What is a good age to get married?!?!?

Charon - posted on 02/17/2010 ( 8 moms have responded )

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im 18 n i have 2 kids n as soon a i turn 18 i got married to my childern father was it too sooni have been with him since i was 13we have 2 kids together he workd while i go to school we stay together jud me him n the boys i love him very much

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Ashae - posted on 02/21/2010

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I was wondering the same thing I want to get married Im about to turn 21 everyone is telling me to wait but me and my daughter father live togther and we already seem married I want to get married next year everyone around me is objecting but his parents they want us married and so does he but my family doesnt agree. but i dont think there is a to soon if you where in your 30s and you got married and it didnt work out it would be the same as if you were in ur early twenties. it about the realtionshp not the age.

Brooke - posted on 02/21/2010

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My partner and I are not married, we aren't even engaged lol

For some yes it is to young for others no.. it depends on the compatability. I personally think it can take yrs to realise how much you really love a person.

People ask me when I am going to get married seen we have a child. I tell them having a child is not an excuse to get married! We are committed to each other any way and we dont feel that a piece of paper and ring are going to make that stronger.

Yes we are going to get married one day, we want to. But it will be perfect. I want 3 children so does he and we both want our 3 children to be there to share our special occasion.

I don't want anything to be rushed and would like to do as much saving as we can so we can have our fairy tale wedding.

Whitley - posted on 02/18/2010

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i got married the 1st time when i was 19! It lasted a week! It was a HUGE mistake on my part and i never should of went thru with it! It was too soon even though we had been together 2 years! I am now 21 and married again! This time it is different! He is an AMAZING guy and we are not expecting a child together! We were only together 3 months before we got married! It all depens on how you feel about the guy and if it is true love and how much you guys fight and just alot of thinking has to go into it! Think about yourself married before you actually do it! Every one and every relationship is different! If you think you can spend the rest of your life with him then yes deffinatly go for it! But if there are issues in the relationship then maybe sit back and try to work them out 1st! Make sure that it is what you both want before you jump the gun! You can be happy with someone without being married to them! It all pretty much up to both of you in the end!

Stacy - posted on 02/18/2010

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I got my married at 18 and I wouldn't change it he is my best friend and my soul mate. We have been through a lot and were there for each other. We have been married almost four years now and have a beautiful daughter...

Lindsey - posted on 02/18/2010

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i am 19 years old and got married when i was 18 and 4 months pregnant, i have known my husband since i was in the 2nd grade, and i cant see my life without him! i knew that he was going to be the right one a long time ago! we got our impulses out in high school, and now remain faithful to eachother. just as long as you feel like it is the right decision, then its probably right! good luck! :)

Karissa - posted on 02/17/2010

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im getting married this summer and i am 19. I dont think you are ever to young to get married i would have been married when i was 16 if my parents would have let me but it also depends weather or not you love this guy. and i dont mean the kind of love when you first get married cause that will go away i mean that if you love this guy you will CHOSE to love him even when you want to hit him. It is hard sometimes but i think if you loved your husband enough to marry him then you can make it through anything with alittle effort and love. hope i helped Good Luck and God Bless!

Keisha - posted on 02/17/2010

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Im 18 also and have actually been wondering the same question since my boyfriend proposed on christmas eve... not married yet though so I cant really answer your question, only you and your husband really know if the marriage is working out for the best.

Jessica - posted on 02/17/2010

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I got married when I was 18 also and it has been a about a year and a half in june it will be 2 years so I don't think it is too soon... as long as you love the guy. My grandma was married at the age of 17... I am sure if my grandpa was still alive they would be happy together.

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