What's your story? How did you get pregnant?

Kelsey - posted on 03/10/2009 ( 140 moms have responded )

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I was just curious as to what each of your stories were to how you became a teen mother. I feel like most teen moms were at a bad time in their teenage years and were partying a lot and that is kinda how they became pregnant. I was not like this at all. My senior year I was not a party girl. I was a straight A student with lots of friends. I had only ever kissed 1 guy before my boyfriend, my baby's father and current boyfriend, and I waited quiet awhile before having sex with him. When we conceived it was on the night of my 17th birthday. I decided to celebrate by drinking for once in a great while and when I got home we had unprotected sex. Now we are both working full time, in college full time, and living together with our son who is now 10 months old. Our lives weren't effected too much but I don't get to experience the whole college experience to its fullest. I'm happy though. I have everything I always wanted its just all at once and some things a little early. Can't wait to hear your stories!

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Asha-Lee - posted on 02/21/2012

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I just turned 19, The condom burst and Plan B didnt work, Im 4 mnts along n still in shock I havent told anyone..... my mother is going to be so hurt..........I have no idea what I'm going to do, and I'm very depressed.

Amy Dawn - posted on 11/11/2013

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hi my name is Amy I found out I am pregnant my mom and I got in a disagreement about a party at my friends house so I went .I am 13 years old . I went back home from swimming about 5 weeks later I did not feel right my mom found spots in my panty she ask me if I had sex be for I said yes she gave me a pregnant test told to leave

Mamabear - posted on 11/06/2013

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I was 14 and I saw this guy walking past, he was so fine, i thought he was ganna become mine, and he did become mine, until i found out, i was pregnant to his bestfriend, not also that, i had sex with him at the same time, i then found out i had twins, but the one twin looked like my lovers bestfriend, and the other twin looked like my lover. i cant believe im having twins to two different guys, i love them both but i think im inlove with my lovers dad. WHAT SHOULD I DO?!!
From a lonely single mother

Jessica - posted on 06/17/2009

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I got pregnant when I was 18.

I met my boyfriend in Feb 2008 and moved in with him and a few roommates a few weeks later (not my smartest decision) and I became pregnant 4 months later.

Before I got pregnant, my boyfriend and I were off and on and breaking up probably 3 times a week and I had moved back in with my parents.

When my boyfriend and I decided to give us one more shot, he kept telling me I needed to go get checked because I wasn't acting 'normal' and he had a feeling I was pregnant.

I kept blowing it off and I thought he was just paranoid and one night after sex, i started spotting so i was convinced i started my perioid, but he wasn't and still wanted me to get checked. The next morning, the bleeding had stoped so I went to the doctors and found out I was 4 weeks pregnant.

I was in shock and scared and I honestly didn't want to tell my boyfriend I was pregnant because I knew that he would tell me to get an abortion, but to my surprise he didn't want one, he wanted what I wanted and he knew that keeping our baby is what i wanted and he vowed to stand by me 100% and a year and a half later he's still keeping his word.

After I found out I was pregnant, I enrolled myself back into school and managed to get the last 7 credits I needed to graduate, and despite what teachers told me, I did graduate 5 months later, a month and a half before I was due.

I never dwelled on being a teen mother, I never thought my life was over, I just thought of it as a new chapter in my life. I personally don't think it's too difficult at all, sure some things are stressful but in the end it's all worth it. Sometimes I do miss my old life and my friends, but then every morning when my daughter wakes up and the first thing she does when i look at her is smile, i remember that i left my old life behind for a much better and successful life.

I found that being positive changes everything.



Now, currently I am working a full time job and will be starting college in the fall.

My boyfriend and I are still together, some days and better than others, but we're making it together.

Vangie - posted on 08/28/2013

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I met my current fiancé when I was 13, in 8th grade. He was my first everything, first time, first kiss, first love, you get the point. Throughout the years we were on and off, we were never really a couple until my junior year, when my junior year came along we were in a relationship, we were having our good days, and bad ones too, but every relationship does. We had been arguing and fighting a lot, and close to the end of our junior year things got better. We tried to have a baby at one point in time during our junior year, but it didn't happen. Senior year came around, and we were having unprotected sex, of course using the pull-out method. When October came around we tried for a baby again, but nothing. I would get super excited, just to be disappointed with a negative result. Things got rocky, and we took a break for during the months of January, February, and the beginning of March. We got back together on March 28th, and when we got back together, we immediately tried again. After months of trying, and months of being disappointed, we was finally happy to find out that we had gotten pregnant on May 17, 2013. We didn't find out until June when I missed my period, we had graduated by then, and we was and currently are living together. My fiancé is currently working a full time job, and providing for us as a family. He has been nothing but supportive, and our relationship has gotten so good. I will be 15 weeks pregnant tomorrow. I am 18, he will be 19 in October, and I am so glad that I can start a family with the man I've been in love with for 5 years. Life is good, and only getting better. I have a man that holds me, and takes care of me each day and night. I am due on February 21, 2014 with my (unknown gender) little bean ♥

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Jessica - posted on 04/01/2014

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Dang that's crazy.... Amy Dawn Smith.. she just put you out like that unun..

