SAD - posted on 11/24/2012 ( 11 moms have responded )
First I know that this for moms, but truthfully I need some advice and i hear this is a great place to start. So I been married for 6 years and I have a 4 year old son who looks nothing like me or acts nothing like me.From the day he was born my family had some suspension about him for these very reason ( my mom right away picked up on the fact that he looks NOTHING like me) . Anyway i wrote this off as nothing,but really it always stayed with me when i looked at him and interacted with him. So I couldn't take it anymore and had some paternity testing done....the results....hes NOT MINE.
This is devastating as this means she had sex with some other man while we were married and hid the fact for 4 years that this was not my child. My wife does not know that i know the truth ( my mom and other family know and they are calling for an immediate divorce)
Im pretty depressed and i dont know what to do....ANY advise would be helpful...thank you for hearing out my story.