Amber - posted on 05/05/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )
My daughters father and I are not together, been seperated for approx 2 years, He has gotten married and has another baby on the way. The new step mom told my daughter to call her mommy so her baby brother (who is not even due until September '12) wont be confused. I dont agree with that, she is step mom but not mommy. We talked about it, things got a little heated over the phone, in the mean time I no longer allow her to pick up my daughter, our exchanges are with dad and I, she comes along but no longer picking up on her own. Since all of that she has been completely rude and glares at me, yells at her husband to hurry up and c'mon during exchanges... We really need to be civil. Today at my daughters tball pictures she was really rude when I was introducing the coach to Kirahs father (SO COMPLETELY EMBARASSING).... Is there anything I can do? If she cannot be civil she doesnt need to be around. Kirah has made several comments about her being "mean" to me, so obviously its bother her. I try not to say anything around Kirah, I dont want her to deal with it. Any suggestions?