Julianne - posted on 01/07/2010 ( 10 moms have responded )
Sorry everybody but I just feel the need to rant and rave at the moment. This seems like the best way to get it off my chest rather than upset others with it. :)
I've got 12 week old twin girls non identical, absolutely beautiful babies and a 3yo daughter also. Before I had the twins, I set up some support for myself by way of my dads partner, who began helping me out at 20wks pregnant and all my friends said we can't wait to visit once u've had the babies. Straight after getting out of hospital, suddenly my dads partner has her own problems to deal with and my friends have all vanished off the face of the earth! Is this saying something about me? All the volunteers that u can get to help u out are unavailable whether from the Multiples Association or the local Child and Youth Health. I feel I'm coping alright with all three of my kids but just feel like now suddenly I have no friends. I can count on one hand how many times any of my friends from babies group and those that even live down my street have ever come to visit us. I feel like the minute you have babies whether it be one or twins, etc all your friends just disappear.......
Does anybody else feel like me?