What is the meanest comment you've gotten for being a young mother?

Brittany - posted on 10/31/2011

my husband, kids and I were on vacation and we went to a resturant and the waitress said "these are your kids?!" we said yes they are (very proudly) then she said "its amazing how young kids can have kids and druggies can but yet my husband and I cant" we just ignored her...then out came my dinner and she said are full and she you probably need help because your hands cut my hamburger up while i giving the baby a bottle lol ( like i was two!)!! We finally had it with her that she kept going on during our nice family outing that we spoke with the manager later and she apologized! what a night we will never forget...best part she asked my age...and i asked her her's ; ) without replying.

Atrielle - posted on 10/31/2011

Well the first one was when I was pregnant and my mom told her coworker the news and shetold my mother she wish she had 300 dollars to give her so she can get rid of it... Then some lady came into my moms salon about a month ago and saw my baby had on real walking shoes and she was like your mom mst have gotten those cuz these young mothers dont buy there kids stride rites (the brand of shoes) then my most recent this lady my

Atrielle - posted on 10/31/2011

Well the first one was when I was pregnant and my mom told her coworker the news and shetold my mother she wish she had 300 dollars to give her so she can get rid of it... Then some lady came into my moms salon about a month ago and saw my baby had on real walking shoes and she was like your mom mst have gotten those cuz these young mothers dont buy there kids stride rites (the brand of shoes) then my most recent this lady my

Veronica - posted on 10/04/2011

My old PO asked do you know who the father is. I was like WTF! I should've reported him to the chain of command.

Jaymee - posted on 05/04/2010

welll My sons Biological father ( my son does not see him due to all threats he said while i was preg hes actually gone to the point where ima put an AVO on him ) well the other day he sends me msgs saying i should have my son taken off of me.. Lol i just laughed like.. yeah right, he has a perfect step dad, has all his needs.. this is because he wants to try take him away but cant because he is not on the birth :D due to mum said not to put him on after everything he did

Jenna - posted on 05/04/2010

sum old lady stopped me in the street and said i had ruined my life and i had no feelings for my son as he deserved a mother old enuf and sum1 who truly loved him

how dare she say i dnt love my son he is my world and she didnt knw me, people r so crule

Jessenia - posted on 05/04/2010

I've had to different experiences:
the first i had to be 6 months pregnant and i was at church in the choir loft, it was time for communion and the priest came up looked at me and withheld the Eucharist it took him alil while before he actually gave it to me he didnt have to say anything his actions were enough..

my second was when my daughter was about 4 months old i was at my house and my aunt came to me and said we have the right to be mad no one told you or asked you to get pregnant, that hurt me alot because she was already here and in the picture

Clarissa - posted on 04/24/2010

i hated when people said to me that i was a bad mum just because i am young random people wld just say it to me in the shopping center .... i hated it

Gillian - posted on 04/24/2010

Well i have so many were do i start!

the 1st one i ever got was "well youve just ruined your life havent you your poor family they must me so ashamed of you"

the one that made me the most angry was when my son was 1st born my next door neighbour called me every name under the sun! but when my bf (babys daddy) was there shed say how lovely, good etc he was for staying with me wtf!

also i got blamed for a friend of the family not being able to concive when i fell preg

but the worst one i ever got was of my mother in law she said i planned my son so i could trap her son and that she wished i lost him

Sarah - posted on 04/24/2010

I worked full time when I was pregnant. I had my son at 19. But I think the worst thing that anyone said was to me boss, I believe they said "Why are you letting HER work, there are other young, harder working people out there that DESERVE this job more then her. She already ruined her life." I worked there for 2 years and plan on going back when I move.

The most hurtful thing that still haunts me to this day (my son is 8 months as of today!) was my boyfriend's friends and family said that our child was not his, I got pregnant so he would stay with me and that he was planning on leaving me before he found out I was pregnant.

But stay strong moms! :)

Ashley - posted on 04/24/2010

i had someone tell me i was stupid and ruined my senior year....and i had another person tell me that i would never get a good job now and that my boyfriend of 4 years wouldnt be able to support us. now i just get the stares and the occasional "i dont wanna be rude but are you fat or pregnant"

Tiffany - posted on 04/23/2010

when i was pregnant at 16, i got a voicemail on my phone from a bunch of girls (i now know who they are) saying that im a slut, skank, whore, and if i get an abortion im a bitch and what not.. but some of the girls are hypocrites because ive heard that a lot of them have had abortions and have been with numerous guys and ive only been with the babies father .. some people are just so rude and have no clue what they are talking about... anybody having sex can get pregnant so they shouldnt assume that if somebody is pregnant then they are a slut.

