Ammie - posted on 07/18/2012 ( 14 moms have responded )
I am very worried that if my son's father gets granted to take my son away to his house ( a different town ) that he will be left in a horrible environment. Let me explain. My son is 9 months (today) he has always been with me never separated, his father has seen him for a total of 19 hours of his life with a min visit of two hours a week, half the time he refuses to come. But now he is trying to get granted to take him out of the house and bring him to his house. My son is still breast fed, and is very clingy to me since I've been the main caregiver and only one to support him in ANYWAY. ( he doesn't even pay or supply anything ) His mother drinks from mid day to late evening, he smokes and does drugs, so does his brother the house isn't clean what so ever. I guess I'm just worried that if my son goes there that no one will be looking after him, he will be in an unhealthy environment and everyone will be to high/drunk to look after him, and lately I've heard that he has a new girlfriend who he has nick named "baby girl" I dont want so chick who I have never met hanging and playing happy family with my son!