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Sarah - posted on 05/31/2010 ( 1 mom has responded )

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Ok, I feel bad writing this but i really need to get this one out or i will blow up. My husband works 5 days a week, i work 3 if you dont include that i also look after our 3 year old 7 days!!!!! my only day off is a tuesday, when my little one is in care. After some stupid argument, he basically says that "its my job on a tuesday to clean and wash" i was gobsmacked, because i have never heard this view before from him and we have been together 10 years! Now every tuesday i resent him and cant help being cranky and moody. I understand that its a good chance for me to get things done without the little one around, but having the expectation that its my job to do that infuriates me! Also i might add, he is so lazy, he cooks one meal (at his own request) and then thinks he doesnt have to do anything for the rest of the week. What a pig! i dont know how i am going to get over this, but i hope it happens soon, because i used to enjoy my tuesdays and now i just spend the day talking and bagging hubby out to myself! grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

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Katie - posted on 06/11/2010

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dont feel bad for writing anything . its a venting page . and i go through pretty much the same thing with my boyfriend. we've been together for a year and a few months my son is 3 months old and i have done EVERYTHING myself with the help of MY family and a lil of his. but him he doesnt do anything! when i had my son i wa sin 14 hours of labour and didnt get to push because he was breech and i was only 2cm dialted i had a c-section i was in so much pain for a month after because it didnt heal right and leaked and such. and did he helpme no he didnt i mean he did a few lil things like heling me to bed and stuff but other then that i changed diapers walked up and down the stairs to warm bottles to feed my son bathed him got him dressed woke up with him and i was suppose to be on bed rest for a few weeks . it drives me insane. he goes out all the time and i dont get a break. if i wanted to go out so does he so he doesnt have the responsibility of watching our son and when i go out i go out for an hour and back home . and when i do get mad at him for always going out and asking him to hold him for a few minutes or even spend time with our son he gets mad . i dont understand the old fashion thinking where every man thinks its the womans job to raise a child like hello!!!!! it takes to to have a baby its their responsibility to help out to !!!

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