Tuia - posted on 04/23/2010

other then the, "you're too young to have a kid" & the "fucking kids having kids" & the & the "you're going to be a failure" & "you're a slut/whore because you're a teen mum" comments, the worse ones that i got are

- "you are a prenant whore, you should die yeah. i dont no why the fuck some cunt hooked up with you for.he is scum almost as much as you bitch, i hope you kill your baby, i hope you drop it on its head and step on it"

and there was another one that pretty much said the same.
they were the two that really got to me, because who the hell wishes an innocent baby dead!?

Kasi - posted on 04/23/2010

"you cant charish your child and love them as much when your young" im pretty sure I love my daughter just as much as someone who is 20,30, or 40!!

Brittany - posted on 04/23/2010

how come young teens that dont know anything be responsible for taking care of a baby? (yea right to my face and my husbands face and my two kids where there) I just smiled and said maybe its not the age its the person that raises the child and walked away

Amanda - posted on 04/23/2010

my daughter is 14 months and people STILL talk about me. i look a lot younger then i really am. But when i was prego and i went to the doctors one of the staff members asked me if i was going to be able to support my child alone.. i looked at her and said um i live with my boyfriend and she said " oh, hes still with you?

and when we told my bfs mom about it she looked right at him and said well you better start paying child support now. She always trys to take my daughter from me and gets mad when we wont let her see her because she is always drunk. The day of my baby shower she showed up drunk and the day after autumn was born she came to visit and the nurses kicked her out because she smelled of vodka and was shaking...

and she calls me a bad mother....

Kayle - posted on 04/22/2010

My BOSS when I told her I was pregnant told me. " You should get an abortion because having a baby should be between a husband and wife." I was so pissed. I should have gone to upper managment and reported her but I had just started working there and had yet to meet any upper managment. So instead I went to the bathroom and bawled my eyes out. Unfortunatly I still work for the dumb bitch but she's pregnant now. She may be married but her and her husband chose not to have kids before they got married. She's not happy about being prego. But what goes around comes around. She also used to cut my hours when I was prego because I was working slower and this was when I was 8 months prego. Umm....I've gained an extra 60 pounds of course I'm gonna be a little slower.

Shelby - posted on 04/22/2010

I got blamed for one of my "friends" wanting to leave town, She called my daughter a fuckup and said she was going to end up just like me. and that I was going to be broke and not be able to take care. She said I was going to be a bad mother and that If me and the father got married it was going to be a shotgun wedding.

Catherine - posted on 04/22/2010

"Such an intelligent girl, just throwing her life away."
I graduated at age 16, I am 17 and in college, so I did not throw my life away!

Au contraire, I'm where I am, and standing proudly because of my baby, Luna.
Without her, I would be still sitting in High School, struggling, and going crazy.

I really really bad before her.

Tori - posted on 04/22/2010

I was about 8 months pregnant and did not look that far along by how my daughter carried. I could still wear most of my normal tops. It was the middle of july and I was going to starbucks. My doctor told me I was allowed to have coffee occasionally and it was the first time that I had coffee my whole pregnancy and I got a small one. There was 2 older ladies in front of me in line and when I was waiting for my coffee I heard them mumble, "This is why high school students shouldn't have kids, she has probably dropped out of school and is ruining her life just like the rest of them" I turned around and I was like excuse you I'm not in high school im in college full time, even during the summer, I haven't dropped out and i'm not ruining my life and owuld appreciate if you would keep your comments to yourself. She told me I needed God in my life rather than partying and sleeping around. by this point i was furious and was yelling at the bitch and was like ya I didn't party and I know who the dad of my daughter is so shut your fucking mouth. She told me she waited till she was 38 to have her baby and i was like o so you can't even play with your kid. and then I was like you say I'm going to be a horrible mom because I'm a teenager yet you waited to have your baby at an age where you just set them up for medical issues their whole life grabbed my coffee and walked out.

