Kim - posted on 04/11/2012 ( 7 moms have responded )
My twins dad and I have only been together for three years, we have had our ups and downs. We split twice already. I am so unhappy and unsatisfied with our relationship. We fight often, and there is quite a bit of tension. I'm deciding to finally end it since neither one of us are happy. I can no longer pretend to be for the sake of my boys.
The bad, if he leaves, he Will be moving halfway across the country and wont be able to see our boys on a regular basis. He already has a poor track record with his ex and his daughter. He hasn't seen her in 3 years. I'm afraid my boys will never see their dad again. I feel guilty. But i need my happiness, and I want them to know who mom really is.
Am I being selfish?