Night Terror? Tantrum?

Melissa - posted on 03/04/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )

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Hello! I don't usually post, but I have been experiencing something with my daughter that my son never went through. She is 18 months old. She has been going through some changes in sleeping habits (we are in transition from 2 naps to 1), but she has always been a good sleeper at night and goes down without much fuss.



Periodically over the last month or so, she has been waking up screaming bloody murder. Usually it stops as abruptly as it starts and she will go back to sleep.



This week she has been sick and not sleeping well. Last night she woke up screaming and because she has been sick and I have been up with her every night for the past 4 days I went to get her instead of letting her soothe herself back to sleep. When I went to pick her up she was not standing up waiting for me, she was rolling around in her crib kicking and screaming - like a tantrum. When I tried to reach for her, she hit me and yelled, "no". When she realized I was there she started kicking and screaming and flailing harder. She violently kicked her feet through the crib slats and got her leg stuck, threw her head against the crib, and kept screaming "no" at me. At one point I didn't want her to hurt herself so I picked her up despite her struggles and she violently arched her back and threw herself away from me, so I put her back down. This went on for 5 minutes or so before she would let me pick her up.



It was horrifying for me and I didn't know if I should wait for her to stop or hold her or what.



Her tantrums have always been more dramatic than my son's were and I know with her and I both being sick we are under stress, but this was over the top. Has anyone dealt with this? Any ideas what it was, if I should be worried, if I should talk to her pediatrician, or how I should handle it if it happens again? Thanks in advance!

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Sarah - posted on 03/04/2012

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It sounds like night terrors to me too. My son has them. She probably got worse when she `realized you were there` because you woke her up. Never wake up a child during a night terror, it`s more distressing to them. I find that they are more prone to happen if he`s more tired than normal. Kids actually need a phenomenal amount of sleep. Get a good bedtime routine for the evenings and stick to it religiously. Don`t put her to bed too late. I`d also consider keeping her at 2 naps a day for a while. Good luck.

Michelle - posted on 03/04/2012

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sounds like night terrors to me and there isn't a whole lot you can do for them. Basically sooth her with your voice don't touch her until she starts to calm just keep reassuring her mommy is there. We went through this with my son for about six months and it was horrible because if I touched him it would get worse so I would just stand next to his bed and talk to him rub his back when he would let me and we just waited it out. Though you think she realized you were there she may have been completely asleep as my son would open his eyes and look right at you during his.