need someone to talk too..

Kailee - posted on 08/27/2010 ( 29 moms have responded )

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well im turning 17 soon, and im 23 weeks, & 1 day pregnant with my first child.
im having a baby boy, and i couldnt be any more excited.
although its excited its very hard at the same time, i cant stand all the rude people anymore,
and all my old friends that stoped talking to me when i got pregnant.
so basicly im just trying to find new friends that are around my age, that are somewhat in my position so we could talk our problems out with each other.
add me on facebook; Kailee Clarke.
thankyouu :)!

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Annette - posted on 11/17/2012

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Hey I'm just about to turn 17 and 27 weeks I understand you perfectly email me any time lumpkinslove13@gmail.com talk to you soon 😊

Lori - posted on 11/12/2012

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try a support group. Some places hold them just for teen moms. Le Leche League is where I went because I wanted to breastfeed and hang out with moms who were moms. I was really young but there were teens in there too.

Sophia Marie - posted on 11/10/2012

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I hope you are still in school.

Samantha - posted on 09/15/2012

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Hey!!!!

Natalie - posted on 09/28/2010

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hey,
I am 17 and have a 5 week old baby boy and i am doing it by myself. If you want to talk i'd love to as well. Goodluck

Kayla - posted on 09/18/2010

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Hey im almost 18, but you can add me and talk to me if youd like :) x

Emma - posted on 09/18/2010

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I was 18 wen i fell preg and 19 wen i had my son, it was a planned pregnancy so i could not stand wen people would say aww to bad, uve wrecked ur life, and most of that was coming from my brother && mother!! Since having my son ive foudn that it is sooo much easier to be friends wiv others that have children.. My friends that dont have kids are constantly telling me to let my mum watch my son and that just shits me off because im Declans mother, he is mine and my partners to take care of.. so yea know exactly how u feel..

Mercedes - posted on 09/17/2010

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hey im mercedes im 18 years old anf have a 5 month old son named aiden.when i got pregnant at 17 all my friends stopped talking to me too.so i know exactly what your talking about.

Destanie - posted on 09/05/2010

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hey Kailee,
i know how you feel! i was 15 when i got pregnant but i didnt have my son until i was 16 and then when i was 18 i had our second son and now im 20 almost 21 and we are having our first girl! its rough when friends back out on you! my friends still talk to me every blue moon and everything and are GREAT with my kids but i cant talk to them about what im going through with my kids because they wont understand why lol! im here is you need to talk my husband and i have a joint facebook so the name is destanie n victor garcia ♥ hope all is well

Jennifer - posted on 09/05/2010

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I got pregnant my second semester in college and I lost all of my so called friends. they thought i would be to busy with a baby and wouldn't want to hang out which defiently isn't true. I kinda know what you're going through and i'm sorry your friends have done that to you. IF you want you can be friends with me. Jennifer Cantwell

Lisa - posted on 09/04/2010

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Hey my name is Lisa and I know how u feel. I was 15 when I had my first son and 18 with my second. So if you want to talk I'd love to hear from u.

Jessica - posted on 09/03/2010

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hello well im 19 and i have a baby girl shes 6 months shes a premee but i can be ur friend and talk out some things if u would like to

Cassie - posted on 09/03/2010

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It happens when you have a baby.. i only have one friend left from school! But tbh you dont need them :) I've added you and im happy to talk to you x

Shari - posted on 09/03/2010

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hey, i understand exactly how you feelin, i just turned 18, and i'm 35 weeks pregnant with my first baby boy aswell, i couldn't be happier, but i have lost all my friends aswell, except for my best friend who has stuck by me, and a few of my friends who are in the same boat as me. it's hard but the further along you get, the less you really care about everybody other then your baby. add me on facebook if you like; Shari Green

Julie - posted on 09/02/2010

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i know ur feelign i ad loads of mates at school then found out i was preg then they just ignored me i was 16 wen i ad my lil girl

Letta - posted on 09/01/2010

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Hey im Loretta and im 21 and i have a 2 and a half year old son named Daemon and 1 on the way which im thinking about adoption for because of financial,emotional and physically reasons but thats a bummer that your friends stopped talking to you when you got pregnant...those arent real friends,they dont understand and im sorry. I got pregnant @ 18 had my son at 19 but i still felt like and still do feel like a really young mom.Im glad your excited about having a baby! =] Do you have any names picked out yet?

