thinks u got some rite nasty cows on here

Sarah - posted on 02/22/2010

Well said Tabitha. I dislike it when people judge young mothers and put them all under one big umbrella. I know so many great and wonderful YOUNG moms out there that our doing their best for their children. I know that my son changed my life for the better. He is the reason I am going to college and the reason his dad is finding work and going to school. My son has blessed me in so many ways and many young parents feel that way. Yes, there are some bad younger parents out there but that does not mean everyone is bad. I am happy that I am young adn full of engery to watch my son crawl and laugh and play. Back in th eolder days, yes kids did have kids but that was because of the age they usually died at. This site is meant for us younger moms to find help and support not to be yelled out, called names or judged. I sure know that I needed help when I had my son. This site is wonderful and amazing but al it takes is those few people that judge that ruin it for everyone else. It is bad enough I stick up for myself every day at a college but now on this site too? My college says they do not discriminate or judge but guess what? I can't go to some school events because I am mom. They say I ca't bring my son to one class with me because the baby sitter is sick. I have had to stop everything I was doing to walk 5 miles to the baby sitters because the school said I can't have him here waitng for my ride. Yougn moms get bashed everyday from complete strangers. I for one, will stand up for myself and my son. My love for him is one in a million. People that bash have nothing better to do than stir up stuff and cause drama. God has a plan for all of us young moms and we should be proud of who we are and our family.

Emma - posted on 02/22/2010

tabitha thank you so much for not being like so many people and jumping to such a judgement of young mums. i was totally shocked to see such a statement on lisas last post, ive replyed on there "i think you have absolutly no right to judge all young mums like some kind of typical sterotype! i had my son at 15 he is now 5 and the best brought up child u would meet. i bought him up perfectly on my own while completing school and gettin all my grades. my son is incredible smart and the best behaved boy i know his age. i was in an awful place mentally when i feel pregnant with him but he was my angel in disguise. because of him i fixed up my life and proved to the world that i would be a fantastic mum n noone can tell me differently. i am now expecting my second child this friday and me and my family couldnt be happier. if it wasnt for having my son 5 years ago i wouldnt be experiences life and happiness like i am now. i think you need to open your eyes instead of making your own judgements on such a subject. uve just insulted a whole group of mums with ur ignorance all because of there age with out thinking about the whole picture yet there are thirty something year old woman popping out kids like its nothing and not carring for them and even treating them awfully, abuse and so on. so my point is that your age doesnt make you a gd or bad mum. and befor u make such a far fetched judgement u should get out there and meet REAL young mums such as my self"



im also even more shocked now seeing this thread, that she feels the right to judge ppl such as my self and yet uses language and behaviour like this on a support network of all places! this site is surely for sharing advise, knowlege and just the every day joys of parenthood. not for bitter nasty critisisim of people you dont actually know!

lisa, i think its time you start using the site as its surpose to be instead of showing urself up as such an imature person, especially after makin such a large judgement of many mums on her because of "there age" erm.... grow up!

Emma - posted on 02/22/2010

i agree with u tabitha all the way

Tabitha - posted on 02/22/2010

Asheleigh, I as a women and a supportive one at am going to stick up for mothers that I support. I could understand you saying I need to grow up if I was lowering myself to her level saying the things she is saying. The fact is the stuff she has been posting is degrading and un-necessary. If you feel it is ok for someone to sit backnd talk like this and say not one word. MORE power to you but because I stick up for what I believe in does NOT mean I need to grow up. I will grow at my own pace with no help or suggestions from others. I have done quite well so far. Its not a matter of NOT liking someone its saying what I feel is necessary to say. MAYBE if you go back through and reread her post you might find what she is saying just unnecesary. If you are ok with her the things she is saying than ok but I am not. This website it to help support moms and get advice to share the joys and up bringings as a mother. I am sorry you dont feel the need to stick up for yourself but thats the difference between you and me I guess.

