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nurseries causing trouble

Laura - posted on 04/06/2011 ( 1 mom has responded )

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hi my children (eldest 2) are in nursery at the moment as i am in college and they have jsut pulled me into a meeting telling me about concerns for my kids...they then go into a long detail of my kids are not clean there clothes are but they aint and also about the little friends they get in there hairs and brought up that my 2 year old is having regular tantrums and ignoring people i foundt out yesterday she threw a chair at a nursery worker and they are blaming me for it all.....i work my nails to the bone keeping my house all tidy and clean and also work hard at college to get a decent job for my children to provide for us.......i go through there hairs every night with conditioner in (and recently had it cut mega short) as all the treatments dont work anymore......i shower them every morning with them having a bath at night once every 2-3 days (unless there has been accidents as they r potty training then its that night when they get home) and the nursery are still complaining and they are planning to ring the social services......i am doing all i can to keep on top of everything and in regards to my 2 year old throwing the tantrums and grabbing chairs both me and brother was like that and my brother has asburgers syndrome and i was told i have very mild autism ........ but they dont believe a word i say on that should i move them from this nursery to a different one its only me who gets all this even tho there is a child in there covered in the friends yet how the nursery talk to me (im the only young parent there) its feeling like they blame me......... please advise TIA xxxxxxx

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April - posted on 04/06/2011

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Maybe the biggest problem they are having is the "friends" in your children's hair. There are a lot of treatments for that and make sure you wash their sheets/clothes with hot water on the day you give them the treatments so that they can't get back in and about your daughter having a tantrum, you say your brother and you have some type of autism, maybe you can go check her out at the doctor just to make sure. Then if thats the case show the workers at the nursery the results from the doctor so that they know how to better handle the situation if it ever occurs again. If she doesn't have that than just talk to your daughter and tell her she can't just throw things at people.



Also tell the workers at the nursery that your children are being potty trained so they can help them at the school so they don't get dirty while they're there, maybe even put some extra clothes in a back pack just incase and give them to the workers. Its there job to take care of your kids while your not there so let them know what you need them to do.



I'm sure you are doing the best you can and i applaud that fact that you are going to school to get a better job for your kids. If you really dislike the nursery that your sending your kids too maybe you should switch nurseries?

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