I had a customer at work when I was telling her about breastpump stuff for her newborn, she looked at me and was like no offense but your a little young I don't know how much you really know about all of this stuff and would appreciate if I could talk to somebody with kids. I was like well maam I have a 3 month old daughter at home and I am using this exact pump so I can explain it, and she was like well then I would prefer not to talk to a teenage whore. Luckily my boss was there and he walked up to her and was like that is uncalled for and you know nothing about my employees life. If that is how you are going to behave please leave.

I had alot of friends who turned on me when I got pregnant and started a bunch of shit. I was friends with a girl who did not know who the father of her baby is because it was a toss up between 5 different guys whom she had been with the week she was ovulating. She didn't know she was pregnant till she was 6 months along and partied the whole time till she found out yet I was supportive of her decision to carry her baby to term. She gave her daugther up for adoption and about a month and a half later found out i was pregnant. She was supportive when she was trying to convince me to give the baby up for adoption when my fiance and i decided to keep our daughter she stopped talking to me and started spreading rumors. She said I got pregnant on purpose to trap my fiance because he was going to leave me fro another girl and that he got her pregnant too and blah blah blah. I messaged her and told her to keep her mouth shut but the worst was when around our high school rumors were going around spread by her siblings that i didn't know who the dad was. I have only been with my fiance so i'm pretty damn sure i know who my daughters father is lol. It was just a huge ordeal. and its like i was in school had a job and had a million and one things and was taking birth control and using condoms for a reason. unlike her who didn't use a damn thing and swore the father of her baby was somebody we all knew it wasn't because she wanted him and he didn't want her. that to me sounds like trapping him.

When we told my fiances mom i was pregnant and that the birth control failed she just put her head down shook it and sighed and said well you two fucked up didnt you. Even tho she got pregnant the first time at 16 and had an abortion and none of her kids were planned. She then spent 3 months trying to convince my fiance to convince me to get an abortion and said that this baby was not welcomed because it was ruining his life and that i was horrible for even considering keeping it. My daughter wasn't planned but I would NEVER in a million years have an abortion.

It was and is my responsibility to take care of my actions and that's what i'm doing by raising my daughter. I constantly hear I don't have money and that my mom will raise her and I will beo n welfare. I am in school full time I work full time and my mom only babysits while I'm at work. We don't dump her off to go party or other stupid shit like people assume. My fiance and I pay our own bills and bought everything for our daughter. Us young moms do need to stick together and tell those old ladys and their comments to shove it where the sun dont shine

Leisha - posted on 04/22/2010

well.. when me and my partner told his mum i was pregnant her reply was "You shouldnt even be keeping it" you's have nothing and you cant provide for this baby then turned to my partner and said we all know what is going to happen you will be seeing your baby every second weekend just like everybody else! well to this day we have been together for 3years and i still havent forgiven her! and i also copped it from an old friend ive known for years i heard her say Well thats what you get when your a slut .. well id rather be a young mum then an older one who cant run around after my own child and im doing the best darn job i possibly can to raise my child im sure you all are too its just a shame we all get put down and dont get any recognition for what we do.

Krystal - posted on 04/22/2010

ive been told that i am setting a bad example for other teenagers and that they will end up like me....im in college making a life for me and my daughter....yeah that would be awful if a young teen mom stayed in school!!!

Kristin - posted on 04/21/2010

One of my post-op nurses made a rude comment based on the assuption that I was 16. However, I quickly shot back that I didn't want someone taking care of me who apparently couldn't count, as I was 20 years old! Moreover, I got in touch with her surpervisor and explained the occurance. As I was later informed, that nurse wasn't too happy with the outcome. I used to really get upset when people made rude comments. However, it's a small but glorious victory knowing they they are ignorant of my situation, and in-fact, most young mothers situations. I'm a full-time college honors student and a great mother, something those people probably couldn't accomplish if they tried:)

Destinie - posted on 04/21/2010

I have been givin so many dirty looks and told mean stuff but I think what bothers me the most is My aunt. She goes around telling everyone that I am a bad mother because my son likes her. and that I am a bad mother because I hold my son when he is asleep and he sleeps in bed with me. The most fucked up thing though is The fact that I dont drik smoke or do any drugs because of him. I am home everynight I dont go anywhere with out him. But where is she after work the bar she dont even know if her kids eat dinner.. Her 13 year old daughter talks dirty to boys. she sleeps at guys houses. so tell me who is the better parent the one who is home taking care of her kid or the one that is never home and the only time she is she is drunk off her ass. BITCH I hate people who can talk shit behind my back but not my face.

