People who lie about pregnancy/miscarriage/abortion/adoption.

Josh - posted on 10/02/2012

I started dating a girl who said she was prego just to try and get prego and stupid me it worked.. were no longer together.. she said she would never get a abortion and moved to new jersey with her family and stopped talking to me until i said i wanted full custody when its born and now she says shes going to get one but i dont think she will all she wanted when she was here was to get prego so now i think she is lying to me to make me think that shes not having it so i cant get full custody.. does anyone know any laws or anything with that like if its illegal?

Ayesha - posted on 09/28/2012

I have a friend who says things like this, infact she's said it a few times to me, and today was one of them times, the other times were a few months back. See I had an abortion at a very young age, soon after that I noticed my friends saying they're pregnant and having abortions, or miscarriages, anyhow turned out one of my friends had been paying special attention to what happened to me, because a few months back she was supposedly pregnant and that she had booked the appointment for the wednesday, this day just happened to be the third year anniversary of my abortion, how stupidly low of the cow, so today she lied about being pregnant again, you'd think after going through something so horrific she'd take contraception right, apparently not though. It's actually got to the point where I want to actually hurt her, and to the point where i'm crying because i'm still dealing with mine.. Eurghhh Girls these days!!

Kathy - posted on 09/19/2012

Some women are just psychotic - even family. They are jealous of others and want the same attention so they lie. My mother has been single for 20+ years and hasn't even dated - she is lonely and only has my sister and I to talk to. She lies about a lot of things and creates a lot of drama because she is bored.

Kathy - posted on 09/19/2012

I recently ran into FAMILY who I feel are LYING about having an abortion. My mother just told me that my sister had an abortion and that I should feel bad since she (my mother) also had to have an abortion. Now, I recall my mother telling me years ago that she had two miscarriages - but now that my sister had an abortion she has to have had one.



The kicker is that my husband told me after my mom left that my sister and mom told him about the abortion while they visited us at the hospital less than 24 hours after our son was born. Now, I am all for women choosing what they want to do but when it comes to my incredibly irresponsible sister - who has an abortion because she is afraid the kid will interrupt her dental school future (fyi-she is 28 and still doesn't' even have her BA yet) - it just disgusts me and I find it hard to believe.



I have a cousin who is 5 months pregnant, I just gave birth - and my sister isn't' married, just moved out at 28, has no education yet...so I feel she is making it up and my mom is so psychotic she is also lying - plus I asked my dad if mom ever had an abortion (they were married 15 years) and he said if so, he never knew about it.



So, yes-there are some sick sick women in this world who are so jealous of others happiness they will lie about abortions.

Stifler's - posted on 05/09/2012

Oh wow deanna I would cut contact too *shivers* what a sicko.

Deanna - posted on 05/09/2012

I hate when girls do this..I know a girl who does this every year..she even goes to say she has a child..now she's saying she has a daughter who amazingly is the same age and has the same bday as my daughter. She says she's pregnant now but showed me some ultrasound pics with the name cut off the top..funny right..and she's going along with this "pregnancy". Act now..even posting her babys growth progress on facebook smh..I just cut all communication with her recently..because its sad and pathetic and I feel she needs psychiatric help..seriously. p.s. she's also taken someone elses newborn baby before and claimed SHE'd just had it and it was hers

RyAnn - posted on 10/09/2011

This past week my sons exgirlfriend said she was pregnant. Now, they havnt dated since July.......and its now october. She said she took 10 pregnancy tests and they all came up positive. I called her mother and she told me she had her take a pregnancy test last week and it came up negative and that she has been getting her period regularly for months because her mom takes out the bathroom garbage and she knows. Come to find out....she lied about everything......then all of a sudden she says she had a miscarriage. Which is another lie. This has put my son thru hell and all of us. Why would she lie like that? Why would someone want to hurt someone like that? I will never understand! So thankful i got to the bottom of this, but sadly my son was too ashamed to tell me so i got the information from another parent that there were rumors going around. He went thru so much and it breaks my heart he didnt come to me but at the same time i understand. So, they say "protect your daughters" I say "protect your sons as well!!" sad and disgusting she would lie about being pregnant and then lie and say the baby died when she wasnt pregnant at all in the first place! disgusted!

