Melissa - posted on 11/30/2011 ( 10 moms have responded )
My 4 year old has an easy time spending the night with my parents. BUT when he spends the night with my in-laws, its not so easy for him. Which it makes it hard for me to send him there. I know I should take to BOTH places and have him get use to both places and wanna do good but, its rough for me. I spend my night thinking of him and if hes ok and not throwing a fit.
My question is, is it BAD of me to send a note in his over night bag. Its only notes on when his bed time is, to remind them of brushing his teeth, read him some books, make sure he goes potty before bed. Sometimes it makes me feel comfortable that I did it but on the other hand I feel nuts doing it. AND is it bad of me to think of him all night and if hes doing ok?