Katrina - posted on 04/01/2014

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I was 15 when I got pregnant with my baby girl my boyfriend was 17. We been together 8 yeas and we are still together I love him with all my hart and he love me. When I got pregnant I didn't want to tell my mom because I know that she was going to be mad at me I had plains to finish school. When I told her she was mad I told me I had to go move with my dad. My boyfriend was mad because he was not going to see his baby being born I was sad cause I want him there with me. When I had maya I was so happy and my boyfriend was happy too and he move to North Carolina with me. Now he has a full time job and I'm going back to school and my dad watch maya when we at school or at work

Khalia - posted on 03/06/2014

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I had sex for the first time with my boyfriend last year May and that's when I fell pregnant. At that time we had been dating for 9 months. Sadly, I had a miscarriage in July, and even though the baby wasn't planned, it still hurt us both very much. Since then, I have been on the pill but to our surprise, I ended up pregnant again in January (he must have some super sperm or something!) and we are happy but it seems so quick. I only just turned 16 in February and he's 18 currently, both still in full time education but he works on a Saturday and Sunday, I'm currently looking for work. We've been together for 1year and 6months now and baby will be here in October, just before his birthday

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I was an inbetween kind of girl. I partied and drank on weekends but kept up with my college course work. I was 17 when I concieved with my boyfriend of 2 months. We were in shock when we found out but soon adapted, our little princess is due in 2 weeks now on the 5th of March. I am now 18 and we are due to move into our our rented house in about a month providing all goes well!! Hoping to tie up loose ends regarding my college course after the baby is here, my tutors are highly supportive and have adapted the course slightly to suit me. :D

Yasmin - posted on 02/18/2014

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Ok so i was 16 when i first started having sex, i was in love with my first boyfriend who was as healthy as anything,he didnt smoke he didnt drink and he ate right,
i was sexually active and had become a women, i was on the levlen (Birth Controll pill) and it wasnt the right one for me, i had stomach aches i was ill and broke out, we started using condoms and then we didnt use anything, i didnt get pregnant, i thought maybe i cant? i didnt think to much into it as i was young and wasnt thinking of the conciquences, we where together for about 2 years and broke it off, i was 18 and was single i went out and was being a young teenager, i couldnt get pregnant? what was wrong with me? all these thoughts going through my head i headed to the doctors and he sent me for overy scans and everything nothing, i wasnt trying to get pregnant i was just curious, so i left it untill the right time came, Meanwhile i met someone i was having sexual intercourse with my new boyfriend who does smoke and does drink alcohol and does smoke weed, we where together for about 1 year before i decided to go back on to birth controll, we where having sex but from my prevous relationship i didnt think i could get pregnant, and to my "surprise" i couldnt.
One day i went to the doctors because i had an intense bladder infection,
he then proceeded to ask me if i was taking any form of birth controll,
i said no, he asked me if was having sexual intercourse i said yes.
My mum was horrifed and she forced me to go onto a birth controll pill called "Yasmin".
I was with my partner for about 2.5 years before going on to the pill.. i was sure i cant get pregnant, so i looked into it after taking it for 2 months and found out it can give you blood clots i soon got off it and streight away i immediatly got pregnant.
So theres my story..i hope i helped..
Dont Give up.
Just keep trying

Amanda - posted on 01/30/2014

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I was a senior in high school when i got preggers. I had it all going for me, i was captain of a dance team had great friends and best of all i was finally free of being in a horrible relationship with my ex. Then i met a guy that i couldn't keep my mind off. We met through a teacher that we both had. We fell in love with spent almost every second of every day together (both in and out of bed lol). We started thinking of having a baby and getting married. Our plans were to get married in march when i turned 18 and get pregnant in May. Well junior (our baby) had other plans lol. We got pregnant in November of 2012 and had our little angel in july 2013. Needless to say i can't imagine my life without my two men. Many people may say we're too young too be mothers, but how do they know what the ' correct' age is? Who inn the hell decided there had to be a certain age to be a mother? I know women in there 40s admitting that they're not ready to be mothers. All i know and care about is that I'm a successful 18 year old who is a nurse with a magnificent husband in a great management position with an incredible son. Our family is full of love and thats all that matters.

