Amy - posted on 08/13/2010 ( 3 moms have responded )
So me and my son's father are engaged we've been for almost two years and back in June he had graduated from high school and had to move for college, but of course after he moves from college he couldn't get in due to being denied of a student loan. And his mom just had a baby last month so there's no room for him to move back there, my house already has 8 people as it is and my step dad can't afford to feed another mouth which is why he made his son's go get work to pay rent until they move out, and it's impossible to get a place around here since I live in a small town type of deal. He doesn't live very far still in the same state, but about two and half hours away. He has a car, but of course he's trying to get a job to save up for an apartment and finally tie the knot with me and all the things that fall behind it. He does come up to visit me and our son and he does the best he can to help me, but it's not often and I feel like he's missing out on our son's life right now bec he's getting so big and getting smarter everyday and I wish his daddy could see this a bit more often. I do respect that he has no place to go other than living with his dad and that he's trying hard to get a job to officially make me and Aiden [[our son]] family and have us live how he thinks a family should together. Whenever he comes up though I get all emotional when he has to leave bec I miss him terribly and our son misses him to no end. I try to get him to stay up here longer, but of course job hunting is something he needs to do. I have to wait to get a job since that's my mom's rules so I can't make it easier for him just yet. Is it bad that I get all upset when he leaves and worry about his connection with our son?