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Someone help!!!!!!! Husbands...nead i say more?

Saydra - posted on 03/18/2011 ( 2 moms have responded )

omg have u ever tryed to talk to him about somthing and ther be an ez solution to it and he blows it all out of perportion!
i cant belive he did this!!! ok wel we had 3 dogs notis i said had!! well i told him i wantis them put outside witch is not an unresionabil request considering 2 of thim are pit bulls and one is a mix betwen a boxer amd a mastive bulldog witch r huge!!!! dogs. dont get me wrong i love thes dos ther like family but dixie one of our pits just had pups and she was having problems holding it in whin she had to use the bathroom. thats ok but she was using the bathroom in the house befor ther was just nothing i culd do to get this dog house broke and after her having pups it got wors. gia our other pit was going crasy marking her teritory cuz ther wear new dogs in the house. and lowkey our mastive was a pup so he dident know better. we have had this talk so maney times i just got tirerd of it and told him i was gunna do it (put them out side) and he got so mad he shot them all # of ther i cant belive this!! was i wrong to take charge and tell him that? i just got tired of picking up poo and steping in wet spots i mean we have 2 kids still in dipers im the only one to change them i get know help from him hes always at work or asleep. not to mention that i felt bad about what he did he cam in baling he was crying what was i supost to do i had a hard tim finding simpathy for him is that bad i mean it was hi dision i dident tell him to do it all he had to do it leav them out for a wile i dident have a problem with them coming in to play with the kids every now and then god i fell like he loved thos dogs more than me i swer if it was legal im sure he wuld have marred dixie and not me!!!! just some one plz tell me im not a horabel wife. ;_;

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Saydra - posted on 03/21/2011

ya i knoew i love my husband but sometimes i tyhink i wuld ba safer and happyer sumewer els and with someone els. but i love him to much and i have know wher to go i gave up my family for then thers know way thay wuld take me back and i have 2 kids to suport and no job he wont let me get one. im talking to him about going activ in the army so maybe being abil to be in a better inviornment will help his mom and family cous alot of stres and problems. i just dont know what to do im not even supost to be on things like this site he dosent like me talking to ppl he thinks in gunna cheet on him to tell u the truth im a ciametger away from it im just not happy but i love him so much thats my problem i just cant leav idk

Vera - posted on 03/21/2011

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He shot all of the dogs? Seriously, did I read that right? He was just so violently enraged he decided to shoot his "prized family members" Girl if that’s true you have some SERIOUS thinking to do!! If he can do that to his pets what is he going to be like if you or your children really tick him off? I could understand him shooting the dog because it attacked a child or a person, it was sick, something… but for no reason other than he was mad at you. May want to really think on that one!!

After working in veterinary for over 8.5 years I learned too much about diseases, parasites etc and with two children that young the dogs have NO business being in the house especially if they are not potty trained!! Even a potty trained dog poops/pees then licks its genital and rectal areas in turn that is on its mouth and fur which means what ever it licked is on your furniture, carpet, etc and the children are coming into contact with it. So think of all the worm eggs, feces, fleas, ticks, dead skin, hair, dirt etc that your child will be coming into contact with on a constant basis – now add in the poop and pee that they are really doing… So no putting the dogs outside is completely reasonable.

I’d find safe homes for the rest of the animals you have… if there are any… for fear of his wrath. And don’t get any more until he can control his temper! Totally UNFAIR for the pets on both ends.