Looking for teen moms to talk to...

Sheree - posted on 12/13/2010 ( 68 moms have responded )

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Hey, im sheree im 18 and i have a 6 month old daughter,
i dont really have alot of friends left after i had my daughter they all got sick of having a baby tag along... so i was just looking for some teen moms to that i can talk to that know what im going threw
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Tanya - posted on 12/17/2010

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I'm here if you need to talk =) I'm 19 and my daughter is 4 months old.. I definately know how you feel. When I got pregnant, everyone just assumed I would stop hanging out, so they never got ahold of me to do anything, and when I did try hanging out with friends again (who didnt have kids) I got the whole "You have a baby?!" along with disapproving looks. I just smile and start bragging her up, cuz I know that she'll always be there, not them, and she's always going to be my number one. Once you get older and more people your age have babies, itll be easier to relate to them again.

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Hannah - posted on 11/17/2013

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hey, im hannah and 2 months pregnant and 18! id love to talk to you or anyone else too!

Pangg - posted on 02/07/2013

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Hello, Im a teen mother myself, and i know how you feel. Everything will start to change, always live life to the fullest. It you need anyone to talk too, you can always feel free to msg me.

Heather - posted on 09/12/2012

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I am 18 as well I have a 2 year old and my friends hated having a baby tag along so I threw them out of my life my name is heather.

Caroline - posted on 09/12/2012

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Hi, I'm Caroline. I'm 15 years old, and the first time I had sex I got pregnant with a little baby boy. I'll be 30 weeks along September 16th, 2012. After my family and I found out, it seems like I've caused all the problems. My family wants me to make an open adoption plan, and they always said it was "my choice" and since I started making the adoption plan everyone was supportive, but I just couldn't seem to go through with even meeting a couple. I've been depressed and hating every day because I feel like I don't have a choice and that he's getting taken from me without my say. I stood up for myself and said I didn't want an adoption plan, I wanted to parent. Everyone including my son's father turned against me. Every day my dad says I'll never get into college, that I'll never get a job, and I ruined the family. My mom tells me I'm a whore, and I won't be successful and probably won't get out of high school and she doesn't even know if she can love my son. I want to be able to provide a good life for my son and I, but everyone seems like they know better and I'll ruin mine and his life. I need someone to talk to. Anyone who won't yell at me for wanting to parent...

Meow - posted on 09/06/2012

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hello teen moms.

im 17. ive been with my boy friend for 16-17 months.

and i am obsessed with my future. all i can think about is baby names having babies my future house my job college.

i know horomones and normality. but nothing helps me get my mind off it, i just want opinions on how teen moms feel about it. whats life like? i watch teen mom blogs, tweet stalk. i talk about it as much as possible with my boyfriend who definately wants to wait and me too but i just cant think about anything else. i read getting a pet and taking care of it or babying sitting other babies and children. that doesnt help. i have kittens some need bottle fed. i have lots of cats. :p 5. also i have a big extended family and i have babysat for them so many times and the kids are all just great one of my aunts has 5 kids ranging from 3 months to 10. & i babysit them all its not enough. i get angry when i see teen moms from my neighborhood. i dont want them to take my baby names and im not even prego. idk what is going on or how to control the urge, email me akrestal@gmail.com

Courtnee - posted on 09/04/2012

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Hi! I'm Courtnee. I am 19, and have a 19 month old son. I had him 2 months before my 18th birthday. I only have one friend. And she has a 8 month old baby, who is my princess. But, luckily she stayed by me the whole pregnancy. :)) But I lost about 20+ friends along the way, bc I have a responsibilty now, and I choose not to go out and get stupid all the time. But, their loss bc my baby is an amazing, smart little boy. :))

Victoria - posted on 08/30/2012

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My name is victoria prado im turning 15 and im already pregnant :( i need advice please send me a message on facebook anyone :"( i have the same profile picture Or on yahoo its victoriaprado552@yahoo.com and skype its vickyprado123 please thank you im so scared

Carmen - posted on 01/08/2012

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im always here to talk, add me on facebook Carmen Romberger. i have a 4 month old daughter and lost alot of friends also, i dont want to burden the ones that remain and im hoping to make friends with girls who have children as well

Alice - posted on 12/27/2011

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i would love to talk to you my name is Alice im 16 and my baby was born on christmas 12/25 of 2011

Makayla - posted on 12/25/2011

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i under stand that i lost all my friends after i had my little one, and just be losing my husband to. its painful...

Elaina - posted on 12/22/2011

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you can talk to me whenever, i know what it feels like to not have any friends. even those who had kids left after i had my daughter.

