I CANT BELIEVE SOME OF THE PEOPLE ON HERE!!!

Jenni - posted on 01/04/2010 ( 6 moms have responded )

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I'VE READ MANY COMMENTS ABOUT HOW PEOPLE SHOULD "DISPLINE" THEIR CHILDREN. WTF!?!? YOU KICK YOUR KID, HIT YOUR KID?? WHY DO YOU EVEN HAVE KIDS? DHS SHOULD HAVE TAKEN THEM AWAY BY NOW! THIS REALLY SERIOUSLY FRUSTRATES ME. PEOPLE LIKE THAT WHO DON'T REALLY GIVE A DAMN. MY BABY IS MY LIFE. MAYBE IF THATS THE WAY U FEEL, U SHOULD KEEP IT TO YOURSELF.

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Okay as a believer in "spanking works" I'll speak up. Spanking out of anger is WRONG WRONG WRONG!!!! I do spank my daughter but I keep myself under total control. I give a warning then if she choses to continue with the behavior, I'll spank her. Not beat her with a belt or repeatedly, just a pop. I ALWAYS follow with hugs and kisses and telling her why she got spanked. IT WORKS! I don't spank that often for repeat offenses because I warn and she knows from the last time that I mean what I say.

With that being said, I know not everyone wants to spank and I respect that. Time outs are a great option. They didn't work for me as a child because I like to sit by myself and get lost in my thoughts.

I think discipline (done without anger) comes from love. You want the best for your child and that includes teaching them right from wrong.

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Krystal - posted on 01/04/2010

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I haven't seen anyone say that they kick or hit their kids on here and I'm glad I haven't. I can't believe that. That's horrible. I could never do that to my daugher. I completely agree, why should people like that have kids. I do, somewhat, believe in spanking but only as an absolute last resort. I've never spanked my daughter and I don't threaten it either. I don't even know if I could spank her, I've never wanted or needed to. So far time outs work so I'm sticking with that.

Ashley - posted on 01/04/2010

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that is so true my kids talk back alot and they dont get hit because it hurts me more then it hurts them so if you have any sugestions please let me know I have four kids their ages are 8,7,4,3 and they are all boys ecept the 7 year old and they all dont listen to what I say

Ashley - posted on 01/04/2010

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I understand taping their hands to get there attention when the are little but to whip hit or any of that I do not understand if you have that much anger that you take it out on your children maybe you should seek anger management or something some of these kids can not even defend them selfs

Amanda - posted on 01/04/2010

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ok, so just a question....if I pop my sons diaper to get his attention does that make me a bad parent because I "hit him"?

MAYTE - posted on 01/04/2010

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I HEAR YOU...THAT PISSES ME OFF TO I HAVE 4KIDS AND I LOST ONE WHEN I WAS 5MONTHS PREGNANT..THIS HURT ME VERY MUCH AND STILL DOES THATS WHY I JUST DONT UNDERSTANT WHY IF THERES A GOD HE SENDS ALL THESE BAD PARENTS KIDS AND TAKES THEM AWAY FROM PEOPLE LIKE US WHO HAVE ALL THE LOVE TO GIVE!

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