Stephanie - posted on 01/30/2014

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Hi my name is stephanie when I got out of high school I had been with my bf for a year my mother moved in November 2011 the year I graduated and I had to move in with my bf I partied my ass off as I was young n didn't need a job bf had his own apartment at 19 I wanted to start a family so we started trying n at age 20 I had my little guy he's 3 months now. I am so in love and hoping to get married soon it's everything I could ever want:)

Jessica - posted on 10/24/2013

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Hi, my name is Jess and I'll try to keep my story short.
I was first having sex at 15 with my then boyfriend because he pressured me to do so, got pregnant 6 months later on New Year's Eve and found out at cheerleading practice when I got a phone call from my ob saying my blood work was back. (BTW I was on the Nuvaring and it disappeared!!!) kept my baby, stayed in school, worked full time. Then I was 17 and got pregnant again on the weekend of my first child's 1st birthday, by the same guy and this time I was on the pill. Moved out with my boyfriend, he did nothing and I worked, I went into preterm labor 2 months early and was on bed rest the day before my senior prom, and didn't get to go to that. Baby was still born a month early and had to be in nice for 2 weeks. After all that bf got abusive in every way possible (physically, emotionally, sexually). I graduated high school and continued to work when I was off maternity leave. Finally got rid of the looser, and 10 months later at 19 married a wonderful man who was 24. We have now been married 3 years and have 2 more children, girl who is 2 yrs and boy who is 4 months. My husband adopted my two oldest because their father stopped seeing them and spends his time with his gf and her 5 kids. So now we're a big happy family, but I know I got lucky.

Carla Marie - posted on 10/14/2013

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I am Carla Marie and this is how I got pregnant. The first time I got pregnant I was 14 years old. I was having unprotected sex with my boyfriend who lived down the street from me. He lived with his father. His parents were divorced. We got to playing around and I would let him touch me on my little breasts and up my skirt in my panties. He would fondle me until I wet my panties and it felt so good because I was not only wetting my panties I was having an O.

One day when my boyfriend wasn't home his dad was there and we started talking and before I knew it I was letting him touch me. I had been having sex with his son. He offered to show me what it would be like to have sex with a man. I have to admit that his P felt bigger than my boyfriends. We got to making love and I held him tight and he warned me that he was about ready and I told him okay let it go and he did.

I got pregnant either by my boyfriend or his dad. When I got pregnant my parents sent me out wet to my aunt and uncles home to have the baby. They my parents and aunt and uncle had made arrangements with a lawyer to have the baby adopted out. I never was told if it was a boy or a girl and never saw the baby.

When I was 19 years old I met a Navy Pilot. He was 42 years old and we fell in love and decided to get married. By the time we got married I was three months pregnant.
I always said we got a head start with having a family. We had 5 children in 10 years. We had them close because my husband was older. I was young and seemed to be able to get pregnant easy and also bear the babies.

My husband passed away after we had been married almost 15 years. We loved each other and I still miss him.

I hate to admit it but I have gotten pregnant a few times since he passed. I love having sex. I also am a pantie wetter. So when I am out with a guy it doesn't take much to get me to wet my panties.

I am starting to go through the change of life and I should probably be careful when having sex but I love the challenges.

How did I get pregnant? It was exciting to have unprotected sex!

Abbie - posted on 10/06/2013

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I was raped at a very young age, multiple times by the same man, my childhood wasn't the happiest. I grew, and in my mind I felt like sex was the only way of being loved and what not. I didn't loose my willing virginity until I was 13. I was madly in love with this guy. He was my best friends brother and you know, my believes in sex. We talked for a while, he was nineteen years old and was about to go into his second year in the military. It was December 23rd when I conceived my beautiful daughter Erella. The sex was terrible. He only thought about himself, it was not even 3 minutes and I had to fake a release for his ego and pride' sakes. I went home, and I just.. I felt dirty. I took a 2 hour shower. I was making sure I had scrubbed ever inch of my body, got rid of the ' evidence ' because in my mind, I was a young little girl, showering and crying as I got rid of everything and leaving zero evidence behind. I still didn't know I was pregnant when I hooked up with him again. (BTW: The first time, we had sex in the back of his car-_-) I was 2 months pregnant when I realized I was pregnant because I hadn't eaten in a about a week and I just faited. My parents took me to the ER and that's how I found out. I told my parents I was scared, my dad demanded for a name but I wouldn't give up that information. I knew that my dad would either beat him half to death or send him to jail for statutory rape. I realized that I could never live with that burgon on my back, to ruin his life. I sent him a letter. I told him I was pregnant. I was not going to tell anyone about him and that I was leaving. I moved to Texas. I had my daughter, and boy was that hard. I was bullies, I nearly lost her because some girls decided it would be fun to jump the pregnant slut. But in the end I had a strong healthy baby girl named Erella. I made a new best friend. She had a brother. I know right.. OHH-OHHH. I was in love with him. I felt the sparks, the electricity every time we touched and he loved my baby, and my baby loved him. He was 23, in college to be an up coming lawyer. He knew the law and told me he was not going to be with me until I was of legal age. My eighteenth birthday was magical. He took both my baby and I to the zoo and a walk in the park. Then I left my baby with his sister and my best friend and he took me to dinner. He had remember everything I had ever told him. I told him how I had been saving myself since Erella which was for about five years. I had told him that I always wanted my 'first time' to be like in the movies. I wanted to loved, worshiped all night. I wanted a white bed, red and white rose petals on the ground and on the bed. The lights off and candles lid. And that's exactly what he did. He made it come true from every detail to the root. That night, he made sweet, passionately love to me. Me worshiped me, loved me. Just like I wanted. It was magical, he even kissed my scars, kissed my tears away and told me how much he loved me, how beautiful I was. That night, I had conceived my son, Dalton Christian. He was born December 23rd. I know, I cant believe it. It was as if it was meant to be that way. I am married now, to the love of my life. His name is Dalton. I'll be twenty soon. Every thing is perfect, my husband is great. My kids are healthy. The only problem right now is my daughters father. He found me on facebook and demands to be with his daughter. I feel terrible. I don't know what to do because I don't want his to be any where near my daughter. I never felt safe with him. I couldn't even think about putting the life of my daughter in his hands. That do you think? Am I wrong for not wanting him near her? Dalton adopted Erella as his own, his carries his name. She already had a father. He loves her, and he hates the fact that he wants in our lifes and hers. Help? This has brought arguments and fights in our relationship. We never fight. It's killing me

