feel about being lonley as i feel like that lot as well. why u may ask well my fiance always gets to go hang with his friends and he gets away for a few night here and there. well me on the other hand yea i go out with my mom here and there but i never ever get to hang out with friends anymore. why cuz they have all either moved, had kids of there own and are too busy, or there ex boyfriends. so i never get time for me to hang out with my friends and be myself dont get me wrong i love my kids dearly but having friends is nice to. so if you ever wanna chat add me on facebook. Tiana Manners. or we can talk through here deff looking for new friends to talk to

Jessica - posted on 08/23/2010

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Hi!
My name is Jessica, I am 23. I have 3 kids. 2 Boys and a girl. Jaden is 5, Ethan is 4 and Kaelynn is almost 7 months. I got married when I was 17. I have been a stay at home mom for most of the marriage. I love meeting new people and am very friendly. I like to help and try to give advice if wanted or needed. Or just give support if thats whats needed. Add me on facebook if you think that you would like to talk to me. Email is: jadethanmom@hotmail.com

Kayla - posted on 08/23/2010

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hey autumn,
im kayla, im 19 and i have a 4 month old boy. been married to my hubby for a year in december :) we're a military family, im looking for some mothers my age too, feel free to add me either on here or on facebook. my facebook name is kayla barker :)

Alysha - posted on 08/23/2010

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He Autumm,
I'm Alysha and just turned 20 a few months ago. My daughter is 4.5 months and I know what you mean by you're tired of having people telling you what to do. My family does that to me on a regular basis.
I'm not married, I live at home and I really don't have any friends to talk to either. Even though most of my friends are parents, none of them seem to want to hang out with me or have a play date with our children. It's pretty sad now that I really think about it.

If you ever wanna just talk, I'm all ears.

Amanda - posted on 08/23/2010

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Your welcome to add or message me on FB. I talk to almost everyone that friends me unless they don't talk to me at all. I love making friends :)...

Nichole - posted on 08/23/2010

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Hi Autumn! I'm Nichole. I am 21 I have been a stay at home mom on and off for the last 4 yrs, most of the time has been spent as a stay at home mom. I completely understand your feeling. I had friends in high school, but then became pregnant with my son and graduated, and lost all my friends. My boyfriend is my one and only friend and it is a sad feeling. If you would like you can always add me on facebook, it would be really nice to talk to someone. I am on facebook all the time. I have 2 children. My son will be 4 in oct. and my daughter will be 3 in march.. They are growing so much and so fast but you can't talk to your kids like you can a friend. LOL..

Laura - posted on 08/23/2010

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hey Autumn

i'm Laura i turned 24 last month and like you i'm a stay at home mum i have 2 wonderful boys eric whos 41/2 and luke is 5 months i know how you feel most of my friends were all there when i was pregnant with my first but as soon as i had him dat was it they stoped calling over so i myself am looking for friends who are in a similar situation to chat to so if ya want to chat some time just send me a message im also on face book :D

Stacey - posted on 08/23/2010

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Hello Autumn,
I'm Stacey and i'm 20. I have a 2 month old daughter, and i know the feeling of being alone. I THOUGHT I had a million and one friends but I only talk too my 2 bestfriends anymore, but they don't have a child so its hard too try and connect with them the same way as I did before. Feel free too add me on facebook, it'd be great too make a new friend : )

Brittany - posted on 08/22/2010

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Heyy Autumn. Im Brittany. I just turned 19 not to long ago. I have a 1 month old litle boy. Im also a stay at home mommy. My fiance works alot and then trys to be the 21yr old he is and go hang out with his friends. I know the feeling of wanting some other young moms to talk to, dont seem to be very many around where i live. So feel free to add me on facebook. Im usually on it alot.

Cassandra - posted on 08/22/2010

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Hi Autumn, My name is cassandra My daughter's name is Autumn as well! I'm 20 years old just turned my dauvhter is 16 months! your more then welcome to add me! i love talkin with people! The father isnt involved in my daughters life right now so i know how it feels to be lonely! So your more then welcome to add me Cassandra sumrow is my name!

Rebecca - posted on 08/22/2010

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Hi, my name is Becki. I am 18 and have been married for 2 years. I have 3 kids, a 3 year old a 17month old and a 4 week old. I am still learning about being a mother (when do you ever stop learning) but i would be glad to talk with you any time. You can find me on facebook.

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