Theresa - posted on 04/21/2010

omg totally i have been called just bout every name under the sun but the worst one was probably when one of the gals i use to go to skool with told me i was a good for nothing tramp that was never going to amount to any thing and that i was always going to be a single parent bc no one likes a slut. that phrase sticks in my mind cuz it hurt.

Leah - posted on 04/21/2010

and i have to credit one lovely lady who had a daughter at 15 and had told me that she thinks its great how im having a baby young because she said 'i had my baby at 15 and its great you get to grow up together and its gud getting to do that!!!

Leah - posted on 04/21/2010

i always got dirty looks and 'your ruining your life' or 'or you look to young to be a mum but i never let it bother me i just gave them dirty looks back but the most worse one was i was 16 and i was 4 moths preg at the time and my husbands aunty said this to me "i told my kids to go out and have a life go see the world have fun before getting pregnate and having kids so my kids are" made me so angry i didnt tlk 2 her for the rest of the day she also rang my husband up the day before our wedding day saying do you think its the right thing to do you sure and all this shit coz i was 18.. oh and her daughter always makes fun of teen mums on facebook pisses me off.. ANOTHER THING EVERYONE PISSES ME OFF WEN PPL JUST ASUME YOUR BABYS AN ACCIDENT AND THAT YOU DIDNT WAN THEM AND BECAUSE YOUR A YOUNG MUM YOU CANT GIVE THEM WHAT THEY NEED BULLSHIT MY SON ALWAYS HAS WAT HE NEEDS PLUS MORE.... just because there older doesnt make them a better mum

Daralee - posted on 04/21/2010

i had the same at the hospital i was left siting in the bed were ui gave birth no clean sheets 4 3 hours

Hayley - posted on 04/21/2010

from my mom, dad,cousin and brother " you ruined your life and you'll never be able to give your baby what he needs and you'll never do anything great with your life"

Jordyn - posted on 04/21/2010

When I was pregnant looking for a doctor I found one who was "big" on treating all women equal and all that good stuff so I went with her. Well as time went on and I was her for about 3 app. her entire staff was rude to me even her than out of no where my baby was having heart issues... so she dropped me as a patient!! Than as I was in labor at the hospital i was treated like total crap!!! After giving birth I was left in my room for 3 hours calling for help but no one would come!!! it goes on and on but in the end I am the best mom I am and for them to all judge on how young was wrong im so sick of it all!!!!

Daralee - posted on 04/21/2010

i got called a stupid little bitch and that my baby was going to be neglected by me

Amanda - posted on 04/21/2010

i dont really remember much from when i was pregnant because most of the kids at school left me alone. but this last year (mind you i got pregnant at 14, had my son at 15 and he died 2 months later from SIDS) my mom went to college with a girl my brother goes to school with's mom. he was in 8th grade at the time and supposedly a girl that this mom's daughter hung out with was pregnant. she was 14. she plainly and clearly told my mom, who is very protective of me and my situation, "my daughter will never hang out with that whore again." my mom returned with "so your saying my daughter is a whore because she was 14 when she got pregnant to." and she tried to fix what she said but there is no fixin something like that.

Another one that bothered me was the day my son died, i went to the school to tell them and a few friends that i wouldnt be attending for a while. i started bawling right outside the art room and a girl i had known for a while but didnt really care for stopped me and asked me what was wrong. i told her what happened and she said she was sorry and what not. well a couple weeks later i hear people saying that this girl was trying to spread a rumor that i killed my son. because i was co sleeping that i had rolled over on him. (none of which is even slightly true, except the fact that i did co sleep).

Alycia - posted on 04/21/2010

I was feeding my 2 and half month old son pedialight in a mall foodcourt yesterday (pedialight is a medicine to help with his diarreah and it looks like apple juice) so this elderly lady looks at me and goes 'my goodness! this is the problem with children havinbg children you can't give him apple juice at his age! and you all seem to starve your children till their 6months. You're all terrible and stupid! you'll kill your baby before he's one!'
lol kinda made me laugh.

Wendor - posted on 04/21/2010

i have heard people say "wow, you are going to school? but why your life is ruined u cant go to school" and "i dont think you would be a good mother"

Candice - posted on 04/21/2010

I was standing in line and a women turned around to her 12 year old daughter pointed to me and said if you ever end up like that girl I will beat you senseless....

