Please Answer Honestly!

Merry - posted on 02/20/2010 ( 795 moms have responded )

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Simple question for us young moms.
Was your child planned by you or the father or both?
Or was he/she a surprise?
And what did you name your little one????
(I love hearing all the cute baby names):)

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Kylee - posted on 11/27/2012

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my son was technically planned. my husband and i, (at the time we were just engaged.) tried for months. i never got pregnant. we stopped worrying about ovulation days and stopped buying ovulation tests. the next month i didnt get my period, took a test and i was pregnant. we named our son Deagan Paul.

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Patrick was plan. I was married for 9 months before I had him. We named him Patrick Drew Connors. The twins were not plan at all! Patrick was about I think 1 or 2 when I had them. We named baby A Summer Grace Connors and baby B Sophia Lynn Connors. Summer was really going to be Mckaylee Grace and Sophia was going to be Madison Rose but I was 7 months pregnant when we changed our minds. I got divorced when the twins were about 6 because there dad wasn't really ready to have more kids. But I am so glad to have those two here!

Elyse - posted on 11/06/2012

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My first was a "NO" sex baby( I said no, he over powered me),Tristan is his name

My 2nd was planned and we were excited his name is Lucas

Ashtyn - posted on 11/03/2012

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I want on birth control and he would just use condoms well one condom broke as now I am 24 weeks pregnant with twin girls we are naming them oaklyn (Oakley) Sarah and Paislyn (paisley) Faith

Joy - posted on 11/02/2012

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My 2 were not planned my son Ayden Lee is 2 years old will be 3 Feb 23rd 2013 his "sperm donor" has nothing to do with him Thankfully he has a pretty awesome Daddy thats been there since he was 3 mos old so to Ayden he is his dad not his "sperm donor" Aydens Daddy is the father of my 1 month old Isabella Debra Im blessed with 2 wonderful kids and couldnt be happier cant wait to have more :)

Rachel - posted on 11/02/2012

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All three of mine were planned.

Yes, even the one I had at 18. I had gotten pregnant at 17 and lost the baby. I was devastated and decided I wanted a baby so we got pregnant again.

I met my husband when my son was 8 and he and I got married and had two more boys. We planned both of them.

Gemma - posted on 10/30/2012

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Caitlyn Marie unplanned but best surprise i ever had..Would not be same without her today and i would never go back. Single mum but best is i never have to share her lol :D

Jaci - posted on 08/03/2011

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I have a new answer! haha
My son was planned. His name is Connor Andrew james Holbrooks and he's 13 months old.
Just found out I'm pregnant again, and of course dont' know the sex, but this baby wasnt planned. He/she just kinda "happened" even though we were using condoms.

Jaci - posted on 08/03/2011

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I have a new answer! haha
My son was planned. His name is Connor Andrew james Holbrooks and he's 13 months old.
Just found out I'm pregnant again, and of course dont' know the sex, but this baby wasnt planned. He/she just kinda "happened" even though we were using condoms.

Yana - posted on 08/02/2011

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Both my girls are planned by both of us and my oldest is Ophelia and youngest is Orfeya

Yana - posted on 08/02/2011

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Both my girls are planned by both of us and my oldest is Ophelia and youngest is Orfeya

Laura - posted on 07/29/2011

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Both were planned, by both of us. We discussed having children, and we both wanted them young. We could financially afford them, we were already living together (not with parents etc), and felt ready.

My daughter's called Robyn Summer, she's going to be 2 next week. My son's 6 months and called Logan Oscar.

Staci - posted on 07/29/2011

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I found out i was pregnant in June 2010. In July, I found out that I was pregnant with twins. Finding out I was even pregnant with one baby was a surprise, but with twins was even more of a shocker. We ended up naming our boy/ girl twins, Addyson and Brayden.

Staci - posted on 07/29/2011

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I found out i was pregnant in June 2010. In July, I found out that I was pregnant with twins. Finding out I was even pregnant with one baby was a surprise, but with twins was even more of a shocker. We ended up naming our boy/ girl twins, Addyson and Brayden.

Libby - posted on 07/15/2011

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I was 16 when i got pregnant... i think it's pretty safe to say that it wasn't planned..but he was by far the BEST suprise i'd ever gotten...

My sons name is Lukas Christian..and he will be 3 in august.. most definitely couldn't picture my life without him in it!

Amy - posted on 07/15/2011

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My first 2 children (Jordan Patrick- 9 and Mary Elizabeth- 3) were not planned or prevented, just welcomed blessings. I'm pregnant with my third (Hadyn Louis) and he is my birth control baby. I got pregnant with him on my one week anniversary with my fiance (his father). He was definitely a surprise, as he will be the 6th child between us.

Amy - posted on 07/15/2011

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My first 2 children (Jordan Patrick- 9 and Mary Elizabeth- 3) were not planned or prevented, just welcomed blessings. I'm pregnant with my third (Hadyn Louis) and he is my birth control baby. I got pregnant with him on my one week anniversary with my fiance (his father). He was definitely a surprise, as he will be the 6th child between us.

