That Male Slut I Called My Boyfriend!

Catharine - posted on 02/23/2009

I totally understand your anger...and one thing I can truly tell you is in the end...success is the best revenge. I was with my Baby Daddy for 10 years...and oh boy did we ever fight...and for the longest time, I put up with his abuse and shit (Physical and mental abuse)...and I was so traumatized by all the abuse, that I ended up making alot of bad decisions and turned to a life of crime...and ended up in a jail cell for a few months, while he galavanted his ass around doing what ever the hell he wanted to do....I am now on probation...and am also a new mommy. The deadbeat has only seen his son once, and that was because he lived at his sisters, and I wanted to actually visit with his sister...not him...but now things are great with me....I have a healthy beautiful baby boy, have a great job, and have a wonderful relationship with my family...(which I did not have when I was with the father...my family hated him!!!!), and have a brand new life ahead of me...I have gained my self esteem back...slowly but surely...am starting my own business...and am doing so well now....the father on the other hand, is living in a crappy apartment, with three cats, no furniture, is a food delivery driver at nights, and is in court today, cause he got pulled over for Drinking and Driving...haha...the jerk is gonna lose his license, and wont even be able to do his delivery job!!!! hahah!!! Karma's a real bitch!!!

Tracey - posted on 02/17/2009

Sara.......ROFLMAO! I have to laugh at this one. It's a country song waiting to be written.....love it , love it, love it. Sorry you have to paint the ratbastards car, and I'm sorry he will be a thorn in your ass forever because of your daughter, but at least he knows he can't "F&%K with you. You my friend are what I consider a true BITCH!! Babe In Total Control of Herself!!!!!!! BOOYAH!!!

Amber - posted on 02/16/2009

You go girl!  I did it once too.  My husband now, boyfriend then, was a drug addict and the day I found out I keyed his car and I called his mom to come and get all of his stuff!  I was about to bust out the windows when his mom pulled in the drive way!  I cussed her because she was giving him some and money to buy more.  But the best part was it was his prized possesion- his mustang!  He thought the dog did it.  I am glad she never told him.  I tell you we have been through some shit.  I just told him about it about 2 years ago.  It happend about 6-7 years ago.  I am sorry you got into trouble with the whole thing.  I would make slow payments to him!  HAHA!  But man did it ever feel good!  Now he has a new mustang but he put it my name LOL!  I guess if any thing ever happens he knows its gone!  But that did make me feel good because he loves his cars and to know that he would do that means he sees a future.  But whatever!  I am proud of you.  LOL!!

Sara - posted on 02/11/2009

no we didnt get back together. i hate him. it to bad that is my daughter's "father" or i would never talk to him again.

Dawn - posted on 02/11/2009

You go girl!  I think more of us should follow your lead!

Sometimes is just feels damn good to "show your a$$" (so to speak!)

I think what you did was great!  I wish I could have that much nerve!

Did you get back together?

Sara - posted on 02/08/2009

thanks for the luck amie. i also regret wat i did. but i cant change it. and oh damn did it feel good!!!!! and for the record SEE-YOU-IN-TEA is cunt and i fucking hate that word. it will get a man knocked out faster than blue balls in a strip joint.

Amie - posted on 02/08/2009

OH Kudos to you girl. Yes it was immature, yes it was probably not the thing to do but he deserved it. I went through something similar with my oldest two's father and well I went a different route though. He didn't have his own car, there was only mine and when I caught him cheating again for the LAST time I beat him (yes I beat him literally) and then kicked his ass out of our house. He did charge me, I have on my record assault charges. Was it stupid? Oh hell yes. Glad I had an understanding male officer that showed up, he didn't take me in he just wrote everything out for me at the house and let me stay home with the kids. Was it immature? Oh you betcha! Was it worth it? A great big YUP to that one. At least he finally got the point I was done with his crap and never did want him back. He's out of our lives totally now and I'm getting married to someone else this summer. =) But I will always remember that feeling and how good I felt in that moment. He was hoping it'd make me miserable but when he saw that I wasn't upset by it, I did my probation, I did my anger management courses, HE was the one that was miserable. He was hoping to make me feel like a fool but all I could do was laugh. I didn't let him have that power to do it and made sure to let him know that because he called the cops on me ( a woman who is a good deal smaller than he is) and charged me with assault it is a matter of public record and he can not change that. Anyone who wishes to look it up could and see he got himself beat up by a girl. That was the crowning moment to it all too. haha. So ya I understand quite well where stupid things happen when "that guy" pisses you off one to many times. I wish you luck in court! It's not that bad really. The Judge I had though was very nice. =)