KeRashawn - posted on 08/23/2013

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I was 18 when I got pregnant. I graduated in May 2011. I had been with my boyfriend, currently fiancé, only for 1 year. we started dating on his birthday in 2010. We had been thinking about having a baby and starting a family so we started trying to conceive. I then quit trying right after Thanksgiving because I would always think I was pregnant and then took a test only to find out that I really wasn't. Christmas Eve, we celebrated by getting drinks, and having fun. I conceived Christmas night. I then gave birth to my daughter in September of 2012, and then in March of 2013, we got pregnant again. And now expecting this one in November 2013.

Alyssa - posted on 08/21/2013

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Hello my name is Alyssa my story very diffrent from other teen moms. my baby daddy is 26 years old i am only 16 years old. he has a babymom before me they have a daughter and 2 days ago his baby was born.... he left her pregnant before meeting me. well now a couple months after our enganment i here the news that im pregnant i am now 4 months. life pretty hard for me with him having family before meeting me. ZEspecially that babymom a crazy B****... but me and him live togther and are happy but what hard is seeing him to go see his new born and knowing that babymom wants him back.. but i have t leave everything in gods hand. i just cant wait till my baby boy or girl is out here and that be the only person i have to worry about more.. im just hoping for the best. especially that im going back to school after mssing 2 years... smh .....

Clorissa - posted on 02/27/2013

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I feel kind of like the same way, tho i wasnt really the party girl, first time i ever failed a class was RIGHT after i found out i was pregnant. My problem was i was looking for love in all the wrong ways.. i was molested when i was younger
and im a firm believer that thats why i felt like i needed boyfriends and physical relationships. Tho i am still with my daughters father, its been up and down but weve been married a little over 2 years and have created the life we wanted for our daughter because no matter how hard it gets we have to stay strong because we do love eachother and i want to show my daughter that love can overcome all odds =]

*Party* - posted on 02/22/2013

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My Story is long , So I'll try to shorten it xD

I am sixteen .
Have been in foster care for four years now .
When I was little I raised my two brothers ,
and when I was eight or nine I raised the neighbor's son
because she was out partying all of the time .
I moved to this new town right before the school year ,
First day of school I met this cute wrestler kid .
A week later my sister invited him over ,
knowing that I liked him ,
and locked us in a room together so she could ... yeah
with her boyfriend lol .
So for half an hour he touched me and said a bunch of sweet things ,
the all famous " You're beautiful , I won't leave you " etc.
I kept saying "No , I don't think we should , I don't want to , I'm scared "
etc. but he would not listen , just kept ASKING ! :(
So I finally told him fine .
I cried the entire time he did it ,
but he just ignored me .
When he was finished he said , "sorry if I hurt you".
And then he sneaked out the back door and was gone .
The following Wednesday ,
he asked me out and I said yes , so we had sex again .
The next day we broke up :(
A week later he told me just to do him one last time .
Being scared of him saying something during school
or getting pissed at me , I said fine .
After that he was done using me ,
and we stopped talking completely .
I still waved to him sometimes , but he just nodded .
A month later ,
September 18th ,
I had this gut feeling that I was pregnant .
I went to the health department for a free test...
sure enough , I was pregnant :/
I called him immediately afterwards .
At first he said it wasn't his ,
I told him how he was the only person I had sex with .
He started crying ,
told me that I had to "kill it" because "it" would ruin our lives .
I told him I can't kill a baby !
The next day at school
he tried intimidating me I think .
He stood SUPER close and looked into my eyes ,
and he said that I had to be reasonable .
He said he's going to tell his parents ,
and I need to tell mine and then abort it .
I told him I have decided to keep it .
He said at least give it up for adoption ..
I told him I planned on raising it ,
and he said if I didn't get an abortion within ten days ,
he would never speak to me again .
I said " Oh , so you can go on with your perfect happy little life ,
and I have to deal with being used AND murdering my own child ? No"
and so he hates me now .
It's six months later and he still refuses to claim the child or speak to me.
His beautiful baby girl is due May 23rd .
I plan on going to court for child support ,
and of course he will demand DNA testing first .
After that proves he's the dad ,
he will pay child support .
Hopefully he will visit his daughter :(

Chloe - posted on 10/22/2012

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I am 16 I have a wonderful fiancé. Zac. He's amazing. I want a baby so bad n so does he. We've picked out names. Blade for a boy n piper for a girl. I am working at woolworths at the moment n he's on a farm. I hate my job. Zac wants to wait till next year I don't! Help!