Arielle - posted on 02/21/2010

I have nothing to say to this except, um, grow up? Obviously you went through the same thing we're all going through but yet you think you are somehow better than all of us? Seems pretty "nasty" to me.

Ashleigh - posted on 02/21/2010

Is it really necessary to have drama like this on a mommy kind of website?. We're all young moms and sure we don't all agree with whatever someone else is saying, but I've read a lot of stuff on here about moms saying that having their child has helped them grow up. I'm sorry but if you guys still are fighting over the internet that is far from being grown up. If you don't like her then don't reply to her useless posts, it's as simple as that. There is no need for drama like this, if thats the kind of drama you guys look forward to in life sign up for a nexopia account. I'm sure you'll find lots on there.

Karissa - posted on 02/21/2010

Grow up!!! you have a child that needs your guidance and the way things are looking from here he is going to need a better role model. What did you expect posting something like that on a teen mothers blog? No matter how old you are you are always someones child so get over the fact that some of us are younger than others AGE DOES NOT MATTER AS LONG AS YOU ARE A SUPPORTIVE AND LOVING MOM!!!!!

Amanda - posted on 02/21/2010

cant u like get her out of this group??

Tabitha - posted on 02/21/2010

Being raised by a pack of dogs? Sweetie go get an education and than come speak to me. I have no problem raising my daughter and I am not a teen to be raised my self I am an adult. Really sweetie were you raised as white trash? I mean come on you coouldnt come up with something a little more effective or maybe even a little more educated. I know what you show on here and thats enough to know you a Uneducated, angry, disrespectful little BRAT. I am saddened for your son to have such a mother as you. You need help to have such personal issues with this matter and for it to cause you to verbally lash out like this. It is and will be ok I HOPE for the benefit of your son. If you cant take what you dish out, heres a little saying you might know "Don't start none wont be none". To speak on the matter I know a few 14 year old moms who have more sense and education than you have. Who have more class and love for themselfs. Maybe you should take a deep breath type what you have to say and than do a spellng grammer check make sure all the words are in place, than I MIGHT be able to "daft" you.

Lisa - posted on 02/21/2010

lmfao

Brittany - posted on 02/21/2010

Oh by the way, learn to spell and learn some grammar. GO TO SCHOOL that's what it's there for.

Emily - posted on 02/21/2010

you really do give young moms a bad name.im only 18 and from what ive read im a way better mom then you. but then again your only 20,so how can u judge anyone?its a website so why not grow up and stop talking shit online.we call that being a internet thug around where i live. take care of ur bby and leave ppl alone

Brittany - posted on 02/21/2010

Go Tabitha! You know what Lisa? I've read a few of your posts and I have to agree with Tabitha, you never have any sort of constructive questions or comments and it's true, you acting like a child is what gives the rest of us a bad image. I'm a young mom too but you don't see me running around acting like a child. I had a baby so I grew up, it's time for you to as well.

Lisa - posted on 02/21/2010

do u no wat fuck u u dnt no me and im not talkin about mums like 16 u daft mere im talkin bout 14 yr olds do not bring my family in this wen u have prob bin raised by a pack of dogs

Tabitha - posted on 02/21/2010

http://www.circleofmoms.com/teenage-moth...



Click this URL and it will take you directly what she is refering to. Than there wont be no confusion on why she is getting the feedback she will be getting.

Tabitha - posted on 02/21/2010

I am NOT suprised to see such a post from such a person. This is how I know you are a young mom. You have no sense, dignity or self respect. Yes I know its just a website but really? Did your mom not raise you with class. Your a hypocrite! In my personal opinion you put a bad name to young and teen moms. You are the reason they are sterotyped. You judge young women having children "kids having kids is crazy". What is really crazy is low standard, hypocritical, respectless people like you would rather post some disrespectful crap like this. Let me guess you didn't like what moms had to say in you post. HA what did you expect? Now your just making your self look worse. Learn some class little girl! Respect at that to. Otherwise how will your child ever learn.

Keisha - posted on 02/21/2010

yep... some people definitley are, but there are some really nice ones too! What happened?