is it just me???

Amanda - posted on 04/27/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )

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so, got pg and the father became an ass so i left him in sept. then in oct meet a new man. now 6 months later ive moved in with him and he told me now that ive gotten all moved in that he has been and still is cheating on me and will never stop. not only that but he wants her to join him and i in the bedroom. WTF!! really?? what part of i want a life partner that wont lie or cheat wasnt understood from the very first conversation we ever had??? Im so hurt and pissed and i dont even know what. confused a lot too. idk what to do now cuz i have nowhere to go and no way to get my stuff outa here. i feel fucked over big time. any suggestiong welcomed. thanks for listening

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Luvmia - posted on 04/28/2012

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I am so sorry that you are dealing with this. It sounds like this guy is a rebound and he saw that you were in trouble and used your vulnerabilities against you.

The best thing I can tell you is to pray to God for guidance and strength. You can look into shelters with different organizations. Try calling United Way in your state. I know you said you don't have anywhere to go, but try to think really hard of anyone whom would be willing to help you out so that you can have somewhere less stressful.

In the meantime, try not to beat yourself up. We all make mistakes and God forgives. I hope for the best for you and your little one. Take care.