BrieannaStarck - posted on 09/15/2012

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I was 16 years old, my boyfriend and I were having unprotected sex. When i got my period we decided to try it out and on my second day of my period (i usually had 6) i ended completely. At first I just thought my period was off or something and just went on with life. Well a month and a half later I never had my period and went to get a pregnancy test and I got 6 positive tests but wasn't too sure until I went to the doctor. When I went to the doctor he made it official I was pregnant but it wasn't with just one it was with TWO! Now, I and my now husband, who is the baby daddy, are so grateful for our 18 month old daughter and son Adelyn and Ezekial and I couldn't ask for anything better.

Gloria454 - posted on 02/21/2012

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Hi, my sister had the same situation she turned to be pregnant when she was only 16, I was the first person to know so I surfed the Net trying to find info to help this site I like the most https://saymommy.com/c/pregnancy/ I hope it'll help you too!!!

Erin - posted on 02/20/2012

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I was 19 when I fell pregnant, and I too was in a serious relationship. Before falling pregannt with my son I actually fell pregnant when my boyfriend and I had been together for just five months. However, that baby wasn't to be and I lost it before it even began. However, I then fell pregnant again in July of 2008 when we had been together for eight months. We were both 19, but he did the right thing and stuck by me. We have now been together for almost four and half years, and our son Connor will be 3 next month and I will be 23. We are very happy with our little surprise and look forward to adding to our family in the future.

Natasha - posted on 02/06/2012

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I had been with my now hubby for only a short time ibwas on birth control and all the good stuff but one night in the heat of thing we were like oo we will be fine I wa just about 17 at this point well guess what nope just after the new year I clicked in that I was prego only a or so we were both shocked and sat for a long time talking about our options he stuported me in what ever I thought I should do as it was me haven the baby he had a full time job an was done school so we new baby would have support so we decide to have the baby ( ultra sound day came and guess what it's twins ) my young body was in able at that time to hold them I lost them at 6 months devictaed the bothbofbus and found out I might not be able to have kids so we planed for me to Finnish high school and move in with him and that's just what I did at 18 we thought lets try and see what happens I know am still with the love I my life we have three butiful boys who are know 4,2 and 1 and have been to heather going in 7 years and married for 4 could be happer

Veronica - posted on 01/31/2012

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My now husband and I concieved 3 months into our relationship. He's a cheapo and bought the on sale almost expired value pack of condoms and the first one we used broke. Unfortunately I found out while he was away visiting his family

Mom2Be - posted on 01/25/2012

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Well me and my boyfriend planned our baby. At the ages of 18 and 20 we decided that we wanted a family together. The person I'm having my baby with was the first one I had sex with, the first one I kissed, he was my first everything and we finally decided that we wanted to have a baby. I'm currently 5 weeks. The story with us is that I'm starting school next month on the first and right now he's in Afghanistan because he's a National Guard, he'll be home in April. When he get's here were going to move in together. We're currently engaged and we're going to get married a while after he gets home. I'm currently 19 and he's 20.

Kayla - posted on 01/18/2012

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ya i was the party girl but when i met my bf i stopped all that right away. we were together for a little over 6 months when i had gotten pregnant. unfortunately i was on b.c and well it didnt work. 9 months later we had our daughter athena on june 21st 2009. ya it was hard because i was just going into my grade 11 year. i ended up dropping out because of all the rumours and back lash from those i thought were my friends. but my bf and i made it through it all. unfornunately things didnt work out between him and i and we had broken up last year. i started dating a new guy and we were using condoms but i had to go off my b.c bacause i was getting lots of break through bleeding, but of course the condom broke and now i am currently 29 weeks pregnant wit my second child. the father of this baby ditched when i was around 2 1/2-3 months pregent havent heard or seen from him since. understandable consitering we were only together about a month b4 i got pregenant. thank god i've got my family and the father of my 1st chikld is still around and has been helping me out alot. its hard being a teen mom and having 2 kids by the time im 20 but im still going to school acing all my classes, have got approved for a place and now just gotta work on moving and figuring out a plan for when i go into labour. but i wouldn't trade it for a minute

Sara - posted on 01/05/2012

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IIm very upset with myself u wilk learn y by readin when I was 15 I startdd datin the football jock and my friends warned me about them but I dint listen 6 months after dating we broke up 2 months later of morning sickness I found out I was pregnant I was devistated but when things couldnt get worst and after dqys of crying I told him on the phone im pregnant jacob he said I have a gf and I dont want anything to do with the baby I cried and cried on my 4 month ultrasound ... They told me I was pregnant with twins in the next ultra sound they said they where girls 1month after my 16 birthday I had kylha and kennedy I was a seriuse mom for about 1 year (wow im seriusly crying will typing this ) when I turned 17 I got pregnant again on my 17 birthday with another boyfriend my family hated me my mom was so disapointed my boyfriend loved kennedy and kylha very much so when I told him I was pregnant I thought hed be happy then he told me u had kennedy and kylha u



