Catalina - posted on 01/27/2010 ( 4 moms have responded )
Hi im catalina, im a nineteen year old mom whos is 32 weeks pregnant.
wel my boyfriend and my father have only met once because my father lives in another state and when he came december to visit with his wife, well he braught my x boyfriend who i hate to be arnd and my boyfriend wont stand to see his face unless he gets to break it. thing is i saw my dad once without my x boyfriend around but for christmas i didnt go visit him because my x boyfriend was there, although it hurt me i didnt want to see my x boyfriend, But my dad understood my situation. history between my b/f and my x b/f is real bad. long story short my boyfriend puts up with my dad but doesnt like him because my dad told him he likes my x boyfriend better ..now thi sis my dads first and only grandchild, hes excited and athough he doesnt much approve my baby daddy because he doesnt know him much but he knows i love my boyfriend so he puts up with it but because i follow more of what my boyfriend tells me he feels like he manipulates me into alot that i dont want todo. so hes afraid im making choices according to my b/f and not myself. but my boyfriend doesnt want him to be a part of my babys life. what am i suppost todo i love my dad to death and i dont want to take my daughters grandfather away. he loves me alot and i do love him alot too but i love my boyfriend aswell and dont want to breakup with my boyfriend just because of this dilema. i need advice. its like everything else we can talk and make an agreement on but when it comes to my dad, just because my x b/f is part of my stepmoms family..he wants me seperated from him. and my daughter seperated aswell. im afraid he wont come to try to work this situation out with me.. and i dont want to lose my relationship and become a single mom. i went through it and so did he as a child and i dont want my daughter going through it... what can i do? i love my boyfriend alot ..this is making me worried.. shes coming soon..how do i deal with this?