teenage mother of a toddler and newborn

Tesla - posted on 03/16/2010 ( 9 moms have responded )

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my babies are wonderful. but i seem to get a lot of stares when i go out. but im happily married and very stable in my life.. anyone else?

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Hayley - posted on 03/19/2010

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I only have one, a 2 year old girl, 3 in September :) i'm 17, & Yes people can be Cruel, Seems to be only the elderly... But i ont care, My lil gil is gorgouse :D xo

Sarah - posted on 03/19/2010

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im 19 and have a 2 1/2 and having another in july and i get stares all the time but yet when i didnt have any kids i babysat my 4 year old cousin and went out and the ammount of older people kept saying to him aww he looks so much like you you look like your a good mum baring in mind back then i was 15 years old so they seem to complain when they are yours but they accept it when they think there urs but there not.

Megan - posted on 03/19/2010

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i get strange looks too! i have a 2 yr old and an 8 month old at 20 i hate when i get dirty looks

Celena - posted on 03/19/2010

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I am alot more stable in my life than i would be if i didnt have kids. I was oin a very dangerous path b4 I found out I was pregnant. after that my life changed for the better. I have 3 fabulous children and I'm 24. so yea I get the stares and rude remarks but im lovin my life and only i know the battles I won tho get here.

Donna - posted on 03/19/2010

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i am 27 married i have a daughter kerry-may who is 9 years old and 2 boys jack is 2 but 3 in april and josh 1 will be 2 in aug. when i had my girl omg people can be so nasty and say things ect....... but i did not care what pepole say or said xx

Kathryn - posted on 03/18/2010

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i'm 18 and i have a 16 month and a 4 month old! i get a lot of stares all the time! i mostly just ignore them, it's not there place to judge us, plus i don't care what they think!

Nicole - posted on 03/18/2010

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Me too.....I 21, married and have a daughter that will be 3 in a week and an 11 month old. Many people stare and whisper and one lady even said how nice of a big sister I was for taking care of my little sisters. :)

Michelle - posted on 03/16/2010

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im the same i have a 3yr old and a 6month old im getting married in september, i get the worst stares from older women and men when i need to say my age, when i go to play group people look at me like i shouldnt be there as they r all older women. hope u find some comfort in knowing someone else is going thru this as well. xxxx

Amber-Dawn - posted on 03/16/2010

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I wouldn't call myself stable lol I've yet to finish highschool, but I'm going back in September, and I plan to graduate :D Way to go though :D More mother's, both teenage and not, need to follow your example.