U can have that baby with anyone else I cried was deprresed for months finaly it was the 5 month I had a big stomach and I wasnt sure if I should have that big a stomach at 5 months I wint to the ultrasound and sure inof they told me luky me I was having twins again in th. Next ultrasound they told me it was a boy and a girl 2 months before turnin 19 I gave birth to dakota and david I love my 4 babys soo much I dont regret havin them there great I just wish that I could have had them at a diffrint time in my life im now 20 married to my husband michael and we added 2 extra babys not twins r son zacharies and r recently new baby dawn I luv my family and im proud to say that yes im 20 years old and have 6 kids kylha/kennedy/dakota/david

/zacharies and dawn ♥



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Megan - posted on 09/25/2009

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I was 19 when me and my fiance conceived our son. I had been out of high school for almost 2 years and was a full time student and worked full time. Me and my fiance had been split up a few weeks when I found out I was pregnant I was trying to figure out if being committed was what I really wanted. I did not discover I was pregnant until I was 11 weeks and the only way I did find out was I went to by new jeans and could not get into my usual size they would not button I have never had a regular period until now that I am on birth control. But me and my fiance worked things out and he was there the whole way and now we are a happy little family we are still not married but who says you have to be married to have a family? We both work full time and I go to school full time and my fiance is trying to get into the Navy. I have always wanted to be a mom I never dreamed it would be so soon but God had different plans for me. I am so blessed I couldnt ask for anything more the smile on my son's face lets me know that even though we struggle sometimes it is all worth it in the end. I am a firm believer in everything happens for a reason and I thank God every night for putting my son in my life being a mom is the best thing in the entire world. And I always keep in mind God never gives you more than you can handle

Stephanie - posted on 09/25/2009

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me and my boyfriend were a year and a half living together and we wanted to start a family, at the time we were very in love, both had good jobs, i was 19 he was 20, we wanted a big family 6-8 children before we turned 30. i came off the pill in april and bascially became pregnant straight away, we both worked full time during my pregnancy, saved for all the baby equipment, a house and we even hot a holiday before daniel came along,i gave birth 23.2.09 to daniel 8 pound 7 ounces, about a month after daniels birth my realtionship went down the drain, there was lack of help from his dad, and due to dis i have been dignoased with severe postnatal depression and anxiety, his dad walked out when he was 3 months old, has broke my heart and left me completely drained, it feels like a battlefield that i cannot win,



its amazing how u can love some one so stongly u'd be devasted if harm was to come to them and in a split second its all gone, ye hate each other



im living by myself with daniel now 7 months, its really hard but wen i look at him im greatfull for what i have and happy to be his mother

Jessica - posted on 09/24/2009

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I was startin my jr. yr of high school..i met my baby's father that summer and i fell head over heals for him. I found out we went to the same middle school and passed eachother a few times then..but we spent alot of time together..and i got preggo with our daughter that winter. I had her that Sept...2mths b4 i turnned 17...she's now 2 and we also have a 8mth old son. I will be 19 in November and my baby daddy will be 21 in Febuary.We are no longer together and i like it this way bcuz after havin kids with him...his true side came out. He was jealous and controling and wouldnt let me wear make-up and all that jazz..now he relizes he messed up and says he loves me and wants to be with me but i cant be with him cuz he cheated and lied...the trust just aint there no more. I am happy to say thou...I am with an ex and he loves my kids...but wishes the kids was his..long story..but i love my life and i love my kids. I wouldnt change them for the world.

Jade - posted on 07/22/2009

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Me and my boyfriend been dating a month and a half. He was suppose to leave to wisconsin for college, but 8 days before he was suppost to leave, we found out and he stayed. It was the hardest decision in my life, what i was going to do. Im glad we kept him, he is my life.

Rachel - posted on 07/22/2009

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I was just trying to fit in. Everyone at school was telling me you need to party and do this and that. So, I did. I started partying and I drank a little bit. And then I met this guy. He wasa little older than me. He told me he liked me and soon we started dating. Then 2 weeks later, I got pregnant. I was 15

Katie - posted on 07/22/2009

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typical high schooler The father and me have been Best friends for 7 years, we started the dating the 6th year i knew him and we were crazy about each other just like the first time we saw each other lol, we dated for like 5 months and it was right before he left for a week for camp tht i got pregnant we didnt kno til i was 3 months but hes stilll around and he plans on sticking around.

