women on welfare that keep popping out children that they cant pay for!!!!!!!

Rachel - posted on 01/20/2011 ( 18 moms have responded )

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Ok I know a woman she is about 27. I have known her for about 10 years i met her when she was pregnant with her first child we were young so it was understandable that she didnt have a job right away and she had a little boy but then when he was about 2 she had another child still not working and living on welfare. so now she had 2 children and was living off the state not even attempting to support herself and her children. then about 3 years after her daughter was born she had another child with a 3rd guy and was still living on welfare when he was about 1 she met yet another guy and had a 4th child with a guy that already had 2 children he didnt take care of. ok so if ur following she has 4 children in 8 years and has never had a job not just not a steady job but no job at all. now i just found out that the guy now has a total of 5 children 3 under 2 and she is pregnant again. last time a friend talked to her they were talking about birth control she said she didnt want to take it. ok so now she is pregnant again with number 5 with 4 men and still on welfare and keeping the baby... i am just annoyed with women that just keep popping out children with no attempt to actually support herself or her children. i am sick of paying for her children. though it is indirectly it still annoys me. now i understand if u need help for alittle time but not forever..... so annoyed right btw she is a horrible mother she yells and screams at her children they are sooooo bad i wont take my 2 kids around them at all. they are always dirty and have worn out clothes. but she always has her hair and nails done and new cloths so she can go out to the club... ok sorry for ranting for long but this is something that has just seriously P*SSed me off... any other opinions? i hate that women are allowed to just keep having kids they have no intention to pay for them selves

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Sarah - posted on 02/03/2011

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Well said Rachel. Having had two ectopic pregnancies and both tubes removed, I can't extend my family. Both my girls have the same father and I'm still with him. We both work hard to provide them with everything they need, and do not live off the welfare state. Living on benefits shouldn't be lifestyle choice, and it should be made a lot harder to survive with the money given to you. How about food and clothing vouchers instead of money?

Motherwolf - posted on 12/19/2013

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Welfare for mothers is out of control. Just because an unmarried female gets pregnant, she should not be rewarded with welfare. She should be rewarded with sterilization.

Penny - posted on 03/13/2011

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People like that annoy me. If you need to be on or claim Centrelink/Welfare then stop having children. It annoys me seeing how much tax gets taking off my hardworking hubbys paycheck, to go towards paying people like this who do nothing. We only have one income in our house and I dont claim any benefits at all. While I know people who have claimed benefits because they lied about their circumstances-those people annoy me more.

Rachel - posted on 02/09/2011

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that is exactly why i posted this Natasha. it is crazy that these women keep having kids and getting more welfare and then the people that actually need it have a hard time getting anything

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Nunya - posted on 02/18/2014

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you people are disgusting. period. clear statements from the minds melted and forged by the communities you live in clearly. Intolerance is not an attractive feature ladies

Kate - posted on 05/02/2013

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I wonder how many of you slamming these women are also "pro life" and would condemn them for getting an abortion or seeking out free contraception. It's so easy to sit in judgment of others, but unless you have lived at least a month in their lives, I hope you are atheist, because god will pass the same level of judgment on YOU. Are there welfare cheats? Yes. Are there members of Congress that use their insider info to get rich? Yes. Are there anti-gay activists who are secretly gay? Yes. You are just condemning other moms to make yourselves feel better. Shame. On. You.

Ashley - posted on 03/10/2013

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My cousin has 4 girls and 1 boy, 3 baby daddies, which she is living with the last one, she doesn't work and is 29, so I know how you feel, to bring innocent babies into this world just for welfare isn't the way to go, my cousin needs to seek help before she wants another one soon....her boyfriend must like the welfare as well since he's the only one working and paying for everything

Tiffany Dawn - posted on 12/30/2012

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i so agree with you my sister is this girl your talking about to a tee. she has never had a job sits at home all day yelling at her kids. she is on welfare and her bf of 8 years is also on welfare and he works as well and they have their family allowence and gst!! but the thing is they can never afford to feed their kids which is shocking when they have soooo much money coming in.its all spent on weed and gambling!! sorry for ranting but it pisses me off too especially when its my own sister!

Kathryn - posted on 12/29/2012

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Rachel,
A great post.
You will never change the "I'm entitled" mentality. The government will need to change rules.

