Considering having another baby

Llanely - posted on 09/12/2017 ( 1 mom has responded )

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Hello I'm a 22 year old mother of almost a 3 year old and me and my fiancé are considering having one more baby. Im a stay at home mom and my fiancé has a good stable job , we live with my parents and are planning to move to Las Vegas in a few years. Any advice on having one more baby ? When I picture my family I would like them close to age and by the time I get pregnant my son will be almost or 4 years old. The only problem is we aren't poor we have money for our son to spoil but with another one I would have to work which I have no probalem but it's just pushing me back a bit in having a actual career and also moving to Las Vegas, I'd rather stay with my parents since they are help. I am young but my priority is my family . Thanks

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Ev - posted on 09/16/2017

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I agree with Sarah. I had my kids 7 years apart and not by choice so much as being ready for a second child. Granted they were that far apart but they are close. They have been since day one. But she is right on them being friends younger....that age difference they will be playing with those closer to their age just as mine did.

Ev - posted on 09/16/2017

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I agree with Sarah. I had my kids 7 years apart and not by choice so much as being ready for a second child. Granted they were that far apart but they are close. They have been since day one. But she is right on them being friends younger....that age difference they will be playing with those closer to their age just as mine did.

Ev - posted on 09/16/2017

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I agree with Sarah. I had my kids 7 years apart and not by choice so much as being ready for a second child. Granted they were that far apart but they are close. They have been since day one. But she is right on them being friends younger....that age difference they will be playing with those closer to their age just as mine did.

Ev - posted on 09/16/2017

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I agree with Sarah. I had my kids 7 years apart and not by choice so much as being ready for a second child. Granted they were that far apart but they are close. They have been since day one. But she is right on them being friends younger....that age difference they will be playing with those closer to their age just as mine did.

Sarah - posted on 09/13/2017

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If you can stay home with one, you can probably do the same with two. Planning on moving in a few years seems very vague. Why so far off? How do your parents feel about a newborn coming into their home? Four years is not that close in age either so I would not make that a factor at this point. As adults they will be friends but, 2 and 6 or 6 and 10? Not so much.

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