Jamie - posted on 07/20/2009

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i was with my sons dad for about 6 months when i got preg and we were completely in love. i am a good student and always have been and i dont party. he was my first for everything except my first kiss. he stuck around till my son was about 4 months then he wanted to be a kid and left me but my son and me are extremely happy and he is 2 now :)

Tessa - posted on 07/20/2009

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Unlike you I was going down a very very very bad road. I had dropped out of high school in the first semester of year 12 and was working part time at KFC. I often didnt show up to work because i was going out partying and started trying out new things. I ran away from home so my ex and i could go out more and get wasted. Thats how i met my current partner Jamie who got me back on track, we were smoking weed and getting drunk alot, but he forced me to go back home to my parents and didnt let me skip work. on new years we had a massive fight and broke up (we were drunk). A couple of days later he showed up on my door step to make things right, if not to get back together he said he at least wanted to be friends, if i didnt want that then he wanted to at least end everything on a good foot. we got back together and the make up sex is what got me pregnant! I was 17 at the time and had lily 2 weeks before my 18th birthday. She changed me and my partner into better people. we dont drink, we dont do drugs and most importantly, we are so happy with our lives and each other. if it wasnt for my daughter i think i would have ended up being found dead in a guttter somewhere.

Jennifer - posted on 07/20/2009

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hi i had my first at 15, me & his dad were so caught up in or relationship & makeing plans for the future we didnt even give a thought to the fact i may become pregnant (i know young love) although it all turned out well we followed our plans & went on to get married we have now been together 9 years (married 4 ) & have two lovely boys, its tough all the way but as long as you have each other & both see it that way you can have the ideal dream family, its nice to here of oher young familys that have stayed together

Bridgette - posted on 07/19/2009

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i had just finished my year 11, had recently gotten a good job with the government and had just broken up with my boyfriend. one friday night i had way to much to drink and when home with i guy i didnt like, i fell pregnant. but i don't regret it. since then i have been in a new relationshi with a man who truely loves me and my child, i am finishing my year 12 and have just started my studies to be a Human resources manager.

because of the town i live in i have been looked at like i did something wrong by falling pregnant after a one night stand but i am happy with my decisions because my partner loves our son and we just look at it like we used IVF.

Megan - posted on 07/19/2009

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I was 18 and livng with my boyfriend at the time(husband now). Wehad always used protection and he also thought he was sterile. A doctor had told him so. We had sex three times without a condom and so happened the third time was the charm. I was so scar when I had my first son. I ws not ready by any mean. And here I am today 27 with 3 boys and another baby on the way! I am very happy!! I was thankful to have a guy that loved me and we have been together for amost10 years! I am glad to hear that u and ur boyfriend r still together! It is a rare that the guy sticks around. So congrats on both of u! It will be hard, but if u guys love each other enough u will wrk through anything that comes ur way, believe me, I know.

Tracey - posted on 07/18/2009

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Hi this is my first time in here. I was 16 when I found out I pregnant. My boyfriend and I, we had been together 12 months, always used protection so this wouldn't happen. When we found out I was pregnant his cousin informed us that him and his mates use to go down to the chemist and stick pins into the condom packets. NICE, just what we wanted to hear. My Bf stuck around for about 3 months then took off, came back once my son was born, hung around for a couple of months then took off again. My son is 17 now and hasn't seen his biological father since he was 3. Luckily I found a wonderful man who loves my son as though he was his own and we now have a beautiful daughter. Everything worked out in the end but its was tough for a while.

Diana - posted on 07/17/2009

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First...how did you get pregnant????? Other than artificially, I think you know how most of us got pregnant. I got pregnant at 16 and had my beautiful girl at the age of 17. I did not drink and did not party. I thought and still do to this day think that I was in love with my boyfriend and the boy that grew up to be the man I married and remained married for 16 years. He sadly left me for someone 10 years younger than me, but I did have the most marvelous child, who now is a professor at highly regarded university. Age is not important in the process of having a child as state of mind. At the age of 17 I was more in tune with my child and a better mother than many 20 somethings that were having babies at that time.

Emma - posted on 07/17/2009

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You're story is lovely. I met my boyfriend when I was 15 and he was the first and last person I had sex with as we are now married. We moved in our own house when I was 18 and shortly afterwards I got a positive result and was over the moon as we had been talking about it for some time but we didn't think it would happen so soon. We married in Jan 08 and our little girl came into the world April 08 and we couldn't be happier

Caryn Ann - posted on 07/16/2009

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Bill and I had been having unprotected sex without even thinking of the consequences. We were each other's first and neither of us knew much about contraception. After a couple of months, Bill suggested I go on the pill. He took me to the planned parenthood clinic (waiting outside - they wouldn't let him in) and they made me take a urine test before they'd prescribe for me. The nurse brought me into a room, sat me down and started talking about abortion. After a few minutes I figured out that I was pregnant, got up and walked out. I was scared, but told Bill immediately. He lifted me up, spun me around and cheered, "I'm going to be a daddy!!!" As we rode home on our scooter, he yelled that to everyone he saw -- the man mowing his lawn, the guy in the car next to us, everyone. I knew then that everything was going to be ok. We were scared to death to tell our parents, but once we got that over with, everything worked out. We got married one month later and 27 years later, we're still very much in love.

Susan - posted on 07/16/2009

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i was 16 and in high school not a bad time in my life or anything, just i guess bad timming. my boyfriend stayed with me and supported me the whole 7 years later we have three great kids and have been married for 6 years.

