Heidi - posted on 05/25/2009 ( 13 moms have responded )
I am just wondering about my sons bio dad. He lives just over 2 hours away, and he came to town, my home town, and where he is origanlly from this past weekend. Not that I really want to see him, but do you think he came to see his son...?NO! I texted my ex to ask him why he didn't come to see his son, and never got an answer. Sure I got a reply, but not answer to my question. He hasn't seen his son in just over 2 months now, so if it were you and you happen to be in the town visiting with friends and so on wouldn't you make a point of at least trying to spend an hour or 2 with your child knowing you haven't seen them in 2 months? I know I sure would, but then again I wouldn't let that much time go between visits. And to top it all off my ex was suppose to call his son yesterday and never did. How does he think his son feels knowing that he was in town for one and then didn't even bother to call him when he was suppose to. I didn't know it was such a secret that he was coming to town considering my exes wife had it on facebook. So I told my son that his father was coming to town over the weekend. Maybe I shouldn't have, but I did just in case his father wanted to see him, but I know for next time I won't bother telling my son because I don't want to see the hurt look in his eyes when he knows his father is so close, but yet doesn't even bother stop by to see him.