Holly - posted on 04/21/2010

hmmm the meanest comment i ever got......this girl tried to call me a slut for dating bcuz i was going to be a mom at 18. i was so pissed at her...i was like ten weeks or something so i walked over to her(she was on the other side of the cafeteria) and cussed her ass out in front of the whole cafeteria! i told her how wtf is it to her who am talkin to? she remained quiet the entire time i yelled at her. the next day she switched lunches. i really dont care what people say bcuz please believe i'll give it to them....hahahaha ...but i guess i mostly run into people with there rude ass faces....
i attend a university and my daughter is always with me i mean always!!! all over campus people stare and i usually snap on them....as long as my daughters ears are cover lol. but its gettin old am almost done with my first year of college so i kinda just brush it off


but forreal us teeange moms need to stick together and stop being ashamed of being so young ....age aint nothin but a number!

Allyssa - posted on 04/21/2010

Well i think the one that hurt most and affected me the most was my mom calling me a bad mother. And she had no reason for it she just likes to bring me down. I havent really gotten comments to me about my daughter i know if anyone would say anything about my daughter id go off the handle. But this town is used to teenage moms. Youd be surprised of how many teen moms are in my town. Its beginning to get crazy.

Jennifer - posted on 04/20/2010

I had my son at 16 and attended catholic school I was pulled aside and told I wasn't allowed to accept the host becuase i wasn't right with God because I was pregnant so I took communion then they had a big speech in front of the whole school that anyone who wasn't right with God couldnt accept the host so i continued to receive comunion I was told by my sister that I ruined eveything, she would throw me down the stairs and she always knew I'ld be a teen mom I also had a boy a school threaten me and my baby I was walking down the hall and got pissed off that this guy kept bumping me so I gave him shit for it; then he said he was going to kill me cut out my baby and rape its body..............that terrified me I told my friend who told our teacher who went to the principal and this guy pretended I was a crazy pregnant person and they didnt beleive me and noting ever happened to him I think that hurt worse than being threatened

Kat - posted on 04/20/2010

I get nasty looks and people try to make comments behide my back and all that. The worst thing I've had said to me was my at the time 17 year old sister telling me I was a whore and that I was going to ruin my son's life and he was going to hate me... I was almost 4 months pregnant at the time my son is now almost 6 months old and I still resent her some for saying those comments and that is just a quick summary of what she said..

Melany - posted on 04/20/2010

I was sixteen when my grandfather found out i was pregnant i was talking to him over the phone and he said "I wish you'd change your mind about abortion"
I feel like he will never accept Riley. My 2 month old.

Shavaune - posted on 04/20/2010

I got pregnant at 17 and while I heard alot of the same comments you guys got from random people (some I knew, some I didn't) but I think the worst was from my mom. When I told her I was pregnant her first words were "get an abortion" like it was a trip to the grocery store or something. I can't even type my response on here lol Then she went on and on about how I was screwing up my life, I would screw up my kid etc etc. The worst part was that my mom had me at 16 so I was basically sitting there listening to how I screwed her life up and how she didn't get to go to college and how I messed up her life. I could care less about what some asshole thinks on the street, but my mom? That hurt alot.

Amy - posted on 04/20/2010

Apparently my son is a "fuck prize" and I'm a slut ferr having my son. But no one has ever said anything to my face. It doesn't bother me bec I have heard worse when I wasn't even a mommy.

Brittany - posted on 04/20/2010

i just recently turned 19. & my son is 18 months. im constantly getting nasty looks. when i was about 7 months pregnant with my son, i was about an hour away from my home at a mcdonalds, & some guy, probably in his 40s had the nerve to walk over to me, & look at me and go "are you serious?" walked away, then looks at his wife & shakes his head and says "fucking babies having babies!" i blew up. and told him to fuck himself. and walked out . it was so disrespectful. yes, i was only 17. but honestly, i helped my mom raise both my brothers, who are now 5 & 14 years old. i changed my first diaper, & burped and fed a newborn for the first time at 5 yrs old. i took parenting classes at 12 years to learn how to deal with all kinds of children, inlcuding ones with mental illnesses. im more than ready to be a mom. and a damn good one at that. my son is my LIFE. without him, i would be nothing. its unreal how rude some people can be. i am now 19 yrs, engaged WITH the father of my son, and living in our own place. & making our own money to raise our son. people need to understand, that just because we are young, doesnt make us bad parents. Age will never matter, its your maturity level. & in my oppinion, if they dont fucking like it. then they dont have to look.

us young moms need to stick together. & prove all those assholes wrongg.