Trinity - posted on 08/05/2010

Ugh I hate that!! It's so wrong. I know this girl who has lied about being pregnant, about getting abortions and she lies about everything. Even being in jail. She was 7 weeks pregnant for like 4 months, anytime someone would ask her how far along she was she'd always say 7 weeks. I can't even credit her for having a good story at least. She's sick in the head. It disgust me.

Lavinda - posted on 08/04/2010

i know!!! everytime my brothers...(i have 3).....break up with a girlfriend, people always tell me they are saying their pregnant, and when i comfront them they make an excuse up like that they had a misscarage ITS ANNOYING

Kaleigh - posted on 08/04/2010

Yes, I know many girls like that...When I was 17 I fell pregnant and lost the baby due to preterm labor when I was 5 months pregnant it was the most Horrible thing that had ever happened to me. And my cousin came up to me and told me the came thing had happened to her the year before I actually hung out with her all the time then. It had never really happened and I have no idea why she would just make up something like that, like what had happened wasnt a rough thing to go through at all.

Emily - posted on 08/04/2010

my boyfriend and his best friend went to school with a girl who was like that. she told everyone that my boyfriend mitch got her pregnant then when he wouldnt be with her she was heartbroken and lost the baby. next week she was pregnant with mitchs friend glen. she confronted him and he punched her in the tummy and she miscarried. neither of them had sex with her ever and everything she ever said was a lie. CRAZY person.

Denise - posted on 08/04/2010

i think it would bother any woman who have or dont have children, thats just insane. if someone had an abortion, they shouldnt be proud of it, even worse tell people about it. Shame on them..

Karalyn - posted on 08/04/2010

I know what you mean, I know alot of people that lie about being pregnant, misscarriage or abortions. It makes me mad too! Why would anyone lie about the existence of a human being? It's not funny, and no one in their right mind should have or ever want a child just for attention!

Stifler's - posted on 08/03/2010

Yes, when I was at school people lied about that stuff to get attention. Or to keep their boyfriends in their life even if it meant harassing them. It's pathetic. I think at that age though you are becoming a woman and go through a clucky phase. A lot more teenagers are acting on it and actually starting families these days rather than just wanting sex and not using protection. It baffles me.

Kristy - posted on 08/01/2010

I think it’s so wrong to lie about loosing a baby. I’ve got 2 little babies, I lost 1 in between them, it was the worse thing me & my fiancé could have ever imagined going through, when we went for the ultra sound & saw no heart beat, I died, my heart sank to the floor & i felt so heavy, why would any one lie about such a horrible thing, I would personally be insulted if someone said that to me but didn’t really loose their baby, loosing a baby is no joke, it destroys people & some times relationships like it did with mine.
I am a young mother & proud. But these girls making up stories about having children, go back to school, get an education & wake the F up.

Bryce - posted on 07/31/2010

I have some many people that were once my friends that kept saying they were pregnant when they actually weren't and when they should have start to have shown it they would be like " oh i had a miscarriage " and i would be like yeah okay then. I know this one girl and she is 15 or 16 i think and she says she is allergic to rubbers and birth control . I think most girls do this to get attention and it's very sick. I myself would not have chosen this path , but i am against abortion. If i would have been smart i would have gotten birth control... i'm now 32 weeks pregnant , and very excited to have my little girl... took me a long time to get used to the idea though. My boyfriend is very excited as well. I am hoping to be a great mother , and not some fake.

Tina - posted on 07/31/2010

i know a girl who dated my fiance before i did...they dated for three days and only seen eachother at work (i know because before we got together we hung out alot as i was a close family friend)...well anyway on the third day she told him she loved him and he decided to end the relationship before she got totally hurt because he did not feel the same way. so about 2 mos after they broke up we started dating (just to give it a try because we were such great friends.) well 3 mos later i got pregnant (our first time!!) as she seen that we were having a baby she kept saying that she was pregnant by him also (we knew that this was not possible because they never had sex). so he kept saying ok let me see the sonagram pics and stuff. then she never got bigger like you do. well then when she was "8 and a half mos prego" she called crying and said she had a stillborn. Scott said "which hospital are u at let me cme down there" she wouldnt let him...when he asks for proof that ths baby existed she says no she told him that she didnt list a father. well after stressing us out forever i was 4 mos prego when she said she lost the baby and my baby was two mos when she finally told us that there never was a baby that she was just jealous of what we had together.
i was PISSED...what type of person lies about losing a baby? i know people who have actually had stillborn babies:(

