Toni - posted on 02/14/2012 ( 8 moms have responded )
This morning I got on the computer and decided to check my husbands emails for him. I logged on and found alot of emails from a site called Tagged.com.
If anyone knows of this site, they will know it started off similar to myspace or facebook, a social networking site, but it has now degraded to pretty much a sex chat site.
I read the emails he was sending and recieving, and while it was not all out sex talk, he was saying things like "damn you hot'.
That is not the bit that worries me too much, as my husband and I have a very open relationship. What worries me is I noticed that all th girls he was talking to were all big ladies.
I am very thin, bordering too thin.
I am worried that my husband doesnt find me physically atractive. I know that that doesnt hold alot of ground when it comes to a relationship, but it is still important.
I dont know how to talk to him about this, or even what to say.
I have very low self esteem and cant talk about sex with him.
Any help or advise would be appreciated.