Shantanna - posted on 07/13/2009 ( 36 moms have responded )
i have recently seriously considered giving up my child for adoption. I have 8 weeks before the kid is born. my reasons for this is that right now i feel no connection with the baby and since i have known about the pregnancy i only expreinced two emotions anger and sadness. everyone says i should be happy but im not. i recently have been getting upset over stuff becasue everyone is concerened about the baby but no one is concerned about me. which has causde me to fear that i am going to do that when the kid comes. i know i can be a great parent but due to my recent actions and feelings make me think im not ready. Grant it this could be because of all the stress i am under. i feel like im at the end of my rope with no one to turn to for guidance. i even weighed out the pros and cons of it all. heres some of the list: CONS- not being able to finish school, worry about money and food, (not wanting to be a welfare mom) having someon be totattly depedent on me, having to find the father and drag him to court. PROS: ????