Lindsay - posted on 08/31/2010

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Well hun I'm not your age but I've been in the same boat. I was 17 when I had my first. It's not easy but you will get through it. Also you'll find people to become friends with. People change and with that so do friends. Keep your chin up do your best sweetie

Chrystal - posted on 08/31/2010

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I'm 17 about to be 18 with a 4 month old son. I dont really have any friends so if you wanna talk i would love to.

Emma - posted on 08/31/2010

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i had exactly the same things happen 2 me. i was 15 when i feel pregnant with my daughter 16 when i had her. im now 29 !!:( it is hard at times but keep ure chin up and be proud theres older mums in the world that cant look after them selves let alone their baby !! xx

Hannah - posted on 08/30/2010

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hey! i'm 17 & have a 7 month old baby! i lost most of my friends when i had a little girl, but i gained others who had babies aswel my age! so if you like feel free to add me on faceboook : Hannah-louise Kirchin :)

Shelby - posted on 08/30/2010

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I found out i was pregnant when i was 17 I turned 18 when i was 3 months pregnant and now i am 19 with an almost 8month old baby girl. She is my pride and joy and I have also lost many friends. I would rather have my daughter and my fiance anyways because all my "friends" treat me like crap. I am always here to talk I love listening to people. Good luck in the last months of pregnancy and congratulations = )

Autumn - posted on 08/29/2010

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Hi I also had my first baby at 17! I went through the whole "friends" stop talking to me. The first thing i realized was that those people were never really my friends in the first place. I'm currently 33 weeks pregnant with my second baby and i wouldnt take anything back for the world.Good luck and congrats!

Arsellia - posted on 08/28/2010

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I'm going to be 17 in 3 days!!! I'm 24 weeks pregnant, with a boy too. So I'm open to talking anytime you need, cuz sometimes I need to as well.

Rachel - posted on 08/27/2010

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Hey,
I had my son when i was 16 and went through the same exact thing. I have a small circle of close friends now, but im much happier now about everything! You can message me on facebook if you would like to talk!

Stephaniecota - posted on 08/27/2010

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Hi Kailee,
Im Stephanie , I have a 4 yr old daughter, I had her when I was 14. I went thru the sme thing as you, but like always I never mind what people would say. If your friends stopped talking to you, well think of it this way they're really not your friends. Worry about what makes you happy and not other. When you have your baby nothing else is going to matter but him. Friends come n go. Later on you'll meet a lot of teenage parents and who will support you, and trust me you're not the first and last to be a teenage mom, so dont mind the people. Ill be glad to find you on facebook so we can chat! ;)

Amanda - posted on 08/27/2010

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hey my name is amanda and i have a 6 month old baby girl i too was jus turnin 17 wen i found out i was pregnant i would love to talk add me if ud like!

Kirsty - posted on 08/27/2010

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I was also in same position i was 17 with first and 18 with second. To be honest my oldest is now 5 and have made more friends through school and those from before have stuck by me regardless. Have you got any mother baby groups near you for young mums or even antenatal? they are always good for making new friends or ask your midwife for teen groups.
Kirsty

Kaila - posted on 08/27/2010

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hey darl i was in the same postion as yu i was 17 wen i had my first baby boy then wen i was18 and a half and i had my 2nd boy and now and now im 20 and a half and 12 weeks pregnant and culdnt be more happier who needs friends wen they r not true........ i havnt had many friends since i had my first

Missy - posted on 08/27/2010

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hey girl,
i was in a similar situation when i got pregnant and had my daughter at 16. i'm now 19 with a 3 year old and only really have one close friend that helps me through everything but only cause we understand everything each other is going through, if you ever need someone to talk to i'm here! i can try and find you on facebook if not you can look for me; Missy Baines .