Tiffany - posted on 07/30/2010

I know this girl that goes to the high school i went to and she is supposedly pregnant.. she is supposed to be like 6 months pregnant and isnt showing at all! she is pretty much with a different guy every week and on all her statuses it says how much she loves them and what not.. and she always posts pictures of her smoking and statuses of her going to parties.. I dont know.. she hasnt posted anything about her "baby" in a while so im thinking she is making it all up.. She is pretty much a huge attention getter.. it is so annoying!

Sarah - posted on 07/30/2010

I've personally met a lot of girls like this. It pisses me off. But my dr explained to me when I was pregnant and miscarried at 16, that a lot of times girls think that they have miscarried and they tell everyone they have and eventually it becomes extremely real to them. It's like a mental disorder or something. It's so sad.

Hayley - posted on 07/29/2010

definately have had my experiences with this kinds of girls too... its rediculous isn't it... I'm 18 years old and 3 months pregnant... when my boyfriends ex girlfriend found out i was pregnant she called me out of the blue and told me she was pregnant by him also, but had an abortion. Let me add ive been with my boyfriend almost a year and he got testicular cancer when he was 18, hes now 20. It was a miricle that i even got pregnant... the next day she confessed to lying about the whole thing. How messed up is that?????? crazy B****es!!!

Carissa - posted on 07/29/2010

It bothers me too. I had a girl in my group of friends who lied about being pregnant three times. The first time she said she miscarried and the second time she said she went away for an abortion. We all knew she was lying because she would go to the toilet with tampons but tell us that she had a rare pregnancy where she still got her period. The third time she said she had an ectopic pregnancy, which would cause her a lot of pain but she never complained. She dropped out of school a few months later, but we heard again that she was pregnant. We saw her come into school one day, which a big stomach. She was pregnant.
I think all along she wanted it and nothing was going to stop it from happening.

Amy - posted on 07/29/2010

What surprises me most is the stories that they come up with or the actions. One day they'll be like pregnant a month later they lose is and a week later pregnant again. Some girl lied about having a 3 year old daughter and the little girl was real, but it was her sister. Another girl purposely made herself gain weight to make people believe she was and then her parents told people she wasn't pregnant. My ex-girlfriend doesn't know much about what it's like to be pregnant and one day she asked me what it was like to be pregnant I made up absolutely ridiculous things and that's what she told people she was feeling. And the one that annoyed me the most was that this 15 year old stole another girls ultrasounds and said it was hers.... thing is the ultrasound said the other girls name and the 15 year old said she was only 2 months far long and the baby in the ultrasound pics were of a baby that was huge in the ultrasound and very well developed. And one day a friend of mine wanted me to pee on a pregnancy test [[I was like 8 months]] so her boyfriend doesn't leave her.... I told him about it after he broke up with her and it just so happens that they never had sex. I didn't pee on it for her, but I was so annoyed by her actions. This is seriously unusual. I am like really close to asking one of the girls why they do this, but I know I won't get a real answer.

Danielle - posted on 07/29/2010

haha, I knew this girl in high school who told me and everyone she had a 5 yr old daughter, she had pictures of her all the way from when she was a baby and talked about her alot. She would leave school early and tell me something was wrong with her she was sick or upset and she had to pick her up from daycare. I always felt bad for her and was amazed she was in school and still raising her. I asked her if I could meet her and she said sure so after a few cancelations we met at chuckie cheese and sure enough same little girl from the pictures was there and cute as can be. The whole time the little girl kept calling her rachel, and then would say mom and then look confused and go back to playing, but it was strange. So rachel went to the bathroom and i asked the little girl if rachel was her mom and she says i quote "no shes my aunt but when we go out she tells me to call her mom" I asked her if she sees her aunt alot and she says "no just sometimes"
i never confronted her about it bc I didnt wanna call he rout on it but I dont understand why you would say that, let alone make a child call you mom...

People are very weird.

Ashlie - posted on 07/29/2010

i know this girl... who is supposedly pregnant right now... shes always with a different man every week... and right now she is like 5 or 6 months pregnant... but she dont show... i can not stand girls like this... i hate it... 1. its nothing to joke about... 2. u can seriously lose ur friends if u lie and say ur pregnant then u miscarry... ugh!

