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What's the best way to introduce your toddler to their new sibling???

Kirstie - posted on 08/03/2010 ( 1 mom has responded )

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Sarah - posted on 08/03/2010

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I have three kids, 18 months apart each. Each time our new baby was nearing his or her due date, I'd start talking with enthusiasm about the new baby. "Our baby will be here soon! The doctor will take our baby out of Mama's belly and he/she will come home to stay with us!" If you start talking about it too soon, they may decide that its a game, there really is no baby, and its hard for them to grasp that it will be awhile, but there WILL be a baby. Once I went into labor, there was much excitement. "Oh, its time to go to the doctor and get our baby out!" Our boys always met the new baby in the hospital. My husband or Mother in law would bring them and explain, "Mama is in bed so the doctors can take care of her better. We have to be gentle, because the baby is very small. I will hold you up so you can see the baby. If you want to sit on the bed, you have to ask Mama. She might not feel very well right now." Then, the boy/boys were allowed to come in and look. After a minute, Daddy took the baby and knelt down so big brothers could see. If they seemed to be adjusting well, they were then allowed to sit in an armchair and hold the baby (with help, of course!) At any sign of uncertainty or jealousy, we made sure to bring them into the spotlight with a hug, smile, or simple conversation. "Did you go potty at granny's house? Good job!" "You're being so good with our baby. Such a good brother!"
Most kids will be a little jealous, but there are countless ways to demonstrate it. Just be observant and loving. There is no one 'best' way to do it.

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