If they stopped allowing teenage mothers from even qualifying for welfare, it would stop a good part.Their partners, families, friends will either take care of them, or they will get their act together and get a job. Another option is adoption.
You'd be amazed how quickly the welfare birth rate will decrease.

If they make work mandatory for all able bodied recipients, it will stop a lot of the baby popping mothers.

The people who spout off about not being "fair", well chances are they are part of the problem group I am referring to.

Babymama31612 - posted on 11/28/2012

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Oh shut up Rachel for real instead of talking shit about others people mind your own bizz you ain't the one Gavin all them kids are you? No so stfu geez people like you annoy the hell outa me and needs to get slap .

Mel - posted on 03/10/2011

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its sad. They should just cut people like that off. Im tired myself of seeing people who sit and complain but dont want to get off their butt and work. These girls are all over the places. But what can you do

Christina - posted on 03/07/2011

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I personally feel that if you are on welfare and do not have a job and get pregnant again WHILE on welfare, you should not be allowed to receive any additional benefits and be kicked off everything except food stamps. I have no issues with families using welfare if they need it, but to keep having kids when you don't work and are not supporting them pisses me off. And NO, you do not have the right to sit on your butt at home collecting welfare when neither parent is working and keep popping out babies because you want more. That is MY money you are using to take care of YOUR kids that could be spent on MY kids. I was a teenage mom, and I got my stuff together. I'm a nurse and work damn hard and a lot of hours to provide for MY children as a single mom. I have been blessed with a wonderful fiance (who is not the biological father to any of my four children) who takes care of my kids five days a week while I work, then I watch my kids and my wonderful stepson on weekends while he works (I make more money, so I have the full time job.)

Angela - posted on 02/15/2011

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I 110% agree with you,she seems like a real winner!
Maybe she needs to stop goin out to clubs and maybe she will stop popping out kids she cant take care of...The system is their as an Aide and not as something to mooch off for the rest of her life,but apparently she didnt get that Memo...She should be forced to have her tubes tied cause its not so much she abuses welfare, although she does do it and its wrong,but shes horrible to her children and doesent take care of them, I feel so sorry for those children.

KELLIKAYZ - posted on 02/10/2011

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PISSED? NO. SAD AND HEART-BROKEN FOR ALL OF THE PEOPLE WHO DO THIS, ESP THE KIDS INVOLVED, YES. I WISH THEY WOULD ALLOW WELFARE ONLY FOR A PERIOD OF TIME AND THAT THEY WOULD MAKE EDUCATION MANDATORY WHILE ON WELFARE. OTHERWISE IT IS A VISCIOUS CYCLE AND NO ONE KNOWS HOW TO GO ABOUT GETTING OUT. THE FACT THAT SHE KEEPS HER NAILS AND SELF PRIMPED AND MANICURED IS A DISGRACE BECAUSE OUR CHILDREN ARE BLESSINGS AND GIFTS TO BE TREATED AS SUCH. I FEEL SAD WHEN YOU TALK ABOUT HOW BAD THE KIDS ARE BECAUSE THEY CANNOT HELP IT AND WHILE I UNDERSTAND YOU DO NOT WANT THEM INFLUENCING YOUR CHILDREN, IT WOULD BE AMAZING IF YOU COULD BE THE ONE PERSON IN THEIR LIVES WHO SHOWS THEM LOVE.

Natasha - posted on 02/09/2011

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I hate seeing this! I'm struggling to try and support my 2 girls by myself, receive almost no gov't help (I do get food stamps) and yet I see more women having multiple babies by many different men and not caring at all how they are taken care of while they walk around in new everything while I just bought myself a new work shirt in Walmart for $4 because I'd rather make sure my girls have what they need first!

Brianna - posted on 02/03/2011

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I like the food and clothing vouchers idea. =]

People like this make me SO angry. I know quite a few.
They make it impossible for people who really deserve the help to actually get it.
They set the standard so low... single parent + 4 kids + NO income = the highest need.
That makes a 2 parent, 2 child, working household seem like they're rolling in dough. This is not reality.

People need to stop being so lazy. =[

Dawn - posted on 02/02/2011

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I totally agree!!! I think women like that should be forced to have tubes tied or be put on BC!!! Its not fair to them kids either and women who have so many different babies daddies are also doing it for the child support they use there kids as meal tickets it is totally BS!!!

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