Richelle - posted on 06/03/2010 ( 11 moms have responded )
Some people say yes and some say no, so what did you do? I had a girl the first time and this time we're expecting a boy. No one has said anything about throwing me a shower this time, except for the people at my work, so I'm wondering if it's something you should still do or what? I will still need boy clothes, bibs, blankets etc. I have most of the furniture still but will need a new bouncy seat and what about diapers and wipes and toiletries? Am I supposed to do all that myself the second time around? And is it rude to throw your own shower? I'm just wondering what is customary and what is considered rude or unnecessary. Please give me some insight. thanks!