Other teen moms looking for friends/support?

Jessica - posted on 06/26/2012 ( 27 moms have responded )

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Hi! I'm 17 and I have a 7 month old(almost), Matthew, who was born on January 12, 2012. I was 16 while I was pregnant and when he was born.The relationship between Matthew's father and I is pretty complicated. We aren't 'together' but we are living in our own place trying to work things out. When I got pregnant all of my friends fell off the face of the Earth so I don't really have anyone to talk to. I was just wondering if there were any other moms looking for a friend or support person? Feel free to message me!(:

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Blessing - posted on 10/29/2012

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yea is always like dat i have a similar issue mine is more worst er than yours i am 18 with a 6 months old prevail i was 17 wen i got pregnant i lost my mum and dad some years back and my husband work as a camera man he lost his job recently to be precise the funnest part of the story is DAT not even an accommodation do we have though never the less my husband is try is best i know one day we gonna get 1 amen BLESSING FRM NIGERIA you can email me at blessingbobmannuel@yahoo.com

Flavia - posted on 10/16/2012

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hi im flavia new to this website , and im 19 with my first child that is 20 months old.

Angelica - posted on 08/12/2012

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Heeeeyy my names Angelica and I got pregnant when I was 19. After I had my son my friends only lasted about 2 months and then they never really bothered to talk to me after that and these were supposedly my "best friends". My mom says that" if they aren't there for you now then they were never real friends to begin with". Things will work out just keep yourself busy and take your baby on walks or join groups in your area then you can meet other moms. If you need someone to talk to feel free to message meee:) Hang in there

Jeanette - posted on 08/11/2012

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hey there, my friends lasted about 6 months before they all disowned me .... taking a baby to parties and me popping in and out all the time just wasnt for them ... so i was cool with that. Im here if u ever need to chat xx

Alyssa - posted on 08/11/2012

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Hi! I'm Alyssa, and I got pregnant at 17, and am now 18 and 5 months pregnant. I have no support from my boyfriend, I am a live in girlfriend, and have lost all of my old friends...looking for support!

Samantha - posted on 08/11/2012

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Hey, I know how you feel, I'm almost 16 weeks pregnant and have no one but my boyfriend to talk to anymore.

Missy - posted on 08/08/2012

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Hi Jessica, I'm Missy. I'm 17 and I'm pregnant with my baby. I just recently found out so I couldn't tell you if I was pregnant with a boy or girl but either way I'm going to be thankful.
Well since I'm a teen mommy too, I figured we could talk and since you have already had your baby boy, you could tell me a little bit about what goes on after the baby's born!
I'm here whenever you need to talk so just let me know if you need to talk, message me or something.
Look forward to hearing from you! :)
x X x

Alex - posted on 08/05/2012

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Hey Jessica!

I'm Alex and I have an 8 month old daughter, Adelaide. I'm 19 years old, single, with my friends only being my college books haha. I'm hoping to meet some more teen moms in the Austin, TX area but as we all know, moms don't have a whole lot of time in our schedules.

Amy - posted on 07/30/2012

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I'm 21 and had my son when I was 20. I don't have any of my old friends, except for a select few. But it's still very hard to relate to the ones I DO have because they aren't mothers and really don't understand your new life. It kind can be really hard and lonely sometimes.. Just have to remind yourself that your son is the most precious gift and I know personally I'd rather have my son than all the friends in the world!!! Stay strong (:

Livia - posted on 07/29/2012

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Hi Jessica, im livia, my son Francisco was born march 2nd 2012 and im 17 too :) Im at home all day taking care of him and my boyfriend so i dont have much to do!If you want to talk message me!:)

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I have no friends. I was 17 when pregnant, 18 when I had her and 19 now. All my friends left. My daughter is 14 months. All I have is my family, my daughter and my fiancé. Message if you want :)

User - posted on 07/14/2012

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Hi Jessica,
I am almost 30 years old now and just had my fourth and final baby. I was just like you I am still single raising my kids alone. I was 17 when I had my first baby and lost all my friends. I know how you feel and what you are going through. If you would like to talk just let me know. I am here anytime.

Emma - posted on 07/13/2012

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Hey. My names Emma i have a 9 month old. Message me anytime :) Ive been looking for a mom and baby group, but cant find any decent ones :(

Kara - posted on 07/11/2012

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i'm not a teen anymore. lol i'm 23 but i was pregnant with my son at 16 and my daughter at 19. so if you ever want to talk feel free. i've been there and done that so if you need advice or anything, i know it can be difficult. message me anytime :)

Monica - posted on 07/09/2012

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Hi I feel the same way! I'm monica, 20 and my son is 20 months now but I feel like I have no friends. I just got in this so I am not sure how to work it so anyone wanna msg me that would be great (: lol

Sian - posted on 07/09/2012

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Heyy:) I'm 20 with an almost 3 year old and 3 months pregnant with my 2nd, if you ever need a chat let me know :) I lost all my friends too so always here!x

Victoria - posted on 07/09/2012

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Jessica,

I had my daughter, Abbigail, when i was 18. I was pregnant at 17. She is now about to be 4 years old. When I first had her I lost contact with all my friends. I was quite upset about it. Turns out none of them knew how to deal with kids. It is kind of a weird situation. A lot of them did not approve that I decided to keep her. Over the past 4 years though I have met many moms, some through sites like this. So if you ever need a friend or someone to talk to I am here.

Victoria Carr

Annette - posted on 07/07/2012

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Perfectly know what you mean hehe aaaa UU with mine we have some issues because of his sexual past... He compare me awfully when intimate so I'm dealing with that and yeah I know what you mean lol xD

Amber - posted on 07/07/2012

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yes her dad is around but its not quite the same if you know what i mean lol. and sometimes he just drives me crazy! lol.

Annette - posted on 07/07/2012

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Talk to me whenever you want Amber , so do you have support from her dad?
Sy around 😊

Amber - posted on 07/07/2012

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Im Amber i have a 3 yr old named Aleia. it seems like once you have a kid you dont need friends or something. all my old friends are moving on with their lifes and all the moms around where i live look down on me for being a teen mom and try their best to avoid me. so id love a friend that i can relate to and in this case give advice since my daughter is alrdy walking talking...ect lol

Annette - posted on 07/05/2012

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I'm going to have my bby just after my17th birthday, I moved a year ago and I don't have a lot of friends and probably the ones I have they are going to leave me U.U so anyone that wants to email me or message me I will be happy to have friends that understand our situation.
lumpkinslove13@gmail.com

Kayla - posted on 07/03/2012

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Hi Jessica, my name is Kayla and I have a 4 month old. If you ever wanna talk just message me!

Jessica - posted on 07/02/2012

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I'd love to chat with you both but I'm not really sure what I'm doing.. I just joined this website and haven't really figured it out yet.

Dynisha - posted on 06/27/2012

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Hi Jessica my name is Nisha im 19, I basically have the same situation my daughter is 5 months and she was born January 9th 2012 me my daughter and her father stay together but we have our own place I dont really have friends or family so you can chat with me at any time.

Emily - posted on 06/26/2012

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Hey Jessica Im Emily Im 20 my son Hunter is 17 months if you wanna chat let me know when I had my son all my friends left me to :(

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