Wanna know why teens shouldn't have babies???

Mary - posted on 12/10/2009 ( 19 moms have responded )

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After participating in 2 of those "why do people judge teen moms" bitchfests, I went into work last night and was reminded, yet again of just why this is typically a less than stellar idea.
The girl was 19, having her second baby (a 4 y/o at home). When I went into the room, she was sucking her freakin thumb, and would then wail like a banshee "MOMMY, MOMMY, MOMMY" when she would contract. SHe refused an epidural, because she's afraid of needles. ANd then, to complete my night, instead of getting up to use the bathroom, she just repeatedly peed in the bed, telling me she was "too tired" to get up. She also refused to lift her 250lb ass so I could at least change the pads under her...the stink was incredible! Despite telling her that she smelled, and that her baby should not be born in a pool of piss, she refused to budge.

After she delivered, she resumed her thumb sucking, and turned on the cartoon network. She did, however, take her thumb out of her mouth long enough to ask me if we did paternity testing....

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Jocelyn - posted on 12/11/2009

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Quoting Sara:

And I have to ask, men must have some low fucking standards. Some of these women don't sound or act like the most attractive people in the world. Who gets with that? My 400lb niece that just had a baby November 2 is a perfect example. How did that even happen?


I knew a girl in highschool (we had mutual friends) and she was the biggest slut I knew, she'd either slept with or given blowjobs to the majority of the football team (not to sound cliche, and she'd also had 2 abortions in grade 12 alone) she was 5'2" and at least 240 lbs.  She's even bigger now, which makes me smile a bit because she is a bitch. lol

Jodi - posted on 12/11/2009

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Quoting Krista:



Quoting Sara:

And I have to ask, men must have some low fucking standards. Some of these women don't sound or act like the most attractive people in the world. Who gets with that? My 400lb niece that just had a baby November 2 is a perfect example. How did that even happen?





Men will have sex with anything that has boobs and a vagina......well, a lot of them, anyways.






Particularly teenage boys.......



Why do you think you can actually buy blow up dolls?  A guy will fuck one of them and pretend its a real woman, for God's sake!!!

Krista - posted on 12/11/2009

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Quoting Sara:

And I have to ask, men must have some low fucking standards. Some of these women don't sound or act like the most attractive people in the world. Who gets with that? My 400lb niece that just had a baby November 2 is a perfect example. How did that even happen?


Men will have sex with anything that has boobs and a vagina......well, a lot of them, anyways.

Sharon - posted on 12/11/2009

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LMAO Sara.

If they can dip their wicks, they're gonna. Never mind how stupid the girl is, they aren't going to be around to help raise the baby anyway.

Sara - posted on 12/11/2009

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One more thing: Mary, I love your patient stories! And you tell them so well! :)

Sara - posted on 12/11/2009

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And I have to ask, men must have some low fucking standards. Some of these women don't sound or act like the most attractive people in the world. Who gets with that? My 400lb niece that just had a baby November 2 is a perfect example. How did that even happen?

Sara - posted on 12/11/2009

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You know, I went to the Ob/GYN the other day for my yearly exam and while I was sitting in the waiting room there was this little girl, couldn't have older than 17, sitting in there with her mother and her big pregnant belly just acting like an immature IDIOT. I really don't know how you deal with people like that...labor is NOT that bad. Being pregnant is NOT that bad. Blows my mind. Bless you, Mary!

Jodi - posted on 12/10/2009

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It is really sad when they are that unable to cope with it. Where are the parents of these girls (particularly the young ones - 14,15, etc)?



While I understand that shit happens, and sometimes even the most careful girls can get pregnant, and many do make a good job of an unplanned situation, would they REALLY want it for their daughters? It would be interesting to ask this question of these same girls in 20 years. I certainly don't wish it for either of my daughters.



My hope is that they finish school and either go to university or find a good job, live a little, establish themselves a little, make sure they are with the right person, before they start a family. If it doesn't work that way, so be it, and we all have to make the best of it we can, but I imagine that is what every parent wants for their daughters in some way.

Mary - posted on 12/10/2009

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Honestly, I usually love my job....but last night was one of the most unpleasant deliveries I've had in a while. And, Jodi, to be honest, I was pretty blunt with her...trying to be nice and professional was NOT going to work with someone like her.

It's sad...it was the most adorable little baby girl. I can only hope the grandma will be the one raising her (although she didn't do such a bang-up job with her daughter, now did she?).

Jodi - posted on 12/10/2009

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Mary, thanks for sharing. It must somtimes drive you nuts to see shit like that. How do you bite your tongue??? I'm not sure I could.

My cousin is a doctor, and when he was first in training, he decided to go into OB/GYN as his specialty.

Anyway, he ended up deciding not to, because his first few deliveries were teen mums who just didn't cope at all well with the labour or delivery (apparently it was REALLY bad). He decided he couldn't go through a full internship having to cope with these things before he could be qualified enough to go into private practice.

Sharon - posted on 12/10/2009

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I get the impression she doesn't do much for herself. I'll bet her mommy does it!!

Charlie - posted on 12/10/2009

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OMG she is gonna have a shit load of sheets to wash between her and her child pissing the bed .

Sharon - posted on 12/10/2009

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Geezus Mary how do you cope? Humans like her keep me from becoming a nurse, honest to god...

Sharon - posted on 12/10/2009

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O-M-F-G almost makes me want to commit suicide knowing idiots like that are out there.

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