Kayla - posted on 12/21/2011

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You can talk to me if you'd like:) I'm 20 with a 20 month old son, and another one on the way:)

Amy - posted on 12/16/2011

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im 17 and 7 months pregnant and im going through the same thing.but they already left and i havn't even had the baby yet.

Amy - posted on 12/16/2011

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im 17 and 7 months pregnant and im going through the same thing.but they already left and i havn't even had the baby yet.

Kalissta - posted on 12/06/2011

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the same happened to me all my friends gradually stopped hanging with me cuz my twin boys alwayys had to tag along, even new friends i make , the friendship dont last long. im 17 with twin boys who will be 2 on feb 8th 2012 by the way! if u ever need to talk just msg me !

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I'm Amy & I'm 21 :)
I had my son when I was 18, so I know what it's like having most of ur 'friends' forget about you.
I'm here if yu wanna talk :) xo

Ashleigh Jade - posted on 02/24/2011

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Im ashleigh im 21, and i have 3 kids under 5. Im here if anyone wants to talk :)

Sarah - posted on 12/21/2010

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I hear u there. when i was 18 i got pregnant and had my son at 19, before I got pregnant I was partying all the time with "my friends" while I was pregnan they wanted to hang out all the time, said they would always be around couldnt wait for the baby to be born. Made a couple of them god parents, now I never hear from them let alone see them. im here if you wants to talk hun!

Katie - posted on 12/21/2010

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Yeah I always learned that them kinda friends u don't need in ur life.. they always bring you down. I have one best friend that I honestly thought that me nd her would never be friends. But in the end she's the bestest friend ever nd I love her nd her lil boy

Heather - posted on 12/20/2010

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I know what you are going through im 16 years old and have a 3 month baby bout to be 4 and all my friends ditch me b.c they acted well she cant hang anymore so they left me behind, i had no body to talk at school nymore which made me drop out.

Katie - posted on 12/20/2010

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Hey I'm katie nd I'm 20 nd I have a little boy that is a month old. &I used to have a lot of friends.. but I recently just found out who my true friends r. If u ever needa friend message me

Holly - posted on 12/20/2010

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Hey, I am Holly, I'll be 19 on the 26th of this month and my daughter will be one on the 27th of this month. I don't have friends but it was the opposite for me.. I got rid of them because they were too immature for me. I moved to a different city as well where I know hardly anyone. Feel free to talk to me, I used to give advice to everyone about anything. :-)

Bridgette - posted on 12/20/2010

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he y i had the same issue with my friends i got pregnant when i was 18 and had my son when i was 19 im 20 now am a single mom, dont have to many friends except for like 2 and they have kids the other people i called friend stoped talking to me after liek 2months of me having the baby. so anybody feel free to add me, i know it isnt easy going through this alone!

Allie - posted on 12/19/2010

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yea i know what you mean i didnt have many friends when i got pregnant since i moved to a new town that was small and everyone grew up with eachother the ppl werent really into letting new ppl in but i found my nich and a great guy we were dating 3 years b4 i got pregnant and he grad right before me so when he grad my friends did too and all went either to smoke pot drink or turned on me so i know what you mean im 18 and my daughter turned 6 months on the 16 of this month! im here to talk if you need it

Hailey - posted on 12/19/2010

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hey, I had the same problem with my friends. They thought it was super cute and fun for awhile then realized that they aren't like baby dolls you can put on a shelf. . .My name is Hailey, I had my son when I was 16 and my daughter when I was 18. . .My daughter (Kaylynn) just turned one the 8th of December and my son (Ayden) will turn 3 the 22nd of December. . .I am a single mom, both kids have the same dad and we talked marriage but then he freaked out and wanted less responsibility and broke up with me when I was 8 months preg with my daughter. . .I work and I go to college. . .sry that was kinda like a life story lol. . .but I'm always open to talk to people

Charity - posted on 12/19/2010

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Hi. I's Charity. I have a 16 month old son. I would love to talk. U can talk to me anytime

Mary - posted on 12/19/2010

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HI! I'm Mary, I have a daughter who is about to be 13 months, I'm 21 and I've lost a bunch of my friends as well but if you ever have a question or just need someone to talk to or anything you can message me! :)

Amber - posted on 12/19/2010

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Hi, I'm Amber and my son is 11months I'm here if you want to chat, I dont have much friends either.

