Ely - posted on 02/20/2010 ( 8 moms have responded )
Ok so I'm going through an emotional roller coaster.I know things are suppose to change after you have a baby but I'm not quite sure how. I feel horrible because most wives complain about their husbands not helping with the baby. My husband is the complete opposite. He is so helpful with everything around the house and the baby. We do everything 50/50. He'll do the chores to help me out, stays up with the baby, changes him, baths him, feeds him, pretty much everything. So on a rare days off he helps. Lately, I just feel so over whelmed with everything he works works all day and comes home just to eat and sleep. I just feel angry towards him all the time, I'm real short with him, get bother by everything he says, and since the baby we've only been intimate once because I just don't want to. Granted my husband is not perfect he has his flaws, loves to argue and pick fights with me but overall he's great. I just don't know what to do or if its even normal to be feeling like this. Am I the only one? I don't think it's depression..I think I feel his views on me have changed. He sees me has a mother and not a woman. I think thats why I began to have anger towards him because his attention is always on the baby, video games, and sports. There's no room for him and when he does want to be affectionate I blow him off. I dunno I probably don't make sense I'm just all over the place and I guess I want to hear it's ok and happens to other moms/wives/significate others.