autism or adhd???

Syeda - posted on 10/14/2017 ( no moms have responded yet )

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first of all sorry for my bad english...I am poor at it.I hope moms wil understand what I wanted to express
My baby ariya.30 months..
She has some sign of autism
1.she didn't involv or play pretend game.
2.she likes new baby,love to being around..play peekaboo or jumping game.bt don't involv any sharing game
3.very tantrum
4.70% time respons while we call..bt sometimes she ignore his grandparents while they call her.
5.when we talk each other loudly near to her she gets very angry, cry.(once we both quarrel near to her,after that when we talk loudly like normal talk she thinks we are quarrel)
6.poor eye contact(bt it's improving)
7.if she hate one place she wil remeber the place and never wanted to go there(one of my pediatric's chamber.she just hate to go there and constantly cry loudly)
8. color,ryth,number can recognize
9.she has echolallia(maximum question she repeat)
do you want icecream?sometimes repeat,sometimes say yes..
10.toe walking(occasionally)
11.she can say everyone's name bt can't say her name..if I said where is ariya,she point herself.
bt if I say what is ur name she answer that question 10% time.
12.she can say what she need.. point it or name it.. like give puzzle,where is ball,where is book?,on the fan,on the tv..so on...
she can say no if she don't want..if I ask her 'want to go out'..she said 'not want to go' etc.
But the most concern thing is she she use the same sentence which I use her.. like when she thristy she said 'do u want to eat water?' (mean she want to drink water bt express herseld this way..this is the most thing she use to talk what she want...she use sentence what I use for her)
13. less interest about outside..she was so happy when she saw his favourite logo.and point this thing,excited about it.
14.she straight her hand amd get hard when she excited
15.One of the bad thing we did was give her mobile from 9m-26 month.her screen time was very much that time
16.doesn't involve in conversational talk
17.no memory recalling..I mean when I told her about yesterday event she cud remember...if I ask her what did we see yesterday?she can't say this... bt if I said yesterday we went to zoo,we saw a big elephant.. she said 'yes' (sometimes)
18.we have visited 3 psycratist already.. 2 of them are not child specialist.bt they are good doctor.they said she is ok baby.giving her so much mobile makes her thia situation .we.don't need to get worried.. last doctor has a full team.they check her they said she has impulsive behaviour. ADHD..nothing to worry about.she is 3 month delay from her average mental growth.just tell me some tips and way too play and joint compression..
I don't know why I am so tensed.it feels like I am dying inside.I can't satisfied.. all I have to fear about autism..she is my angel.my first baby.I can't sleep,cant eat... in my country there have no specialist much about is..I live in a rural area..I want your help.. please help...is she have autism?cz some signs I have read in internet makes me worried all the time...

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Leslie - posted on 10/23/2017

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Hi Syeda,
None of us can really tell you if your daughter has autism, adhd, is behind or is normal just based on reading your post. Some things you say are symptoms of autism or adhd, much of it is normal too for a 2 1/2 year old. Yes, she may seem like she's older and bigger now with a new baby in the house but she's still a baby herself. I would say, try to relax yourself, enjoy your 2 little ones and wait and watch her grow and see how she continues to develop. Remember - you can find whatever you want to prove something to be on the internet so don't get too caught up in what you read there!

Gee - posted on 10/17/2017

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Mom- You are doing a good job and from the post your baby seems to be doing well. She is acting like a typical 30 month old from your description. I think sometimes as parents we want our children to act and to be a certain way, and when they don't we get worried about it. Try to stop looking at the articles online about autism, ADHD , or anything relating to that. It will have you looking at your child as if she has every symptom they listed. You said her doctor said she is okay, then maybe she is okay. Its okay mom for her to be different. That is the beauty of your child. You keep loving her and thinking positive things about her. She is doing well and so are you. Good job!!

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