Brandy - posted on 04/01/2009 ( 4 moms have responded )
Ya sounds like the title of my life. My husband's ex wife never stops! We are in court at least once every couple month trying to take his daughter from him over the most ridiculous things. It's just pathetic, then whenever we do have her at our house not even 5 minutes after she picks her up she's calling to yell about how we didn't do something just the way she wanted it. Believe me with her it is all about control! I mean she will call and ask him to come get Sky b/c she has to be somewhere, then he will say yes and 15 minutes later she's calling to change it back. It is almost like she just has to have everything in her control!
Then my in laws mostly my sister in law hates me, b/c I have a problem with the fact that she is best buddies with this bitch that keeps doing all this shit (aka the ex wife). I mean if soeone was doing this to your brother would your first thought be hey lets go have a girls day and see My golden child niece and not even bother to come see your nephews or brother? I mean she lives in KY, we live in OH so we don't see each other very often. But everytime she's up she's hanging out with my husband's ex wife and y step daughter, but seems she has no interest in getting to know me at all. His mother used to be the same way, but is now after 3 years or pure hell making an effort. I mean this bitch has been invited into MY HOUSE when she is coming to pick up her child. Invited into his families house while I'm there. I believe we have been around his family 2 times in 3 years that her name hasn't been brought up. How much does an ex have to be apart of your life.! I have an ex I have a child with him and we have issues but NEVER like this we actually get along well for the most part. Of course in there mind I'm just startin drama for them because as Im told "they can talk to and be friends with who ever they want"! Yeah that would be nice if his ex didn't use everything they say about him, us, our home. It's just so aggrevating that no one see things from my point of view! I have tried to see it from there's but any which way you spin it someone intentionally tries to hurt one of my brothers, there is no way in hell I would want to be friends with them. I'm the daughter/sister in law, yet I'm treated like ex and she's treated like she does no wrong, and Im SOOOO to much of a jealous bitch to want to be around! God I had to get that out! I vent about this like once a month! I just can't let it go when it keeps interefering with my life!