Destiny - posted on 01/04/2010 ( 25 moms have responded )
When I was pregnant with my twins I had this sort of "fairytale" idea that they would be best friends from birth and would be close simply because of the fact that they are twins. Now that they are 13 months old I have realized this is not what has happened. They pull each others hair, hit each other on the head, push each other out of the way, fight over toys, and MOST of all fight over attention. Does this mean I have done something wrong to not nurture that special closeness that I always hear about twins having? Is there something I can do to make this better? I try to teach them nice touches but they never practice this with each other. I dont want to see my kids grow up to dispise each other. Please help.