How long have you been TTC?
My hubby and I just decided to officially start trying! We are both so excited!! This will be a first child together! The only thing is I'm in the military and I'm away right now so for the next few months we may not even be together during my fertile days. But we are certainly going to try every chance we can get together! =)
Julie Marie - posted on 04/19/2010
Wow ! When I read some of the posting it makes me want to cry. I have been trying for a year and I am getting every month closer to screaming. I do not take my temperature as my boyfriend like early morning sex and that you are suppose to take the temperature daily at the same time and before even moving from bed, so before sex of course. At the beginning I stop talking the Patch (birth control) that I had been on for about or less than a year. I thought I was pregnant as I fainted and I read somewhere that it happen in some woman. I didn't go back to the patch after that as it made me realise that I really wanted a baby and that I was ready for trying. My son is now 6 and in school full-time. With my son I don't remember how long we tried, but I remember writing in the calendar the days we had or should have sex and the change in mucus, etc. I remember that early on I had breast tenderness which the doctor said was due to hormone, but the blood test was negative. When I say early, it was about a week after my period. I thought that I had breast cancer. I was busy studing for the month of July so busy, drinking a LOT of water... which I don't drink normally a lot. I then thought that I had diabete. On my Bday I found out that I was pregnant and very pregnant as the two line appeared as the pee when up the stick. On a pregnancy of 3 minutes, mine didn't take even that. 1 minutes at the most. So bottom line is that I know that I can get pregnant. I had a positive in february 2007 which I lost at about 6-7 weeks. I also had a positive this January which I miscarried at 5-6 weeks. We tried not so desperately after that until about November and then I started to log on my iPhone all my period and sex and other relevant or not relevant infos. My OB said that I should try Clomid if it didn't happen naturally after a couple months after the miscarriage. I have an appointement on May 4 and hopefully I will get pregnant this month... otherwise, I am taking the next step. I am not old, but the OB said that there is more risk as you get older and I couldn't bare to wait 3 years for it to happen. At that point I would be crying monthly... I don't understand why for some people it is SO easy and for other it seam so hard. I am still not too bad compare so some of you that is for sure. But, boy when we put our hopes every month into something that we really want and nothing happen and AGAIN the pregnancy test is Negative... I wish the best of luck to all of you with lots of baby dusts.
Andrea - posted on 04/01/2010
For me, its going on 4 years. I've had 3 losses and have one 7 year old son. My current fiance and I just started trying for our first togethter 3 months ago. No luck yet. I'm doing BBT charting, fertility monitor, vitex and a few other herbs. Started some fertility testing and so far my FSH test was negative, so on to the next step.
Melisa - posted on 02/10/2010
a very long and frustrating 3 years and 4 months :( .After trying the opk's,checking cm, keeping track and counting days and all the other stuff,.. We just decided to leave it in God's hands ! ....although we do have a 10 year old (almost 11 as she points out !).. daughter, it has been really hard for her as well because she wants a baby brother and sister so bad :(
Charmain - posted on 02/06/2010
WOW! 6 years?! I guess I have nothing to complain about! Sorry :(
We've been trying since our daughter turned one in Oct 08. We were "unactively" trying until about a year ago, and then decided we should get on it. (HA No pun intended, but it works!!!) Since we originally wanted our children to be 2 years apart, we are a teeny bit late on that one.
I have an extremely irregular cycle (I can go 3 months btwn periods), and probably don't ovulate very often, since my hubby and I have been having unprotected sex since we were dating and never got pregnant, except with dd.
We have tried all the at home ways: ovulation predictors, etc. We are hoping to see a specialist this spring or summer after all other methods failed. We want to try natural herbs before drugging me :). I don't want to have another surgery, so I don't know how far we are willing to go for another baby. I figure we'll get the diagnosis, and research our options :)
Hedda - posted on 11/27/2009
My husband and I have been trying for nearly 6 months now, and it doesn’t sound like long but we thought that it would happen right away. Our son is now 16 months and he just happened we definitely were not trying for him but now I’m desperate for baby number two! Good luck to you all!
