Mallory - posted on 01/21/2009 ( 1 mom has responded )
I should've seen this coming but it still shocked me to see that he was saying *ahem* rude things about me. My mom did a little digging and cleared my name with a girl he was speaking to about me and then he sent her an email saying how awkward I make him feel when he comes to see Emma. I admit that I don't like him. It was a one night deal. But when he and his mother come over to our home my sister and I resume business as usual which includes ignoring them and letting them have time with Emma.
He complains about lack of money yet he goes to concerts and it seems like he has Starbucks with every meal yet he can't afford gas to drive the 45 minutes to come see his child? He has no real rights to her but I haven't asked him for anything and I've allowed him to come see her. He choose not to sign the birth certificate and won't pay for the DNA test which HIS family initiated and now they're billing ME.
How should I react to the harsh comments and stupidity?