1 baby but he makes it feel like im raising 2!!!

Jenny - posted on 04/30/2013 ( 2 moms have responded )




I know I'm young and so is my baby's father, 20 to be exact. But why in the world are guy's so childish. Like seriously it's like I'm raising two freaking kids. I pick up after him, I'm constantly pushing him to find a job, and I just feel like his damn mother!! To make everything worse we live with his mother. A bible thumped (no offence) who can't seem to mind her own damn business. I got off subject. Any advice on my situation??!!! PLEASE HELP BEFORE I GO INSANE!!


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~♥Little Miss - posted on 05/01/2013




Then move out on your own power. Get your life to be what you want it to be, and if that includes this man, well then he needs to prove he wants to be a part of it by supporting his family and getting a damned job. But you can also get a job if you don't have one.

Michelle - posted on 05/01/2013




You need to lay down the law for him. Tell him to grow up and get a job or you are walking out.

You need to make arrangements to leave because you don't want him to call your bluff if you don't have a backup plan. Ideally you both need to get away from his Mother though. You are a family now and need to do it on your own but he needs to man up first and get a job to support his family.

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