1 year, 2 months and 23 days. (lol) not tried anything really yet. We're taking a "when it happens, it happens" approach. But it is kind of bugging me now. I had a miscarriage VERY late on when I was 18, then another in June of this year. I think we're going to have to start trying harder soon, because its really starting to get me down. I'm only 20; it shouldn't be this difficult :(
Bree - posted on 08/11/2009
My hubby and I have been trying now for 3 years for #2 I have a daughter who will turn 10 on thrusday...we have tried clomid for 3 cycles about a year ago... but Its all on me... My body doesnt work right and the doctor hasnt diagnosed me with anything he just kept throwing pills at me... LOL so I decieded when the time is right the good Lord will bless us with another... Good luck to everyone!
I have two girls already, my partner and i would like two boys, but one would be enough. I came off the pill 6 months ago, every month i have sickness, fatigue, cravings, bloating, tender breasts but then along comes my period. I have actually gone to the loo and cried at the sight of my period starting. Everyone tells me "it'll happen when its mean't too, relax dont think about it" but i cant, every month i thnk about it more and more. Its hard but i guess it'll just be so fantstic when i do get a positive test... I'll proberly frame it! lol
Colleen - posted on 07/09/2009
My Husband and I have been trying for baby #2 since Sept of last year. I currently have a Dr. appt. tomorrow to discuss my options and maybe have some tests done to rule everything out. I think maybe I'm just stressing out about it too much. Good luck ladies, I know how frustrating it is!
Melissa - posted on 06/13/2009
Hi! My daughter is 4 1/2 and when she turned one I stopped taking the pill. I havent gotten pregnant yet. I am not on any meds...trying to do this naturally. I am getting a little impatient though, and I am sure that is not helping our situation. I dont know why it is taking us so long to get pregnant since it only took us 5 months for my daughter. I guess it will happen when it is meant to...but it still hurts every month when it doesnt! Good luck to you and everyone!!
Alison - posted on 05/18/2009
we have been trying for nearly 7 years n tried most triccks in the book ,ie wiv a pillow underneath the womans hips n man on top. i find it hard to go wiv my cycle as i can b either late or early n bleed between 3 n 6 days!!!!! Our next idea is to see r doctor n hopefully he can help us. We both want a baby n we know that this is my last chance as im also diabetic n have had 2 caesareans n usually can only have 3 caesareans. So heres hoping !!!!
Arwen - posted on 05/17/2009
Just a couple of weeks for me, just letting what happens happen for my husband. LOL I have baby fever bad. I did a little research this time around, and I made sure to have sex on the correct days. It took over a year for my first, and I think it was because of lube. I found out sperm don't like it too much. There was only one or two times I didn't use it then, and my daughter was the result.
My husband and I have been trying to conceive number 2 for 2 1/2 years now. I've recently been referred to a reproductive endocrinologist and diagnosed with PolyCystic Ovarian Syndrome (PCOS). I'm on birth control pills right now (to reduce the cysts) and will discontinue them and begin Clomid and Metformin (this will be my 3rd try with Clomid but my first with the Clomid/Metformin combination).
Samantha - posted on 03/07/2009
hi i have not used any sort of contraception since my son was born an he is now 11 years old me an my partner have had all tests done an there is no reason why we cant have more children but would be very grateful for any tips thankyou
Kimberly - posted on 01/30/2009
Hi! My husband and I have been TTC baby 3 since March of 2007. We got pregnant in October of last year but I lost the baby at 6 weeks on Black Friday. We have recently begun to try again. I am going to the doctor later this month to discuss fertility.
Heather - posted on 01/21/2009
This is our first month TTC, I don't think it is going to be this month ( I just don't feel it) So we will be trying again next month. I have never charted but have thought about looking into it. I really want an October baby. If it happens next month it would be an end of October baby.
Have you talked with your doctor? I am not sure what all you have tried, but when my husband and I were trying with our son, I used www.FertilityFriend.com to help me chart my basal body temp and my fertility signs. Now that we are trying again I am using the site again. I just did a post about fertility on my blog feel free to check it out http://www.bellytobellybutton.com/?p=20. Hope this is helpful.
Melody - posted on 01/11/2009
My husband and I have only just started. I went off of the low dose pill in November. We have a 21 month boy, Vincent.. We've kind of just have a "when it happens, it happens" attitude about it. Haven't tried any tactics this time around.
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