Amanda - posted on 04/20/2010

i got this in a FB message from a girl i knew in highschool:



"You may think that I am being mean Amanda, I know I dont know you anymore. None of that matters. Choosing to have a child at your age is wrong. You dont have enough experience in life to pass on to them. I am 99 percent sure you dont have the money to sustain them. Waiting to have a child would have been a better decision, at this point your just being selfish. I know its none of my business but on this one.. I dont think i can keep it to myself because im tired of hearing about people and their terrible childhoods.. your just setting your kids up for disaster. "



later on in the conversation she added this:



"If this was something you were doing to yourself I wouldnt have bothered to comment at all, your life is your life. But when you bring kids into it.. its getting a little rediculous. I just think you should realize its wrong is all. People look down upon young mothers for a reason and there are some "accidents" that cannot be forgiven. "



what a bitch huh? little did she know that yes in fact i DO have the money. she knew me for a whole like 6 months. this whole thing started when i posted that i was expecting my second. she had never seen me with my frist. i think it's completely rediculas this almost stranger feels she has some right to attack me on my page in front of everyone.



edit: btw i didn't plan on either of my kids. but unlike she probebly would, i wouldnt just have an abortion. nothing wrong with if someone wants to. but it was my mistake and im not one to run from things

Stacey - posted on 04/20/2010

i never got many bad comments for being a young mum just the usual like 'she probably had a child so she can spend her life on benefits' that 1 really bothered me because it aint true! i was 18 when i had my daughter i was single but still managed to work, get a flat and provide what ever my daughter needs! and i did it all myself! but wheneva sum1 judges u jus say what i say JUST BECAUSE IM A YOUNG MUM DOESN'T MAKE ME A BAD MUM! no1 as eva managed to say sumthing back 2 that 1!.

Cassie - posted on 04/20/2010

My exflatmate and I had a falling out when I was 5months pregnant and she said that she felt sorry for my baby having to grow up with such a disgusting mother and that she would get taken off me and my partner and that we didnt deserve her. Made me so angry but now she sees me out and about with my gorgeous baby girl who is well looked after and loved. Hope she feels ashamed of what she said everytime she sees us as I was upset for quite a while after that. But now I dont care what anyone thinks. Also had the comments from the parents friends, oh what are you going to do now.

Ali - posted on 04/20/2010

One of my ex-friends said that I would never be a good mother. That I am neglectful and will never be able to support my son. She told me that Derek (my son) was a mistake and I only had him to make my fiance love me and stay with me. I don't think I have ever gotten a worse comment from anyone in my entire life. I'm only 19 and people give me dirty looks all the time while walking with my son, and throughout my whole pregnancy as my tummy got bigger. I ignore the stares, but that comment will forever stay with me :(

Lisa - posted on 04/19/2010

lets see i was about 7 or 8 months pregnant at the public swimming pool and i was walking along minding my own business and a kid about 14 or younger says "i wonder what its like to F*** a pregnant b**** that made me very mad. and then i have had family members say behind my back "oh i knew she would be the one to get pregnant at this age" and there 19 year old son turns around and gets a girl pregnant sucks to be them lol i think ive had more but honetsly i dont pay attetion and i try not to hear i love the rude looks and the up and down looks of my classmates when they see me with my son it makes me laugh but im proud of my baby boy and i love him to death and woulndt change a thing about it people can take there rude ass comments and shuve em up there you know what

Katlynn - posted on 04/19/2010

i havnt gotten to many really bad comments mostly just the general... "what a whore she must be", "way to ruin your life", and so on and so forth.... It doesnt really bother me to much i think people jsut need to know the hole story first... but being called a "whore" kinda gets to me because i am not i was with her father for two years before i got pregnant and left because h was abusive....

Natazia - posted on 04/19/2010

I was 15 when I was prego with my first son, and what didn't I get told. The worst thing I was ever told was "Didn't you have a tv?" I also got the abortion talk, and the baby having a baby talk! I always reply with I started young to finish young! Atleast i will age and become a great grandmother unlike some OLD woman with YOUNG children! Go try and run after your kid old lady1 bwhahahaha!

It works! Trust me they shut up quick!