Kathy - posted on 06/25/2010 ( 21 moms have responded )
My husband and I have always agreed to have 2 children close in age. When we had Olivia 2 1/2 years ago, we still felt the same way. I lost a child at 12 weeks of pregnancy in January 2009 and he had also told me then not to worry and that we would try again soon. It has now been more than a year since then and he has admitted to me a couple of months ago that he does not want to have another child as we had agreed. I feel very hurt and betrayed and I am now very confused and questioning if I should not leave him. I am not sure I will be able one day to accept his decision. Please help. I do not want to hurt my daughter but the more time is going by the more I am resenting my husband and my feelings for him are starting to change. I have admitted this to him but he still insist that it won't do anything in changing his mind. Please help. I need good advice. Thanks.