Danica - posted on 03/30/2010 ( 28 moms have responded )
I got pregnant when I was 17 and had my baby girl when I was 18. My babies dad had left me when I was about 6 months pregnant, sense then he was in and out of our lives. After I had her we got back together for about a month and now we're not together and havent been getting along. I had found a new boyfriend and moved in with him but we recently split up and now I'm living with my parents. I work about 35 hours a week and I'm a full time student. I have a very busy life and my parents seem to be the main babysitters for me. Well my babies dad recently got a girlfriend who is 17 and he is 20. I'm not okay with him taking her around my baby. So the times he may want her (less than once a week) he always asks if he can have his g.f over too. When I say no he gets mad and tells me that I'm the reason he don't see his daughter and that I just need to get over the fact he has a girlfriend and let her around my baby. I spend every penny on my baby and all my time and effort is for her. He gives me about 30 dollars a month and sees her about 4 days a month. Doesn't call to ask about her or ask to see her. When the holidays come around what am I supposed to say when he asks for her. Or on her first birthday which is in two months. Am I the bad parent for not wanting another girl like that around my baby? I realize I would eventually need to get over it but he doesn't help me with our daughter.