Amber - posted on 07/28/2010

Ok First Iam not ot to bash anyone. I got pregnant with my so at 15 and had him at 16. I know many people that I went to school with at the time that lied about being pregnant, then would lie about a miscarrige. They just had to get pregnant to get pregnant because someone was recieving more attention than them.

Anyways- here is what I don't get. Some of you stated that at 15/16/17 you miscarried- then you TRIED to get pregnant again??? Didn't yall get your scare from the miscarrige? I don't know about where yall are, but around here- teenage pregnancy and parenting isn't peaches and cream. Its a very tough life. So why would you TRY to get pregnant that young. I know it happens. Like I said I had my son at 16, but I didn't have my daughter until I was married for over a year. I just don't understand.

Amanda - posted on 07/27/2010

In high school (soph yr) I had a friend like that. I left that school but heard that her senior year she got pregnant. Later I talked to her and she said the whole time she had a daughter who had been living with her parents and that she did have another baby. I still don't know to this day if I should believe her. I mean...I was friends with her for more then a year and didnt know she had a daughter??

Julie - posted on 07/27/2010

Often young girls only have a 'female identity...' and need to sound important - so here come the stories.

Love them - stay away from the topics of babies... and simply be their friend ♥

Cyndi - posted on 07/27/2010

i haye it when people lie about this stuff. when i was in MIDDLE SCHOOL everyone did that. they would say they were pregnant then say thry miscarried then they were pregnant then they miscarried.it dives you crazy. i had a friend that would claim she had kids and always said she was pregnant then she would say she miscarried and it was so confusing. she would bring pics of family members kids to school and say they were hers then make up these "guys" that supposibly were the fathers and i went to her house once and guess what NO KIDS!!! its rediculous. when i got pregnat my jr year i didnt tell anyone at first because i didnt want to be one of those girls. i kept taking pregnancy tests to make sure cuz i was 4 and a half months pregnant and you couldnt even tell. those girls just make me so mad. because it is a serious thing.

Crystal - posted on 07/27/2010

I had my 1st when I was 17, my younger sister got pregnant when she was 15. The group that she ran with in school thought it was awesome that she was pregnant so they all set out to get pregnant too.
Within 2 months of eachother my sister and SIX of her friends all had babies!

Melissa - posted on 07/26/2010

i deal with that all the time. i had 3 miscarrages before i had my son, and sadly nobody believed me, hell nobody believed i was pregnant with drake till they saw the pictures. and some ppl still dont, untill they see my c-section scar or the hospital pics.it irratates me that those girls do that. and my little sister pretended to be pregnant, and now that she actually is she is freaking out

Laura - posted on 07/26/2010

grrrr this drives me mental!! i know someone who had lied about pregnancy and miscarrige and it drives me nuts! its such a heavy thing to lie about and there is no reason for it. the thing that really bothers me is that for all she knows, i could have had a misscarrige! i havnt but thats beside the point, i bet someone has that she has talked to. this topic gets me so worked up lol

Maddi - posted on 07/24/2010

well, i have lied about a miscarriage and abortion before because ifelt horrible and scared. i didnt wanna lie to be cool i just feel ashamed and dont want to tell people the truth sometimes. but people who do it to be cool are really dumb i think. its like theyre bragging about that and no one should brag about that stuff