Justine - posted on 07/16/2009

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Well Kelsey, you already know my story seeing as to how you are my best friend, but for everyone else to know...

I have been dating my current boyfriend for over 3 years and we now have a 1 month old baby. Because I try to take my religion seriously I was waiting until marriage to have sex but then a little after our 2 year anniversary I decided not to wait anymore so we started having sex. 2 months later a condom broke and we ended up getting pregnant because I hadn't gotten around to getting on birth control yet. At the time I felt like an idiot because my friend had just gone through a pregnancy and i should have learned from her experience, but now I am extremely happy with having a baby.

I really did think that Kelsey and me were an exception and that most young people who have kids sleep around, but after reading so many stories of people like us it makes me sad to know that there is such a bad stereotype against teen moms, as this is not the case.

Diane - posted on 07/16/2009

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I was 20 and had moved to a different state to be near my long distance bf. It wasn't until I got out there that I realized what a loser he really was. Among other things, he wouldn't use a condom or help me pay for birth control. I had a lot of cysts though and had been told I probably couldn't conceive naturally so I agreed to keep having sex with him without the pill. Bad idea. I didn't know for 8 weeks that I was pregnant. When we found out, he told me to "get rid of it or give it away." I admit I was so scared I almost decided on adoption, but I couldn't do that. My bf was so horrible to me after I decided not to abort that I left him and moved back "home." He has seen MY beautiful little girl for 2 hours out of her 4 years and only pays support when he is threatened with jail.

Jem - posted on 07/15/2009

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its nice to hear that things can work out for some young couples who get preg... although that is not happened to me. i fell preg to my ex boyfriend just after my 15th birthday. i was with him for about a year before we even started having sex and i wasnt and still arent into the party seen and drin king alot or drugs, tho i was going thro family stuff and i had moved out and was living with him and his family at the time. he was a great bf till i fell pregnat then he turned and started abuseing me physaclly and mentally and cheating on me. we broke up when my daughter was about 6mths after he started abuseing her. i am now 17 with a bueatiful 18mth old daughter who i love to bits and cant imagin life with out her.

Rachel - posted on 07/15/2009

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i was 19 and in college...with my fiance for almost 2 years and on the pill ...we had no intentions of having a baby till i was done with school ..in fact we were in the middle of buying our house when we found out so i just decided to finish school early and here i am almost 21 with a 6 month old ...a house and a full time job...and i wouldn't trade it for anything...its not how i planned my life but there are always surprises!!!

Kelby - posted on 07/15/2009

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i was with my boyfriend for a while before i decided to have sex. i was his first and he was also mine. one time we just didnt use our heads and we did have unprotected sex, i wish i would know what i was thinking that night. but that is how i ended up pregnant. by just not being smart and using my head

Kiri - posted on 07/15/2009

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i was 17 and got engaged. soon after that i got pregnant. now the baby is 10 months and expecting another.. still with the same guy and we are planning our wedding for april next year. so no drunken mistake there.. second one was conceived christmas day.. i know that for sure coz i was very careful after my first.. but i supose she just fought to be alive despite my wishes, but now im very glad she did.

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wow great story!

mine is similar

i met my fiance when i was 15, my mother wouldnt let us date until i was 16 so we had to wait two grueling months! Once we started dating we were inseperable..and he was my first

i dont have periods, never have, and so the gyno said my chances of conceiving were pretty much nil!

since he was my first i trusted him and not once through out our entire relationship did we ever use a condom, besides i didnt believe i could ever get pregnant..we had been dating for 6 months when i moved in with him, dating a year when he proposed, and been engaged for half a year when we found out i was pregnant...hes been really supportive and goes to every doctors appt ...luckily i found the right person the first time around!

Claire - posted on 07/14/2009

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I was a party girl, well more than that I was actually having quite a hard time dealing with a drug addiction and I was in an abusive relationship.
He lied to me about not having any swimmers (lol) and I ended up pregnant at 19.
There is a happy ending, I left him, moved back in with my Mum (in a different country) and now I don't hear from him at all,
actually he's living with his pregnant fiance.

Abigail - posted on 07/14/2009

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I got married to my husband at 17 while he was on HLTA [basically R&R in the middle of a tour, he was in Afghanistan] so we decided to do it then. We started talking about have a baby that night actually and we stopped using anything. Our daughter was planned and we have never been happier. We recently celebrated 2 years of marriage and her first birthday 6 days later :D

Sheri - posted on 07/14/2009

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I met my fiance when i was 14, we dated for about 4 months before i got pregnant. It was a complete shock. He comes from a fairly religious family, and my family was not impressed at all. For me abortion was not an option but i knew i couldn't raise a baby and give him everything i would want to give him. So in may 2005 i gave birth to the most handsome baby boy ever, Gavin, and we gave him up for adoption. I guess you could say we got lucky because my aunt and uncle adopted him and we have been able to see him a few times and even spent a vacation with them! But now i am 19 years old and me and my fiance are the very proud parents of our beautiful baby girl Zoe!!!

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