Jade Kerry Marie - posted on 12/18/2010

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Im 18 - Currently 27 + 4 Days pregnant, im expecting a little boy. Although im not in motherhood technically yet, i know how it feel to have your 'friends' leave you. I only have 4 proper friends, that have stuck by me since i found out i was pregnant, and the dad hasnt pulled his weight. Im always here if anybody would like to chat. Could do with knowing more people who are going through the same thing x

Whyttney - posted on 12/18/2010

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Hey!I'm whyttney I'm 19 and I have a 7month old...I totally know what your going threw! But how is mommyhood? Its hard for me but I wouldn't change my son for the world!

Secily - posted on 12/18/2010

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I'm Secily, I had my first daughter at 16 she is now 3 1/2 and im expecting my second daughter. Having no friends has actually benefited me because its alot less drama and you dont always have to worry about others and their problems. I have my few true friends who have always been there since i was little and im grateful for them. You just have to try and make better friends and most of the time it works out in your favor. If you need any advise im here to help.

Becki - posted on 12/18/2010

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I am exactly the same - one of the only people I have left is my partner and he's not my son's biological father!
I'm 17 with a 10 month old son - i totally understand what you mean x

Jodie - posted on 12/18/2010

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hey i'm Jodie, i'm 17. I haven't yet had my baby but all my friends left when they found out besides the odd one who already had a baby.

Tiffany - posted on 12/17/2010

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hey i know how you feel i am in the same place as you, im 18 and have a 20 month old daughter name aaliyah, after i had her all my friends stop talking to me as the same reason as you they did not want a baby to come alone everywhere they went i only have me and my daughter and my other half who is not my daughter father... if you ever want to talk about anything sheree i am happy to listen and talk as much as you want as i know what your going through and how you feel

Christina - posted on 12/17/2010

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I'm slightly older now. I'm 28yrs old with 5 kids (ages 10, 8, 7, 5, and 4.) When I got pregnant nearly all my friends up and abandoned me, except for two or three. I found play groups for teen moms after my son was born, and would make friends with other teen moms I would bump into at the mall and stuff. We made our own little support group.

Brittany - posted on 12/17/2010

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bIm 19 my son will b 2 in May :) If you want you can add me to facebook, my email addy is brittnebae91@yahoo.com ( this goes for all Teen moms) Ive raised my son whos father walked out and I have lost alot of ppl because of my son. Its their lose not his :)

Kayly - posted on 12/17/2010

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Hey im kayly. im 20 and have a 2 year old son so i was a teen mom. i know exactly what your going throught. all my friends ditched me because i had a baby. All i have now is my son and fiance. which is plenty, but everyone always wants other people to talk to.....:( its sad

Shelesa - posted on 12/17/2010

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LOLz i i noe wat ur saying im 16 turning 17 2nd ov feb nd i hav a 13mnth old nd currently pregnant

KIRRILY - posted on 12/17/2010

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hi i am 21 with 2 kids if ya wanna talk any time ok babe dont worry about the friend thing i went though that to ok

Holly - posted on 12/17/2010

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Hey im Holly! and im 19 :) I have a 1 month old named Noah :) Basically all my friend's left when I was pregnant. and than when they saw I had a cute baby they came back around... but im starting to notice how irritable they are getting when Noah crys and crys and crys... So I just spend 90% of the time at home with my son, so if u need someone to talk to.. add me on facebook :) Holly Doll I love meeting new teen moms (thats goes for any others who read this aswell!!!!!)

K. Erin - posted on 12/16/2010

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hi, I'm Erin, I'm 26 with a 9 year old son and a two year old daughter. I was 17 when I had my son and I know where you are dear...feel free to chat with me...I'm looking for friends too :)

Brittany - posted on 12/16/2010

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You can always talk to me if you want. I have two friends that i have been friends with for a long time and i dont even talk or hang out with them anymore. So i understand what you mean. I am also 18 except my daughter is 10 months old. So i can tell you what you will be going through. lol.

Tara - posted on 12/16/2010

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hey I'm Tara I'm 21 and my wee girl is two,
Im here ta chat too I soon learnt who mytrue friend are that s for sure

Tamara - posted on 12/16/2010

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im tamara, im 16 and my baby is five and a half moms,
and i know what your going through,
all my friends were the "party" type and when i got pregnant a lot of them chose to have there parties over me, so pretty much i have 3 lady friends left that i talk to and hang out with, other then its just guys and never seem to mind having my baby around.

Ambyr - posted on 12/16/2010

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Hi, I'm Amber.I'm 19 and I have a daughter that is a yr and 8in a half months and a son that is almost 9 months annnnnddd one on the way, due in August(huge huge suprise). I have like 1 friend but she is also a mom of two so we have stuff in common. How do you like being a mom?

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