Amy - posted on 07/24/2010

Thank you all. My story is I know tons of girls like this... A lot of them got pregnant after I had my son and some still lie about it. I'm not trying to bash on them it's just I find it a little weird. Like this one girl she and I used to date [[I am a bisexual I'm just throwing that out there]] and she has an obsession with lying about stuff like this. She'd lie about being pregnant and then lie about miscarriages, she'd state she has a 7 year old daughter, but then show me a picture of all these other peoples sisters. Then one day she decided to think it was funny to steal a picture of my son and state that he was hers to some stranger online. I'm not going to lie, but that pissed me off to no end. Although before I ever got pregnant something like that happen and I'd resort to violence, but I did the mature thing and send the email to her father whom of which had to deal with this before and he had thought she was over that kind of stuff since she was in a mental institution for that kind of stuff. She is now trying to actually get pregnant again since everyone lost care in her and her bullshit. She got with my 30 year old cousin James and is now attempting to win all of her friends back with sympathy for really falling pregnant and thing is everyone knows what she's trying to pull and she's lost more friends over it and her family lost all respect. I guess being a mother must be glamorous to them. I'm 17 and I never planned my son, but he was a blessing in his own way. I know too many young girls willing to get pregnant so young or lie about it in some way just to keep a boyfriend, get attention, or just even to get something they want. I really wish there was a way for those girls to learn that being a young mother isn't all fun and games and having abortions, miscarriages, or putting a child up for adoption isn't something you can walk around and smile about. I know tons of girls who pretend to have abortions, go through miscarriages, or give a baby up for adoption.... and smile about it. And notice how little they know about all this kind of stuff? I know for a fact you can't have sex right after a miscarriage or abortion and always a week after these girls "lose the babies" they are pregnant again. You can only have so many abortions and miscarriages. I just wish they understood how hard it was to be a mother without getting pregnant. And all of these girls think the same way.... They think being a mom is down right easy bec it just so happens one girl in our school has a 4 year old and passes him off to her mom all the time which I have witnessed for myself and even before I had a son that upset me bec I knew I'd never be able to do such a thing.

Yasmine - posted on 07/24/2010

It's wrong to lie about something so God given point blank it's jus wrong!!!!

Marissa - posted on 07/24/2010

I have had lots of those kinds of girls in my life, sadly they were all my friends. They thought if they told there boyfriend they were pregnant they would stay around, boy were they sadly mistaken. Me and my fiance (now) were try to concieve when i was 17. I had a miscarrage and so we decicied we were going to try again. Well we tried all the time for weeks. Well one day we split up and I was young and had friends do it all the time. I went to his house and told him that I was pregnant, yes I was one of those girls, just to see if he would stick around. Well a week later I missed my period, I was pregnant. We didnt get back together till I was 6 months but boy did I learn my lesson. I always told myself I was not going to be that girl but I turned into her, and i do regret doing it. I was immature and childish. But today we are engaged and happy as can be!!

Krissie - posted on 07/24/2010

i dont know how many girls have told me that they had miscarriages! i had one girl even tell me she had about 10. really the girls i knew from highschool though mostly all just try and get attention. idk why you would want it that way but hey they can be crazy all they want it wont get them anywhere.

Desiree - posted on 07/23/2010

i've dealt with my share of ppl like that. i think this generation has a fascination with being pregnant for some reason. like it will keep their bfs around & it ALWAYS gets them attention. it's sickening. i went to school with a girl who was always saying she was pregnant & having miscarriages. it was a rollercoaster with her. another girl would tell ppl how rich she was then tell them how poor she was. & how great her life was then how terrible & depressing it was. & how she was pregnant or had a miscarriage or had a baby or her friend had a baby. she couldnt even keep her own age straight. she went thru ages 11-16 in less than a year @_@

Shiloh - posted on 07/23/2010

i know a girl like that, my then bf had broken up with me for her and had told someone that she had had a kid a while back but noone ever saw her, then after her n my ex broke up she didnt have a kid, and then she was pregnant, but then misteriously was never pregnant, then idk. i got so confused, because when you say something like that its just cruel, i misscarried when i was like 15 not planned or anything but one of the worst feellings i ever felt when i hadnt even known i was pregnant til i misscarried, now i have an 18 month old son and i just turned 18. i cant understand y people would lie about anything like that, its easy to tell when that crap happens tho...

Traci - posted on 07/23/2010

I knew a girl who tells people she has different amounts of kids. She said to me she had 4 and they were all in care and she was pregnant. She really was pregnant but she told some people it was her 1st kid and others it was her 2nd. When her daughter was 8months old she started telling people she was pregnant again and then she miscarried and then she was pregnant again... Her story changes alot. It's crazyy.

Alicia - posted on 07/23/2010

I know a girl (she's 19 but same thing) and she got pregnant, set up adoption with a couple, and then miscarried. She continued telling people (including the adoption couple) that she was pregnant, and never confessed. At 9 months the adoption couple sadly found out that they would not be able to adopt because the child did not exist. It's really disgusting when people do this. I completely agree with you, and I do not understand why anyone would want to pretend to be pregnant.