Carolina - posted on 11/16/2010 ( 10 moms have responded )
My son told my mother that his teacher squeezed his stomach because he dindn't clean up;I really didn't pay mind at first, but now he is repeating the same story. I'm heart broken, I know kids make up stories, but he is only 3yrs old and is not changing his version one bit, which led me to believe that it's true. My son is extremely bright, therefore, he challenges everything you tell him, he's not always compliant, but does listen when given choices, as opposed to just yelling at him and or reprimanding him. I changed my ways at home and it has been working, he is listening more etc. I'm furious and don't know how to confront the situation. He goes to nursery 3x's a week, and the second week after school started the teacher had her first complaint about my son's behavior stating that he would say no to everything, bla, bla, bla.. I told her to do what she had to and to please understand that this was the first time he was in such structured enviroment. Ever since then, I dread going to school, because there has never been a positive comment about his behavior. One time when I asked how he had done during the 2 1/2hrs that he's there, she said that he wasn't getting any better and, so I said, ok, but aside from his behavior, What else? she was like oh yeah, I feel so bad, because he is very bright etc... There is so much more to explain about this whole situation, but for now I just need tips on how to bring this horrible topic to the table. I can't bare the thought that my son was hurt by his teacher. please help, I will not send him to that school anymore.