Sharmaine - posted on 07/13/2011

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My child was planned husband and I have been together for 5 yrs married for 1. I am 23 and my sons name is Crossifixio Rhodes.. Cross Rhodes :)

Aubrie - posted on 07/11/2011

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My son Anthonnii JO Aubrey Long was a surprise! N my daughter Jemma Monroe Johnston was also a surprise (same dad-just different last names)

Aubrie - posted on 07/11/2011

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My son Anthonnii JO Aubrey Long was a surprise! N my daughter Jemma Monroe Johnston was also a surprise (same dad-just different last names)

Clara - posted on 07/02/2011

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Our daughter was planned but just allowed to happen. We didn't use BC or schedule sex during my fertile period, we just enjoyed each other when the urge arose.....LOL, literally! It took approx 3-4 months & I was pregnant. L is now 3yo & the light of our lives!! I now understand the concept of loving someone sooo much it hurts, how you become encompassed by your child!

Casey - posted on 07/02/2011

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This may sound a lil weird but my son was both planned and a surprise. I was on BC and then decided to stop takeing it. I of course talked to my boyfriend at the time about it first. We didnt use "pull out" or anythings. We just kinda get God take care of it. I wanted a baby and he thought he did too. Hes since proved himself wrong. After a few months of not taking BC I was pregnant with Payton Micheal Lee. Ive always lived my life by this thought.
God wont put anything in front of you that you cant handle.
Ive done good so far.

Andrea - posted on 07/01/2011

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MY DAUGHTER MIA HOPE WAS PLANNED EVEN THOUGHT I WAS 21 AT THE TIME IT WAS WHAT WE WANTED AND I LOVE HER TO BITS WOULD NEVER CHANGE THE FACT THAT I CHOSE TO HAVE HER

Ginger - posted on 06/30/2011

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None of mine were planned and ALL of them were surprises! Matthew Jason 24, Benjamin Richard 19, Donald David 17, Michael Austin 14, and Joseph Lee 10

Juliette - posted on 10/10/2010

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My first and third were surprises. My second and fourth planned by both us parents. My oldest at 5yrs name is Hayley Layla Paradise, Second at 3 name is Lonnie Dawn Coby, Third child who is 1 name is Kayel Jude, My fourth and newest baby is Cyrus John.

Brooke - posted on 10/10/2010

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Our child was not planned but now we have Kiya Grace and she turned 4 in August!

Miranda - posted on 08/21/2010

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My baby wasnt planned but wasnt unexpected, me and my husband didnt use birth control and he would always joke about trying for a baby but we never actually tried, it just happend. We named our son Alexavier Eleazar.

Lacrecia - posted on 08/20/2010

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my daughter was not planned but lol i was doing anything to prevent either. her name is Ariana Amor west

Brianne - posted on 08/20/2010

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First I miscarried a little girl at 5.5 months. Her name would have been Eve Lillian Moore. Then I we had a son. His name is Cody Mitchel Moore, if he would have been a girl he would have been named Sierra Michelle. Both of the pregnancies were "planned surprises". We wanted a baby, but didn't think I would get pregnant so soon.

Maria - posted on 08/20/2010

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my daughter wasnt planned i was only 18 had her 2 days b4 i turned 19

my son was planned got pregnant thefirst time

his pregnancy was tough on me but they both are my lil bundles of happiess (and energy) whoow

i named my son Thoryn Reilley Ellery Wilson
my last name

and my daughter is Tresure Ruby Eve Anakai Thronhill

their dads last name

Misti - posted on 08/19/2010

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my daughter wasnt planned i had been on the pill but was taking an antibiotic at the time so the pill wasnt working. we had talked baout children and honestly didnt care if we had one but we did!!
Jordyn Elizabeth

Krystal - posted on 08/19/2010

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We both planned our son Brailen Derek Jones. We were stuck between the names Brailen or Kaleb. And if it were a girl it would have been Camaro Lynn Jones. =]]

Sidney - posted on 08/19/2010

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both of my children were planned but not really planned.. lets put it this way i got pregnant faster then what we were hoping.
My daughters name is Heather Michelle and my sons name is Kayden Avery.

Kaila - posted on 08/19/2010

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My baby Kaiden Lee Walker was a little surprise but his dad and I are together. We live in an apartment right now looking to buy our first house soon. So, :) everything worked out.

Amber - posted on 08/19/2010

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My husband and I were going through a rough time so at the time she was not planned when I found out I was pregnant. Now we have Adriyana Abigail Willis and I wouldn't change it for the world and she brang Mommy and Daddy closer than they have ever been.

Alisha - posted on 08/19/2010

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My daughter was not exactly planned but she wasn't prevented. She is now 20 months old and her name is Angela Lynn.

Mariah - posted on 08/10/2010

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Me and my bf were doing "pull out" and codoms but we were doing it alot so I had a feeling I might be pregnant. Her name is Sonja Karya

Joella - posted on 08/09/2010

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My oldest wasn't planned her name is Lilly and my youngest was planned but not this soon his name is Oscar David

Sarah - posted on 08/08/2010

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She was definitely a surprise. We named her Alexis :) I really wanted to name her Chanley though.

Amanda - posted on 08/08/2010

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My boy was unexpected. I didnt know i could get pregnant because well I had not been on BC for a longgg time.

during the pregnancy i did it alone because the dad did not want him. Only when i was in my 9th month did he do anything.

I named him Wyatt!

Ariel - posted on 08/08/2010

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We were young (17) and in love and planned our baby boy. Wouldn't reccomend this considering we're now broken up and i'm living at my moms.

But it was worth it to have my onery, cute as hell baby boy Tripp Ryan Nelson :)

Jessica - posted on 08/08/2010

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my daughter was completely unplanned, i got pregnant by my highschool boyfriend when i was rebounding off a horrible breakup when i was 19.
I named her Julia Kaydance Nevaeh

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